Family Forums
Parenting Forums
Pregnancy Forums
Adoption Forums
Fertility Forums






Members List Photos Events Local Adoption Support Search Arcade Reviews Membership Upgrade
Welcome to the Forums. Register
If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts.
Forum Categories
User Name
Password

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 07-18-2009, 10:53 AM
blminter blminter is offline
Member
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 106
Total Points: 6,775.14
Donate
adults say the darndest things

so, i've considered myself fortunate that i've not had any weird inappropriate comments from the general public about being a white mom with a beautiful 3 year old guatemalan daughter.

today, i'm taking DDs bike to the bike shop to get it fixed. 30 something year old man helps us. sort of growls at me as i'm asking questions.

after fixing the bike he says, "where's she from". i gave my usual, "she was born in guatemala". then he says, "so what she doing here?". i stared at him and said, "what?". really not believing what i was hearing.

he asked me again. i said, "i don't understand" he then asked again, and i said "she's my daughter". i hurriedly left.

i tried to think of some cute comebacks like, "she's an exchange student". or maybe i should have said, "we're here to get her bike fixed." i mean really.
Reply With Quote
Click Here for More Information
Guatemala Adoption Information
Become an adoption forums premium member to enjoy these Membership Benefits:
  • Remove Advertising
  • Unlimited Arcade
  • Unlimited Attachments
  • Increased PM Storage
  • Calendar Posting
  • Larger Avatars
  • Personal Page
  • Just $19.95 / yr!

  #2  
Old 07-18-2009, 04:01 PM
annaguat's Avatar
annaguat annaguat is online now
Senior Member
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 3,497
Total Points: 39,156.95
Donate
Well that is a new one for me. Bleh! Strange to say the least. Anna
__________________
Annaguat

May 5,2005 start
Aug. 23 I171H
Sept. 20 referrals
Oct. DNA match
Nov. PA received, FC stuck because of holidays
Dec. Awesome visit!
Dec. wait for FC and out!
Dec. into PGN and stuck because of holidays
March 7 OUT of PGN and OUT again
March ? GCBCs and pink
March 27-31 going to pick up my babies!
March 31 Home and forever in our arms.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 07-18-2009, 04:21 PM
JosieWales's Avatar
JosieWales JosieWales is online now
Senior Member

Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 3,818
Total Points: 151,657.36
Donate
I like "We're here to get her bike fixed." DUH!
__________________
Becca
In SE Missouri
www.owenlawrence.blogspot.com

10/28/06 Beautiful baby boy born
10/30/06 Referral of baby boy-Owen Lawrence Armando
8/1 HOME FOREVER!!!
12/12/2007: WHAT?!? Pregnant??? Ian Raymond Keith born 8/6/8



Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 07-18-2009, 08:20 PM
angel_bayou's Avatar
angel_bayou angel_bayou is offline
Senior Member

Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 1,538
Total Points: 50,663.94
Donate
Too crazy!! People can truly say the dumbest things!!
__________________
HUGS,
Vanessa
www.mommyslilblessings.blogspot.com
www.heart4children.blogspot.com

Proud coordinator of Project Santa!! Ask me how you can help!!
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 07-18-2009, 09:57 PM
JillnChris's Avatar
JillnChris JillnChris is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 1,503
Total Points: 42,365.99
Donate
What a jerk. Really wish I could use some stronger language here right now.
__________________
Jill

www.modernmommyblog.com

Referal 03/05/07
POA IN Guat 03/16/07
DNA Authorization 04/25/07, test done 4/26
Visit Trip 05/17-05/22
DNA Match 5/18/07
PA 7/9/07
In PGN 7/12/07
Visit Trip #2 8/9-8/13
Out of PGN: 9/14/07
GC BC: 9/28/07
2nd DNA Authorization: 10/01/07
Pink: 10/16/07
Gotcha Day: 10/22/07
Embassy Appointment: 10/24/07
Home Forever: 10/26/07








Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 07-19-2009, 04:11 AM
cpolmom cpolmom is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 6
Total Points: 254.58
Donate
this is no adult. I would of gotten the name of the owner and called them and let them know how their employee treats people. Makes me wonder how he treats other of hispanic backgrounds.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 07-19-2009, 06:26 AM
Alexismandyjr's Avatar
Alexismandyjr Alexismandyjr is offline
Senior Member

Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 2,008
Total Points: 105,046.60
Donate
Oh my word!!!!!! This would have set me off and when that happens it's not pretty. It's difficult to understand how someone could be so ignorant or just plain hurtful.

I think I would have said "humm, I don't know why we both are in this store, what's the owners name and is he here now?" It would have taken everything I had not to jump over the counter! Uggghhhhhh!!!!!
__________________
www.ourjoyfulblessings.blogspot.com
Juan Roman (J.R.) Born 7/21/05
HOME FOREVER 12/20/06 THANK YOU GOD!

Julian Alonso Born 4/01/07
HOME FOREVER 12/14/07 THANK YOU GOD!!!!!

(Researched agencies 1/09 - 2/20)
Started Homestudy January 09
Signed with Agency 2/23/09
Homestudy completed 2/25/09
Dossier to Agency 3/16/09
Accepted our daughters referral 4/6/09
Dossier in Ethiopia 4/28/09
Group Assignment 5/26/09
1st Court Date 6/30/09
Passed Court 6/30/09
Gotcha Day 8/24/09
Embassy Date 8/26/09
HOME 8/29/09

Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 07-19-2009, 06:45 PM
mommytoEli's Avatar
mommytoEli mommytoEli is online now
Community Moderator

Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 7,681
Total Points: 59,798,386.55
Donate
i like the "she's an exchange student," lol...i will slip that into my pocket for a future witty comeback.

sorry about what happend though.
Reply With Quote
Click Here for More Information

  #9  
Old 07-19-2009, 09:14 PM
jandc's Avatar
jandc jandc is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 967
Total Points: 30,921.70
Donate
I like the exchange student come back. It made me laugh. Could you imagine??? hee hee!!!!
__________________
Proud mommy of 2 fabulous bio boys
1-06 signed w/ agency
10-26-06 match to our baby girl dob 10/19/06!
10/07-6/07 blah, blah and more blah
6/24/07 OUTTTTTT!
7/07 embassy drama
8/3/07 wait it out with Ana
8/21/07 HOME!!!!!!!
Family O' Five Forever!!!!
The journey begins.......
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 07-20-2009, 08:33 AM
LockStock LockStock is offline
Vietnam 05/2007
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 87
Total Points: 5,123.83
Donate
Quote:
Originally Posted by cpolmom
this is no adult. I would of gotten the name of the owner and called them and let them know how their employee treats people. Makes me wonder how he treats other of hispanic backgrounds.

I agree. The owner needs to be notified. Having employees like this can seriously impact his/her business. The worst that can happen is that the owner tells you he knows about this employee's behavior, in which case you can tell him/her that not only will you not longer bring your business to that establishment, but you'll be asking all your friends to avoid them as well.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:05 AM.