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Ummm....did you see this new posting by JCICS?
My heart hurts. It really hurts.
http://jcics.org/Guatemala.pdf
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Shannon http://shannondawn.squarespace.com/ 12/6/06 Carolyn Pearl born 12/20/06 accepted referral 2/16/07 DNA test received in NC 2/26/07 it's a match! 3/23/07 sw did interview with birthmom and fm 4/25/07 out of fc!! 4/27/07 PA!! 5/3/07 into PGN 5/30 ko #1 6/27 resubmitted to PGN 8/22 ko by barrios 8/31 resubmitted 10/29 OUT!!! 11/7 Chimaltenango bc! 11/12 Orange! 11/21 DNA test done 11/26 DNA arrived in NC 12/10 PINK!! 12/17 USE appt 12/19 home and here we are...a family of five |
Guatemala Adoption Information
Guatemala Websites
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awful. just awful. heartbreaking.
Editted to add: As awful and sad as that piece is, I want to add that it's a BEAUTIFULLY written and very compelling piece and that JCICS has done a great service to the children and families of Guatemala by writing such a moving call to action. I only hope it moves the hearts and pens of those in power.
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Julie PGN Waiters and FC List Keeper at http://guatedocs.bravehost.com/ DD (bio) DOB 6/10/05 DS of my heart 9/28/07 Referral: DOB 3/3/07 (almost 7 months old) 10/16 Our baby boy dies. In our hearts forever. DS DOB 01/27/0710/18/07 Referral (8.5 mos at referral) 9/20/08 Home Forever as a Family! (20 mos at homecoming) Last edited by robandjulie : 02-05-2009 at 01:46 PM. |
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so sad, but what we all expected.
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Becky Mom to 5 great kids, soon to be 6!! Including Bella born in GC in 2002! |
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Oh, gosh. We knew it would happen...I didn't know so little was being done to fix it. Thank God this was written.
I hope UNICEF GETS TO WORK. They pushed so hard for this--now they need to help fix it.
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Becca In SE Missouri www.owenlawrence.blogspot.com 10/28/06 Beautiful baby boy born 10/30/06 Referral of baby boy-Owen Lawrence Armando 8/1 HOME FOREVER!!! 12/12/2007: WHAT?!? Pregnant??? Ian Raymond Keith born 8/6/8 |
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So sad. I can't stand the thought of all of those sweet little children being left on the street. It's heartbreaking!
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Alison Formerly TY'S MOMTyler 7-30-04 Ava 6-6-06 Ella 3-1-08 5-17 Dossier Complete 5-20 I171H Received 6-6 DOB 6-23 DOR 7-7 DNA Done 7-13 thru 7-15 Held our beautiful baby AVA! 7-20 Entered FC 8-4 PA 8-21 FC Interviews Complete 10-5 Exit FC Finally! 10-13 Enter PGN 11-23 PREVIO Resubmitted next day 1-18 OUT!!!!! 2-7 Embassy 2-9 HOME FOREVER!!! |
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Editted to add: As awful and sad as that piece is, I want to add that it's a BEAUTIFULLY written and very compelling piece and that JCICS has done a great service to the children and families of Guatemala by writing such a moving call to action. I only hope it moves the hearts and pens of those in power.
I agree, Julie....I agree!
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Shannon http://shannondawn.squarespace.com/ 12/6/06 Carolyn Pearl born 12/20/06 accepted referral 2/16/07 DNA test received in NC 2/26/07 it's a match! 3/23/07 sw did interview with birthmom and fm 4/25/07 out of fc!! 4/27/07 PA!! 5/3/07 into PGN 5/30 ko #1 6/27 resubmitted to PGN 8/22 ko by barrios 8/31 resubmitted 10/29 OUT!!! 11/7 Chimaltenango bc! 11/12 Orange! 11/21 DNA test done 11/26 DNA arrived in NC 12/10 PINK!! 12/17 USE appt 12/19 home and here we are...a family of five |
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I agree we all knew this would happen. It is so sad to me though. I think most of us will agree the system needed some fixing but at what expense???? This is the result. I am not quite convinced it is worth it. I hope the organizations like UNICEF who pushed for this step up to the plate soon before it gets worse.
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Angie It's a girl!!!! 09/01/2006 DOB 09/13/2006 DOR 09/25/2006 DNA Done 10/04/2006 In FC 10/11/2006 FC Interviews Completed 11/09/2006 Received PA 11/17/2006 Exited FC 11/24/2006 Entered PGN 01/18/2007 Exited PGN !!! 01/30/2007 PINK!!! 02/06/2007 Embassy Appointment 02/08/2007 Home ![]() |
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Just heartbreaking. If that was happening in the US it would be on CNN round the clock. It's unconscionable that this is occurring. Thanks, UNICEF. You're swell.
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The reality of this all is truly depressing. Of course, we are still waiting to bring our baby girl home, so any little bit of bad info makes us feel worse. I do believe one day they will get their act together and figure out a way to do international adoptions again. They have to! Too many children are suffering and dying as a result of their neglegance.
As for us, we thank God that someone still cares enough about those of us that are left to do something about it! We need all the help we can get!
