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Old 08-19-2008, 05:42 PM
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OH MY GOD! My mouth is still open! I think that was a great reply. I dont think I could have come up with it. I might have cryed instead... considering I guess you could say I am the one that is "broke".
I think I would like to slug her!!!!!
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Old 08-19-2008, 06:06 PM
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I am so very sorry you had to stand and hear those words. I like to say people like that will say such things need a filter attached to their mouth that can protect the rest of us from their ignorance. You spoke the truth - you were not rude.
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Old 08-19-2008, 06:15 PM
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That was so extremely rude, nasty and out of tone of that woman to say that!!

Hope that no one here on this board who has ever been pregnant and had bio. children get upset, but, it seems to me like some women, - and this is just from judging comments from women from other threads I have read -, seem to look at other women who were never able to get pregnant, that they are not "complete women". Again, I have read sad stories from girls who are to feel less than normal women simply because they could not get pregnant.

This woman's remarks were out of line. To me it almost sounded as if to make fun of the teacher because she was adopting since she could not have a bio. child. Some people here may see it from a different point of view. Of course it is also possible that she just didn't know which words to use but still, telling someone, Which of the two of you is broken? means as if one of them is defective. Some of us are simply not blessed with a pregnancy but that doesn't make us less than a woman who can actually get pregnant and have a biological child.
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You have no reason to feel bad at all. She was completely out of line. Shame on her. The audacity of people is just unbelievable.
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yikes! that's all i can say.
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I would have handled it a bit differently. I would have told her that it was her mouth that was broken and she really should go fix it before opening it again.

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Eye yey yey. Always amazed at the comments people make. I think you handled yourself well.
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I add my vote to you were entirely appropriate & she was the rude one....
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Sadly I think this woman is mentally "broken" Dont waste another moment's thought on her. She's not worth it.
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I am impressed with how well u handled yourself! I would still be standing there open - mouthed in shock from that RUDE comment. I can't believe she said that!

I hope she apologizes to you today!

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Old 08-20-2008, 09:45 AM
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What!!!! You Walked Away????

Are you kidding me, You really walked away!~



Just kidding... YOU ARE AMAZING THAT YOU COULD JUST WALK AWAY, AND IN MY EYES... NO, YOU WEREN'T RUDE AT ALL...

INFACT~ You just showed you were the bigger person here... I so wish I had your strength to walk away...

Instead, I would have drop kick, and sucker punch! HAHAHA>.. And I am not a violent person~

BUt, then again... YOu are the teacher! So, you did the right thing... And, if that parent ever walks up to you again, I would, before anything comes out of her mouth, say... "Well, I was waiting for you to come to me and appolized for your ignorance, and I accept your appolgy and walk away again!"

I wouldn't give her the time of day ever again~!

GOod Luck...
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I am sorry for you having to go through that experience.
You responded appropriatly. That woman was rude and stupid. I have never heard anything like that before.
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How rude!!!! She sounds like such an idiot!
Sorry you ran into her!
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You did way better than I would have. I think I would've been so stunned I wou;dn't have been able to think of anything to say.
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Broken? What a strange expression...Very ignorant at best and rude at worst.
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