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Originally Posted By Chloe

I need any help I can get. I desperately want to find someone in my birth family but I do not know where to start. Any help would be appreciated.
Thank you
e-mail thomasgt@knology.net

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Originally Posted By Sharla

Where are you from and what is your birth date. do you have any information, and what is it?

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Originally Posted By filly mac

please chloe the first thing to do is register with the ISRR international soundex reunion registery i to have rercently begun my search for my b-girl the regist.is first and foremost because you will need this for many of your posts to be listed on the web,net or whatever be careful of many sites will require extensive info and some of which will be listed to the entire public be careful about the ones that ask for ssn# or money $..... the more trueer sites will not, my suggestion to you as i have come to find out these last six weeks is first to review a site then make your assesment to enter it or not ? lastly record the every site that you register on so that you can get back to each to check in for replies or in this case check and read for replies to message boards i to am in search as you are. i found a sitethat iam partial to entitled owners@adopteesearchgender.orgit was free but they did ask for a contribution the adoptee knew only my dob as the birth mother sealed her records effectively she was born to me 5-03-01 at 8:23pm even though she is soon to be 14 . i cried more then than the three i was present in the room forand watch running around now 9-8-4 ..it certainly is an emotional rollercoaster but i trust in god always to keep my feet grounded and focused on my goal be prepared my computer illiteracy has improved after all this and i still find windows and sites i have never been to god bless you and good luck , sincerely a father again AMEN

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Originally Posted By JOHN

YOU CAN START BY PENITIONING THE COURT FOR NON IDENTIFING RECORDS THE RECORDS MAY HAVE SOME INFORMATION. ABOUT WERE YOU WERE BORN AND MAY HAVE THE AGES OF YOUR PARENTS. THE NON IDENTIFYING VERY'S THERE COULD BE VERY LITTEL TO GO ON AND THERE COULD BE ENOUGH. TO BE ABLE TO START YOU ON YOUR SEARCH.
I'M AN ADOPTEE TO AND I FOUND MY BIRTH MOTHER THROUGH
THE ORPHANS' COURT. I FIRST GOT THE NON IDENTIFIYING
RECORDS AND THEN I PENITIONED THE COURT TO FIND MY MOTHER. WHAT THEY DO IS THE SEND A LETTER TO SOCIAL SECURITY AND IF YOU MOTHER OR FATHER HAVE A JOB THEY WILL FORWARD THE LETTER TO WERE THEY WORK THERE BOSS WILL GIVE THEM THE LETTER. WHAT THE LETTER SAY'S. IS FOR YOUR BIRTH MOTHER OR FATHER WHO EVER YOUR SEARCHING FOR TO CALL THE COURT HOUSE AND THEY WILL INFORM YOUR PARENTS THAT YOU ARE REQUESTING TO SEE THEM.
I DO NOT KNOW HOW THE COURT WERE YOU LIVE HANDEL.S THING'S THEY MAY FIND THEM ANOTHER WAY EACH COURT DOES IT . DIFFERNTLY . GOO LUCK WITH YOUR SEARCH