[Scarlet Moon 13]

Originally Posted by Djbubblz

I don't know if anyone out there cares or deals with the feelings i do but I would really like to make a friend. There has to be something wrong with me. My adoptive mom is cold to me, we used to be really good friends, my birthfamily hasn't talked to me in 3yrs, the only 2 friends I have are so distant we see each other once a month. Sometimes the pain of being alone is more than I can bare. I don't know what I do wrong, I don't know why when I hurt, there's no one there. I really would like to have someone to talk to. This thing called life is just more than I can handle sometimes.

DjBubblz

See if you can find someone who does adoption threapy.

Even check for some self help books.

ARe you isolating yourself?

Did you cut your bfamily off to did they just stop?

Hugs

[FallenChild]

check out the chat room at adoptioncrossroads.org each night at 11 pm

[73babycornish]

i understand how you feel, only adoptees can truly know the pain of adoption. it is under-estimated how it affects us but there is help with web sites like this. seek comfort in others being the same as you, no one can heal your pain but it helps to know that they care, big hugs to you xxxx

[UniqueWeirdo]

Well I can relate to you. I havent found my Bparents yet. But growing up I looked nothing like my AParents... I dont act anything like them. Then I found out I was adopted when I was 11.. The only person I really know love me was my ADad who died when i was 15. Now my AMom... she doesnt even really know who I am.. We barely talk. we are not close at all. She doesnt try to even have a relationship with me. She hates me. And I feel so alone. The only dad I've ever had is gone. My mom.. is.... and my non-ID info read that my mother has alot of characteristics that I do.. I understand ur pain.. it will be alright.. Pray and stay strong..thats all we can do

[longingtomeetyou]

wow!
im so sry you all are feeling like this
im a birthmom and it grieves to read this
i sure hope my daughter is ok and one day i can hear that from her
if any of you need to chat
im here most days

take care and you are all special ! remember that!
no matter what life throws your way
we are conquerers!~
lots of love to you all