[adoptmom_02]

We were in a great open adoption with my kids birth mom. we had a faling out and now it is closed.
I cant seem to get over it. i tried to make contact but did not hear anything from her. there were feelings hurt on both sides.
If you been there or are going through it now please pm me.
thanks

[Emster]

I'm sorry that is happening to you. I have no advice except perhps the passage of time will soothe things a little and cooler heads will prevail for the sake of the kids if nothing else. Can your agency provide any buffer?

[dragonfly1234]

Kim sorry to hear about the loss of getting together with your firstmom. I hope that you both can repair your differences for the sake of both of your children.

Keep us posted on how you repair your relationship with your childrens firstmom. Your ideas could help so many others. Or others may have ideas for you.

[adoptmom_02]

thanks ladies. i hope in time things will change. This is what i get from most people "don't worry about it. and if i was you i would not send her any pictures and letters on the kids."

so of course i cant talk about this to friends or family.