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Originally Posted By nina

I'm wondering if anyone out there is experiencing the same thing: we live in a largely Christian, white rural community. We are not the only Jewish family, but close to it. Our issue is with our son's school. He goes to an excellent public elementary school near our house. While his teacher does valiantly present a multicultural curriculum on different "holiday traditions", there is an overwhelming emphasis on Christmas in all forms. My son writes letters to Santa in class; makes ornaments; is asked to make a christmas wish list, etc. etc. Growing up in NYC and attending public school, I never had this experience. Christmas was not celebrated in the schools. How do you all cope with this? Thanks! And happy Hanukah to all. Nina

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Originally Posted By Bonnie

Nina, my son is only in pre-school right now, but he is the only Jewish student in his class. His teacher asked me to bring in a book about Chanukah, and any kind of food associated witht he holiday. I brought in chocolate gelt for all! The made Chanukiot (menorahs), dreidels, and sang songs. The other parents had no problem with ttheir kids making "thinkgs" for Chanukah, so now it's his turn to participate with Christmas.

Perhaps you could look at it as a learning experience for your son. It's great to be exposed to all holiday celebrations. Just my opinion. Good luck.
Bonnie

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Originally Posted By nina

Yes, I did that too. I became a "Hanukah lady" and did a presentation in my son's class and in another friend's classroom as well. What I was addressing here are thorny issues in multiculturalism and separation of church and state, in which minorities are forced to participate in a hegemonic representation of culture - "Christmas=Americanism" It's not a matter of just being exposed (which is good), but of being subsumed in a white, Christian culture WITHOUT diversity. I personally don't think that December should be submerged in any (religious) celebrations in the public schools. Thanks for your considered reply, Bonnie!