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Old 10-15-2008, 12:48 PM
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Cases without BMI?

Just wondering if anyone else had there FM have a "meeting" with PGN. Our FM and baby had a psych evaluation done. The baby did get to stay with our FM, but we know of others that were taken to a hogar. Has anyone heard from their attorney about what is going on with the cases that are left? Just curious if your attorney is updating you more than ours. We don't know where our file is at right now. Our attorney said he was waiting to hear from Family court. Not sure what that means and trying to ask is a huge hurdle.
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signed w/agency 4/2007
Baby girl born 9/26/07
First pics/referral of our princess 10/23/07
Family Court 12/17/07
BMI 12/26/07
1st Visit 1/18/08-1/21/08
DNA Match 1/21/08
CNA registration 2/12/08
Family Court Approval 2/18/08
PA issued 3/4/08
In PGN 3/11/08
2nd Visit 3/22/08-3/25/08
KO 4/17/08
Back In 4/30/08
3rd Visit 6/26/08-6/30/08
several missed BMI's May-July
birthmom can't be located
hired PI to search for her-she has moved
4th Visit 9/25/08-9/29/08
1st Birthday 9/26/08
FM and baby interviewed by PGN and baby stays with FM 10/3/08
sent to investigations/Court of Child & Adolescence10/03/08
5th visit 11/22/08-12/1/08
6th visit 2/12/09-2/16/09
Mami visit 4/26/09-4/29/09
Court hearing 5/15/09
Judge Approves US!!! THANK GOD! 5/18/09
back to PGN for final approval-NO WAIT still in Minors
8th Visit 6/27/09-7/5/09
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Old 10-15-2008, 03:51 PM
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Yes, we are in the same boat. FM and baby had evaluations and PGN sent a social worker to the FM's house for an inspection. The FM appeared before the family court judge and they approved her to continue fostering.
The judge then gave them two weeks bring forth three things- report from social workers visit to FM, our case/file from PGN and a new pediatric medical eval with HIV, hep, etc...re-testing results.
Yesterday our family advocate said that the judge should make a decision this week on whether or not to approve our adoption.
However, he later called and said that PGN sent our case/file to the WRONG court and WRONG judge!! ughhh! so now they are trying to locate our file and get it to the correct judge.
I think he also mentioned that Family Court had given PGN until Oct 10th to release files for those with missing birthmom.
He said that he was told yesterday that if the judge approves, then the adoption moves forward without having to go back to PGN. We hope this is true so our cases can continue moving without getting caught up in PGN again.
Please keep me posted if you hear anything b/c there seems to be fewer of us left that didn't have the BMI and are still in limbo.
Good luck!
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July 20, 2007- birthday!
August 28, 2007- received pictures!
December 17-21, 2007- 1st Visit Trip
January 17, 2008- DNA taken
January 31, 2008- DNA Results- its a match!
March 7, 2008- Pre- Approval from the Embassy
March 13, 2008- Submitted to PGN
March 31-April 4, 2008- 2nd Visit Trip
May 23, 2008- birthmom interview scheduled- birthmom has moved to another country!
May-July- birthmom still out of country, PI has given up looking for her
July 17-22, 2008- 3rd Visit Trip for Q's first birthday!!

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Old 10-15-2008, 04:35 PM
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Those of you waiting on this

please keep us updated and we will keep praying. Blessings Karen
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8/07/06 Girl born
8/16/06 Referral
10/04/06 DNA Auth
10/26/06 DNA done
11/29/06 DNA-results neg
12/18/07 Private DNA done
01/11/07 DNA-results neg
1/18/07 Babies switched? DNA redone
2/15/07 DNA results pos
3/22/07 DNA auth
7/17/07 DNA auth
7/20/07 DNA done
8/01/07 DNA 99.96%
8/3/07 2nd I72
8/30/07 PA
9/06/07 Entered PGN
11/01/07 KO for missing sig on birthmom BC
11/26/07 Back into PGN
12/04/04 Not back in pgn--lied to!
12/20/07 Back into PGN
12/27/07 Not in PGN --lied to again!
1/10/08 2nd visit trip
1/18/08 Informed BC is corrected (?)
1/25/08 Told by US agency B/C NOT corrected but
we had been registered with CA
1/30/08 Called PGN-Actual KO was 9/26/08!
2/12/08 CA reg
2/18/08 Told back in to PGN
2/22/08 Oh not in --LIED to AGAIN
3/3/08 into the recert side of PGN
3/2208 Back into adoptions side PGN
4/22/08 birthmom interview done
4/23/08 Case approved/ waiting to exit PGN
6/18/08 OUT OF PGN
8/6/08 DNA done
8/25/08 Gotcha day
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Old 10-15-2008, 05:12 PM
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As rough as my journey was, it was nothing compared to this. Your situations are tragic...and so unfair. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you find the strength you need to get through this ordeal.
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