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#1
08-14-2008, 11:29 AM
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Whiny, but I can't help it!
I am just so, so sad today. My first mistake was calling PGN...STILL 2nd reviewer. 2nd mistake was calling our agency and asking for an update..."haven't heard anything from the attorney." AND PGN is closed tomorrow.
 I just want to know WHY PGN STILL has our file after our 7/8 resubmit? I mean, isn't 236 days in PGN enough? DH and I are gonna have a FIT if Kate is NOT outta PGN before our visit. The attorney will have to deal with my husband, and that will NOT be pretty.  I know I should be happy about our visit, but I am just so worried we will not be OUT and that makes me sad. Sorry for all the whining. I just am so drained from this process. There is no end in sight.
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11/22/05 Domestic Homestudy Complete 5/6/07 Katelyn born in Guatemala  7/6/07 Katelyn's referral received 9/20/07 DNA Authorization and in Family Court! 11/21/07 DNA is a 99.99% Match! 11/29/07 OUT of FC 12/22/07 In PGN without PA 1/11/08 Previo #1 2/29/08 Previo #2 3/7-3/10 Visit Trip to meet Katelyn! 7/8 Previo #3 8/18/08 OUT!!!  8/27-9/1 2nd visit with Kate  9/2 Submitted to RENAP 10/14 OUT of RENAP!!!  10/21 BC from Coban 10/22 Passport 10/23 ORANGE 10/24 DNA 11/5 PINK 11/8/08 FOREVER FAMILY DAY! 11/12/08 Embassy 11/14/08 HOME FOREVER!  ______________________________ Kim 
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#2
08-14-2008, 11:34 AM
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Kim, I am so sorry! I don't know what to say. Whine away -- you have a right to! (((hugs)))
Praying Kate OUT of PGN!
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Dee Mom of five! 1/25/03 Gabriel born 3/14/06 Carolina born in GC 12/7/06 Carolina home forever 7/8/07 Clair-Elise born 12/26/05 Jesse born in GC 8/28/08 Jesse home forever 3/31/09 Maria born
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#3
08-14-2008, 11:39 AM
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I am so sorry and know that there is nothing anyone can say to make this pain go away!! This process is just unfair and cruel. Please whine all you want...I know I couldn't have gotten through some days without this forum!!
Praying for Kate to get OUT soon!
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4/10/2001: beautiful little girl born #1 2/21/2002: home ________________________________________ 6/18/2007: beautiful little girl born #2 12/07 (first week): Entered PGN 12/07 (third week): Kicked Out 2/09/08 CNA Registration 2/15/08 Resubmitted to PGN 5/20/08 Birthmom Interview 7/4/08 OUT!!! of PGN 8/13/08 BC - Santa Catarina Pinula  8/21/08 Passport 8/26/08 ORANGE 8/28/08 2nd DNA test completed 9/02/08 2nd DNA at the Lab 9/08/08 2nd DNA leaving the Lab 9/09/08 2nd DNA is at USE 9/10/08 PINK!!!!!!!!!!! 9/22/08 USE appointment 9/24/08 HOME!!!!!!
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#4
08-14-2008, 12:17 PM
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This just sucks and I know it. Will you really be able to see your atty when you are in Guatemala? That might be a great help in the ways of getting clear info straight from the atty. Good luck and hang on!
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Lesley Mom to 4 amazing loves of my life Jack, Evan, Harry  and Sofia  Sofia is born 3/31/07 In PGN 12/11/07 OUT 8/20/08 HOME FOREVER 11/21/08
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08-14-2008, 12:26 PM
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It does stink! How many
 roadblocks is PGN going to give you?? I really hope that your dh get's a hold of that att. Vent ALL you want, it prevents you from getting depressed!! I beleive it VENTING!!! You go girl, get it all out....because it STINKS!! I will say a prayer for you and that file stuck in PGN to get OUT.
