[hiloli]

I didnt mention in my first post but I am an adoptee also, the difference is I was born in america so I did not have that challenge to overcome but I do know the feelings you talk about, that need to find your biological family. I am like you, my adoptive parents are wonderful and I love them very much and dont want to hurt them by searching but I know they would understand. I dont actually want to meet my biological family I would like to see what they look like and know what they are like but for now that is all.

[Indiaadoptee]

That is so neat that you have that connection with his family in India, and are considering adoption from there. Your kid will have a lot of cool experiences in both countries. India won't be a far off land to him/her. It will be real and a part of him/her.