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Bio son born 6/26/02 signed w/agency 4/2007 Baby girl born 9/26/07 First pics/referral of our princess 10/23/07 ![]() Family Court 12/17/07 BMI 12/26/07 1st Visit 1/18/08-1/21/08 ![]() DNA Match 1/21/08 CNA registration 2/12/08 Family Court Approval 2/18/08 PA issued 3/4/08 In PGN 3/11/08 2nd Visit 3/22/08-3/25/08 KO 4/17/08 Back In 4/30/08 3rd Visit 6/26/08-6/30/08 several missed BMI's May-July birthmom can't be located ![]() hired PI to search for her-she has moved 4th Visit 9/25/08-9/29/08 1st Birthday 9/26/08 FM and baby interviewed by PGN and baby stays with FM 10/3/08 sent to investigations/Court of Child & Adolescence10/03/08 5th visit 11/22/08-12/1/08 6th visit 2/12/09-2/16/09 Mami visit 4/26/09-4/29/09 Court hearing 5/15/09 Judge Approves US!!! THANK GOD! 5/18/09 back to PGN for final approval-NO WAIT still in Minors 8th Visit 6/27/09-7/5/09 |
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This is sooo sad. My heart breaks for those children..If I had the money dang it I would go there and open up a home for all those precious children of God. It kills me to hear such awful outcome on these children. These children could be in loving homes.
I hate the thought of them suffering like this. May GOD protect these little ones as well as the birthmom and families. Rose
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I agree that it is a very well-written piece, offering a compelling argument. Many nations around the world have urban centers in which abandoned street children are norm. Many of the children born this year will live with their families for 4, 5, 6 or maybe 10 years before they end up on the streets to fend for themselves. Those statistics may never be known, because a country like Guatemala certainly does not have the infrastructure to take a census of street kids. Other kids will remain with their families, but will work in the fields or factories in the same number of years. This situation is not unique to Guatemala, but exists all over Latin America, Africa and parts of Asia. Even parts of Europe.
One other factor which was not addressed in this piece is infant mortality. I remember looking at a chart on infant mortality in Guatemala, and there was a clear and steady drop during the years that adoptions were common. Many birth mothers made the decision to offer their child for adoption during pregnancy, and subsequently recieved milk and food support, as well as pre-natal care. She would also give birth in a hospital, with proper medical care. This is a tough one. Once the woman recieved this support, if she wanted to change her mind, and keep the baby, she might be forced to pay back the cost of the food and medical support that she recieved, and she might be unable to do so. And in that respect, she might be forced to do something that she would not have done otherwise. This is what I consider the gray area of the old Guatemalan adoption system. And I have real mixed feelings about the system as a whole in its previous form. Poor, disempowered women made painful decisions, that no person should ever have to make. But the decisions that those women face today are even tougher. I would be interested to see the infant mortality statistics for this year and the next. The most at-risk pregnant women are the ones most likely to have gotten support via the adoption system. Now that this option no longer exists, has infant mortality increased? I could write on the topic of poverty and adoption and displaced people and the need for economic reforms and global policies forever... but I have a hungry toddler waiting for my attention. Hunger is relative...
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KC 5/06-8/06 Research 9/15 Signed with Agency!!!! The paperchase begins! 9/25 a princess is born 10/2 Homestudy Application and Police fingerprints 10/3 I600A Mailed 10/18 FBI Fingerprints (No ink!) 11/7 Homestudy Visit 12/13 State Fingerprints 12/14 Homestudy Submitted to USCIS! 12/23 I-171H! 2/6/07 Accepted referral of my beautiful daughter 2/7/07 POA 2/22/07 DNA Authorized by Embassy 3/?/07 DNA came back 96.55% 3/?/07 Family Court 3/25/07 DNA Taken again 4/5 DNA comes back 99.2% - told there is a mutation and yet another sample is taken 4/6 My beautiful mother passes into eternity 4/18 DNA 99.9% 5/11 DNA Test #4 Scheduled... don't ask 5/11 Submitted to PGN 5/30 DNA 99.9% from lab US embassy accepts 6/23-6/30 Visit trip! 7/23 PA!!! 7/26 Back to PGN August KO 9/6 Re-submit 10/29 Going to foster 11/5 Out of PGN!!!! 11/8 Final b-mom sign off 11/20 Passport 11/21 Orange 12/2 DNA 99.999% 12/10 E-Pink 12/18 Embassy 12/28/07 HOME!!!!!! http://lianasadventures.blogspot.com/ |
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It is a well written and compelling piece about a subject that needs to get much more attention, but it does pain me that it had to be written. I ache for the children and people of Guatemala. I know some reform was needed but what we see is not the solution. I hope JCIS is able to spur some action.
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Sheri May 24, 2006 - IT'S A BOY (DOB)!!! June 8, 2006 - Referral Nov 21, 2006 - Into PGN w/ PA Jan 18, 2007 - OUT!!!!! Feb 10, 2007 - Together Forever ![]() Feb 12, 2007 - Embassy Appointment Feb 15, 2007 - Home!!!!!
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In 2003 when Unicef almost *won* making Guatemala a Hague country....the lawyers and families fought hard because we knew than that this wasnt for the children but to shut down...the country for adoptions...all other countries that Unicef have been involved in have had the same outfit...Unicef is not going to be an active part of a solution...they have been the problem..and now these little beautiful children...suffer....and die...for no reason...
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I too pray for all the children in Guatemala who need stable loving homes. I agree that YES we knew this would be the outcome of adoptions being halted. The birthmothers would have to make more heartwrenching decisions than giving a child for adoption because there is not that option anymore. It's the many children who truly need homes that suffer!
Thank you JCICS for a great article. Hopefully it will reach those and open the minds and hearts of those who can make a change! Heather |
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I hope that UNICEF is bombarded by this article! What exactly will they think then? They need to finish what they started and begin to help this country and its beautiful children! This makes me so **** Mad!!!
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