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3/07  12/07- FC & Received PA 12/28/07- Entered PGN 1/15/08/ KO of PGN-needs 3 corrections 1/28-2/2/08 visit 1/31/08-Reg CA 2/12/08-obtained number for reg CA 2/28/08-resubmit to PGN 3/31/08-4/3/08-2nd review? 4/21/08-Out of PGN God 5/5/08 A-deed signed/BC needs to be reg/w/RENAP (RENAP 4/30/08) 5/16/08-BC completed 5/21/08- ORANGE 5/30/08-DNA sent to US Embassy-waiting for PINK 6/3/08-PINK 6/8/08-Joshua's 1st Birthday  6/11/08- Embassy apt 6/14/08- HOME FOREVER   7/25/08-received registered adoption decree in our state 8/14/08- received USA State Birth Certificate 8/25/08- received USA Soicial Security Card 8/25/08 -received letter fr USCIS-up to 120 days to rec the G-884 VISA info 9/15/08-received G-884 Visa packet info from USCIS buffalo-waited three weeks  4/10/09- G-639 10/16/09-rec G-639 http://pap2joshua.blogspot.com/ 
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08-14-2008, 12:30 PM
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Yeah Lesley, we will get a chance to meet with our attorney. She usually brings the foster mom to the hotel. I am going to demand some answers and ask that we be taken to PGN to meet with someone. I am tired of being patient.
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11/22/05 Domestic Homestudy Complete 5/6/07 Katelyn born in Guatemala 7/6/07 Katelyn's referral received 9/20/07 DNA Authorization and in Family Court! 11/21/07 DNA is a 99.99% Match! 11/29/07 OUT of FC 12/22/07 In PGN without PA 1/11/08 Previo #1 2/29/08 Previo #2 3/7-3/10 Visit Trip to meet Katelyn! 7/8 Previo #3 8/18/08 OUT!!! 8/27-9/1 2nd visit with Kate 9/2 Submitted to RENAP 10/14 OUT of RENAP!!! 10/21 BC from Coban 10/22 Passport 10/23 ORANGE 10/24 DNA 11/5 PINK 11/8/08 FOREVER FAMILY DAY! 11/12/08 Embassy 11/14/08 HOME FOREVER! ______________________________ Kim
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#7
08-14-2008, 12:32 PM
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You are soooo allowed to whine!!!
You can't help how you feel so don't apologize, we all understand. I wish I magic words to encourage you and make you and your husband feel better. However, all we can do is say a little prayer for an OUT!!!
Please have fun on your visit trip.
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Ivan's Mommy 2/1/07- First day of our journey 8/24/07- Received and accepted a referral for my beautiful boy.  10/05/07- DNA is 99.9% 11/06/07- PA 11/14/07- Entered PGN 12/20/07- KO for 4 previos 1/07/08- Waiting to hear if back in PGN before 12/31 1/22/08- Waiting, waiting, and more WAITING!!  2/06/08- OUT & PGN approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2/26/08- 2nd DNA test taken. 3/5/08- I'm soooooo done with the waiting...come on PINK!!!! 3/6/08- DNA at the Embassy. Gimme PINK baby!!! 3/17/08- We are SOOOOOO PINK! 3/27/08- Leaving to go get my baby boy! 3/31/08- Embassy appt 7:15 AM. 4/2/08- HOME!!!!!!! 1/12/09 - We're doing it again! Starting the adoption process in hopes of a Nepalese little girl. 8/18/09 - Home Study completed
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#8
08-14-2008, 12:32 PM
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Girl you vent away!!! you KNOW how sorry I am that PGN is holding Kate's file hostage!!! This whole process STINKS!!!! I mean they have had her file long enough, LET HER OUT!!!!!!
