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Old 11-13-2008, 06:18 PM
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My God I'm so sorry. I was crying as I read your post. I think for those still in this horrendous process this is our biggest fear. I woory everyday that what you were told will happen to us. Please know that you are in my thoughts. There are no other words that one can really say... I'm so sorry for your loss. Gina
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7/16 POA done
10/12 DNA approval & done 10/19 DNA match
12/3 received I 72: roadblock:
In PGN no date
11/18 1st KO PGN:
11/29 Back In
12/15/07 2nd KO PGN:::
2/8/08 1st visit 2/12 registered with CA
3/08 new POA done, new lawyer
3/29 2nd visit trip
4/10 PA finally received
4/21 into Family Court (never done)
5/20 out of Family Court
5/22 3rd visit trip for 1st birthday
7/9 Finally resubmitted to PGN
7/22 birthmom interview-no problems
8/12 3rd KO from PGN problem w/ original BC
8/22-8/26 4th trip to visit
11/3-11/7 5th trip to visit and get more info on case
2/8-2/14/09 6th trip. He's getting so big
3/2 Back into PGN
3/25 OUT of PGN. Thank God
5/28 Received BC from Sayachen, Peten
6/22 Pink received
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Old 11-13-2008, 06:23 PM
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I am so sorry. I will be praying for your family, and of course, for little Emma.
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Old 11-13-2008, 07:57 PM
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Just wanted to add my hugs and prayers for you, your family, and Emma.

I'm so, so sorry.
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3/2/05 Homestudy complete
3/23/05 I-171H
11/16/05 Baby Maya Leigh born
12/1/05 Switch to Guatemala
1/18/06 DNA results
2/4/06 Updated dossier
2/14/06 Lawyer picked up preapproval
4/7/06 Into PGN
????? Kicked out
5/26/06 Back into PGN
7/10/06 OUT
7/31/06 Pink - Hip hip hooray!!
8/4/06 First time we held our angel
8/9/06 Home forever
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Old 11-13-2008, 07:58 PM
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Sending huge hugs your way. Our prayers are with you and Emma and everyone else.
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2/14 started
2/14 DOB of Baby
2/25 I-600A Filed
4/4 HS Rec'd
4/16 Fingerprints
5/4 HS Amendment needed
6/15 New Info needed for INS again
6/27 I-171H rec'd
6/27 Baby boy referral
7/8-7/12 First Visit Trip
7/26 Bmom BC needed from Honduras
7/30 My BC lost
8/9 DNA Authorization
8/10 DNA Taken
8/16 99.99% DNA Match
9/28 PA Received
10/5 Entered PGN
10/14-10/18 Visit Trip #2
10/23 KO should be back in by Nov 7
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11/22 Second Reviewers Desk
12/19 Third Reviewers Desk for Final signature
12/20 KO #2
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1/8 We are OUT!!!
1/14 Submitted to CR for GCBC
1/21 We have GCBC!!
1/22 Passport Received!!
1/24 We are ORANGE!!!
1/25 2nd DNA!!
1/30 2nd DNA at Labcorp!!
2/6 PINK at about 5pm!!!!
2/22 USE Appt
2/26/08 Home Forever!!
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Old 11-13-2008, 08:08 PM
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I am terribly sorry for your loss, it's heartbreaking and there are no words.
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Old 11-13-2008, 08:15 PM
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Words cannot describe how sorry I am for you and your family. I'm sending hugs your way...

Belinda
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December 06 signed up with our wonderful agency
Baby girl born 12/16/06
Accepted referral of her 3/28/07
Agency hand delivered POA/Dossier 4/23
DNA Authorization 5/17
DNA MATCH 99.99%!!!!!!!!!!!! Sent to Embassy 6/1
OUT of FC and we have PA!!! 7/28
In PGN!!! 8/6
OUT OF PGN!!!! 10/9
BC, PASSPORT and DNA AUTH! 10/18
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Pink 11/8
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Home forever 11/22 Thanksgiving day!
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Old 11-13-2008, 08:26 PM
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I am so incredibly sorry. Will they consider doing an abandonment? That's where our case went after PGN found a fraudulent document. Do you know what hogar she is at? You can pm me if you want.

My heart is breaking for you. I do know this particular pain too well. It is a living death.

It truly is.
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And seeking to find God's will in all of it...

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2005
5/18/2005 Referrals
After 10 mos in process, 2 PGN investigations, 176 days in PGN, and case completed in PGN.... HEAD of PGN refuses to sign

2006
3/06/2006 Abandonment begins...
9/06 First hearing
12/06 2nd hearing scheduled and not done

2007
8/24/07 2nd hearing done (not told), abandonment legal, need COA
9/07 We become sponsors for R and J
12/13/07 Sign POA, praying we make it in time

2008
2/11/08 Find out paperwork did NOT make it
11/08 Paperwork to Guatemala

2009
Working with the CNA to bring our children home
06/09 Paperwork submitted complete to CNA
08/09 Waiting on court document to be completed
11/09 Court document complete, CNA reviewing file
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Old 11-13-2008, 08:27 PM
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I am so sorry for you and your family. You will be in my prayers
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PGN 10-10-07
ko 10-30-07
back in 10-31-07
OUT 1-03-08 Thank you Jesus
birthmom final sig. 1-09-08
3rd visit 1-11 thru 1-15
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BC 2-1-08 finally
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Old 11-13-2008, 08:41 PM
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I have no words to express how incredibly sorry I am! My heart aches for you, Emma, and your entire family. You're in my thoughts.
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Old 11-13-2008, 08:50 PM
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My heart is breaking for you and your family. Words cannot say how awful this is. Know that we are praying for you.
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Guatemala Timeline:
Accepted Referral 10/11/07
12/27/07 to 1/3/08: Visit trip-a tiny taste of heaven!
1/7/08: Our sweet baby girl dies in her sleep

Domestic Timeline:
4/5/2008: Updated homestudy for Domestic done
4/10/2008: Family profile book done
4/21/2008: Matched with a baby already born! (who happens to be Guatemalan American!)
4/24/2008: Meeting our son for the first time!
5/10/2008: Finally home forever!

2009:
Starting the journey again and praying for the budget to fall into place!

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Old 11-13-2008, 08:54 PM
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I am so very sorry. My heart just aches for you. Poor baby Emma...
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Old 11-13-2008, 08:54 PM
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Oh. No.
Poor all of you. What a tragedy, and what a travesty.
I'm truly sorry.
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Old 11-13-2008, 09:07 PM
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I just said a very heartfelt prayer for you and your family. I am so sorry for your heartache.
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Accepted Referral, DNA complete 1/27/05
Homestudy Complete 2/23
171 H - 3/9
Dossier Translated 3/18
Search for Birth Mother - Located 7/25
FC - 7/28
US Embassy - 8/3
Preapproval 8/30
PGN - 9/7
Out! 9/19
BC 9/26
PINK! 9/29
HOME FOREVER 10/03 Hooray!

It's a GIRL, DOB 4-15 -06
DNA auth, 12/11/06
DNA taken 1/31/07
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PA 3/21
PGN 4/2
OUT! 6/6
BC 6/13
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Old 11-13-2008, 09:17 PM
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I am so sorry.....
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Old 11-13-2008, 09:31 PM
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I am so very sorry for your pain and loss.

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