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Old 02-06-2006, 07:42 AM
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What age was your baby?

Hi all! I've been lurking for a couple of months now and everyone seems so nice.

DH and I have completed all out paperwork and now we're waiting for the referral.

Can I ask how old your babies were at referral and how old when they arrived? Our agency seems to have an average of 4 - 6 months between referral and arrival.

I feel like I'm always bugging my SW with my questions and she doesn't want to give specific answers to avoid dissapointing us if it doesn't work that way. I'd just like to hear a cross-section of answers.

Thanks!
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Old 02-06-2006, 08:11 AM
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My son was 2.5 months at referral and 5 months at homecoming. My daughter was 4 months at referral and 8 months at homecoming.


It will vary based on your agency though. Different agencies have different timelines.

Holly
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Old 02-06-2006, 08:33 AM
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Our son was 6 months at referral and 9 months at arrival.

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Old 02-06-2006, 11:07 AM
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Our son was 2 1/2 months at referral and is about to come home at 5 months.
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Old 02-06-2006, 12:25 PM
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CJ was 4 mos at referral & 8.5 mos at home comming.
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application 10/14/04, home visit 1/26/05, referal 2/3/05
I600 to INS 2/17/05, Home study to INS 3/4/05
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Old 02-06-2006, 12:34 PM
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2.5 mos at referral, and 5.5 mos. at arrival
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2/26/05 Initial application sent to agency
3/22/05 Sent I-600A application
4/2/05 Home Study Completed
04/21/05 It's a boy!!!
06/11/05 Rec'd. I-600 approval (I-171)
Harrison is home! 7/26/05
Finally official 7/19/06

Hoping to start A2 in October 2006
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Old 02-06-2006, 02:25 PM
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Our son was 4 months at time of referral and 10.5 at arrival.
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8/12/04 Handed in Application
9/6/04 Completed HS
9/16/04 Received Referral of Ryan Christopher
10/22/04 I-600 Completed
11/1/04 Received I-171 & I-171H
4/14/05 Ryan's Arrival at JFK airport
12/15/05 Ryan's finalization

10/14/05 Agency Called-Ryan has a sister
10/26/05 Updated HS
11/21/05 I-600 Completed
11/30/05 Received I-171 & I-171H
3/30/06 Katie's Arrival at LaGuardia
12/12/06 Katie's finalization
6/29/07 Agency called-Ryan & Katie have a sister
7/17/07 Received her referral & accepted next day
7/23/07 Updated HS
9/7/07 I-600 Completed
11/20/07 Bella's Arrival at airport
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Old 02-06-2006, 06:45 PM
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Our daughter was 3 months at referral and 6 months at placement.


Two years ago our son was 2 months at referral and came home the day he turned 4 months.

Both adjustments have been fairly easy.

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My son was 7 wks at referral and came home at 6 1/2 months we were in april for home coming so we had to wait because of the new year. The wait seems to be forever but it is worth the wait.
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Old 02-08-2006, 12:37 PM
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Our daughter was 4 months at referral. She's not home yet. She'll be 9-10 months old when she gets home.
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Old 02-08-2006, 05:31 PM
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Our son, Jude, was born 7/23/05

He was referred to us on 10/16/05 (same day our homestudy came out of the courts!)

He will be home this Friday (2/10/06)!!!!!

so... 2.5 months at referral and 6.5 months at homecoming.


And...just like everyone has said before, the minute you get the call, you will forget about all of it.....what a wonderful day it has been.
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Home Study Approved 10/16/05
Referral Call ..Baby Boy 10/16/05 !!!
Home! 2/10/06
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Referral Call ..Baby Boy 8/2/06 !!!
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Finalization 8/9/2007

Referral Call ..Baby Boy 11/30/2007
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Sonoran,
Congratulations!!! I hope you have a wonderful airplane day!
-Sara
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2/26/05 Initial application sent to agency
3/22/05 Sent I-600A application
4/2/05 Home Study Completed
04/21/05 It's a boy!!!
06/11/05 Rec'd. I-600 approval (I-171)
Harrison is home! 7/26/05
Finally official 7/19/06

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Sonoran,

YEA!!!!! Congratulations! It's going to be the best day! Enjoy!
Millie
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application 10/14/04, home visit 1/26/05, referal 2/3/05
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Old 02-08-2006, 08:53 PM
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Sonoran - wow, congratulations again! That is so exciting. Do you live far from your airport? We live about 3 hours from JFK - what a wild ride that's going to be!
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Old 02-09-2006, 11:05 AM
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Thank you!!


We live about 45 minutes from Sky Harbor (Phoenix). We are pretty lucky to have an airport so close to home. 3 hours each way would be hard.
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Referral Call ..Baby Boy 10/16/05 !!!
Home! 2/10/06
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Referral Call ..Baby Boy 8/2/06 !!!
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Finalization 8/9/2007

Referral Call ..Baby Boy 11/30/2007
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