((((HUGS)))) Kim and Zack
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http://matthewsjourney07.blogspot.com/ ~~~~~ 6/19 DOB  7/12 DOR 9/13-16 visit trip 10/5 DNA Test 10/15 It's a MATCH!!!!! 99.93% 11/29-12/3 2nd visit trip 12/20 We're in PGN!!! 1/08 Ko no PA 2/14/08 back in PGN 3/12/08 KO mispelling on PA 4/07/08 resubmitted 5/9/08 3rd trip Happy Mother's Day6/19/08 Happy 1st B-day 6/08 Lost Agency, we are on our own 7/21/08 Leaving to go foster 7/22/08 Went to PGN we are OUT of PGN!! Leave with our file!!! 8/28/08 GC BC !!! 9/2/08 PP,Orange, USE DR exam 9/3/08 2nd DNA done 9/5/08 DNA at Labcorp 9/16/08 DNA at USE !!! 9/16/08 PINK!!!! 9/17/08 USE 9/19/08 HOME FOREVER!!!!!  Zack has ONH(optic nerve hypoplasia) SOD(septo-optic dysplaysia) and Nystagmus, Diabetes Insipidus(water diabetes body can not retain water) SID, is blind and THE HAPPIEST LITTLE BOY EVER!!!
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#9
08-14-2008, 01:27 PM
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Kim - It seems you just can't catch a break with PGN. You have been told so many different things in the last couple of months, no wonder you're cranky. As for dealing with your attorney, I say 'Go get 'em tiger!'.
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Suzanne 06/15/06 - Ana Maire born 06/29/07 - Home 08/19/07 - Joseline Teresa Born 09/04/08 - Home
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08-14-2008, 06:30 PM
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Oh do I know how you feel. PGN/CNA are crazy with all their new rules that they seem to make up as they go. Sometimes I wonder if they really hate Americans and want to make us suffer(lol) My prayers are for you both enjoy your time with your daughter an give the attorney he--.
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4/9 adoption agency 6/21 referral 7/16 POA done 10/12 DNA approval & done 10/19 DNA match 12/3 received I 72: roadblock: In PGN no date 11/18 1st KO PGN: 11/29 Back In 12/15/07 2nd KO PGN::: 2/8/08 1st visit 2/12 registered with CA3/08 new POA done, new lawyer 3/29 2nd visit trip 4/10 PA finally received 4/21 into Family Court (never done) 5/20 out of Family Court 5/22 3rd visit trip for 1st birthday 7/9 Finally resubmitted to PGN 7/22 birthmom interview-no problems 8/12 3rd KO from PGN problem w/ original BC 8/22-8/26 4th trip to visit 11/3-11/7 5th trip to visit and get more info on case 2/8-2/14/09 6th trip. He's getting so big 3/2 Back into PGN 3/25 OUT of PGN. Thank God 5/28 Received BC from Sayachen, Peten 6/22 Pink received 7/1 Embassy appointment 7/2 Visa 7/3 On plane back to USA
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#11
08-14-2008, 07:12 PM
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Kim, I am so sorry. You can vent all you want. But I gotta tell you. I think I would raise holy Heck with PGN. I just don't understand, is your attorney giving you anything besides a bunch of bull? Sorry I turned your vent into a vent of my own for you. All I have to say is GO GET UM GIRL!!! It is time for that baby to come home!!
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http://aveainourdreams.blogspot.com 5/20/07 Decided on Adoption Agency 10/30/07 Found out our DD was due to come soon 11/07/07 Baby Girl Born 11/18/07 Received referral of beautiful Baby girl 12/18/07 Registered the POA 12/19/07 DNA test done 12/21/07 Submitted to Family Court 12/24/07 Told families we were adopting a beauty They all went CRAZY!!!  1/04/08 Dossier Translated 2/08/08 Registered with the CA 3/07/08 Received Pre-Approval 3/09/08 Received Social Worker Report 3/14/08 Entered PGN for the long HAUL  6/17/08 BMI Went Well 7/07/08 Kicked out of PGN - Because of PGN 7/17/08 Resubmitted to PGN again 7/31/08 OUT OUT OUT PGN 8/08/08 Submitted for Birth Certificate 8/11/08 Received Escuintla Birth Certificate 8/14/08 Received Pass Port 8/25/08 Orange  8/26/08 DNA taken
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#12
08-14-2008, 07:25 PM
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Kim...I'm praying for your OUT...you have been through enough torture!! I truely hope you are out before your visit, so you can celebrate and not have to worry about PGN.
LET KATE OUT!!
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