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autism and our Guatemalan kiddos?
I know MANY of our kiddos have been dx with sensory integration/sensory processing issues, but i wonder if we have any who have been dx on the autism spectrum?
i've been wondering about eli alot lately. we met a family today whose dd is autistic.....when they heard eli was dx with si they said, "our dd was dx with that when she was 2....and later was dx as autistic" sigh. anyone? |
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Oh Brook:-( It's hard to say, while some characteristics are surely evident at this age. I know Mikayla is not and her OT has confirmed that, but it's just because she doesn't show any characterisitcs and she is more of a sensory seeker where children on the spectrum tend, but not always, more of sensory NON-seekers in may aspects. How is he with you? Eye contact? Hugs and affection? Socially? These can be just SOME of the things to look for, but you prob. already know that. I don't know any Guat tots on the spectrum yet, but it's hard to say since our little ones are still pretty small....PM me or e-mail me if you need to chat and I say talk to an OT or psych and see what they say. Have you signed up for the program yet in TN?
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With autism, the ealier you find out, the better. If you have concerns, ask your pediatrician for the early intervention phone number in your area. You will get complete evals, and, even though they can only evaluate and not diagnos.....if they have any concerns, they will send you to the specialists who can diagnos.
good luck !
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Can I ask a REALLY DUMB question here? What is "sensory seeking" and the description of the disorder eli has been diagnosed with?
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I have one daughter who, if you didn't know her history, could be suspected to be autistic. She has a really hard time with new situations. Basically she is an introvert (like her mama) who is still healing from the trauma that was her adoption. When somebody new comes into her life and looks like they might be staying, she reacts by withdrawing. It takes her a long time to bounce back, too. Because I have pretty much the same personality she does, I can usually relate to her reactions, and I know I'm not autistic. But, I could definitely see how some people would wonder.
I guess what I'm saying is that Eli's behaviors might be related to healing rather than autism. Like Mindy said, it may simply be too early to tell.
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Our sons is showing signs of Autism. It is a very difficult diagnosis as he is also showing signs of mental retardation. We have another appointment at Doernbecher's Children's Hospital in a couple of weeks for more testing. For now they have labeled him with PDD so he can get specialized EI services.
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To the person that asked about Sensory:
It is called Sensory Integration/Procesing Dysfunction/Disorder and it actually very common in adopted children. Here is a list of the signs. Mikayla has this and is considered a "seeker" or what is called UNDER-Responsive for the most part. It's a VERY long list but here it is and please know that your child doesn't have to have signs in EVERY category. Mikayla only shows signs in a few, not all. SID/SPD is all over the board and one child who may have it may be nothing like the next child that has it. Signs Of Tactile Dysfunction:
1. Hypersensitivity To Touch (Tactile Defensiveness) __ becomes fearful, anxious or aggressive with light or unexpected touch __ as an infant, did/does not like to be held or cuddled; may arch back, cry, and pull away __ distressed when diaper is being, or needs to be, changed __ appears fearful of, or avoids standing in close proximity to other people or peers (especially in lines) __ becomes frightened when touched from behind or by someone/something they can not see (such as under a blanket) __ complains about having hair brushed; may be very picky about using a particular brush __ bothered by rough bed sheets (i.e., if old and "bumpy") __ avoids group situations for fear of the unexpected touch __ resists friendly or affectionate touch from anyone besides parents or siblings (and sometimes them too!) __ dislikes kisses, will "wipe off" place where kissed __ prefers hugs __ a raindrop, water from the shower, or wind blowing on the skin may feel like torture and produce adverse and avoidance reactions __ may overreact to minor cuts, scrapes, and or bug bites __ avoids touching certain textures of material (blankets, rugs, stuffed animals) __ refuses to wear new or stiff clothes, clothes with rough textures, turtlenecks, jeans, hats, or belts, etc. __ avoids using hands for play __ avoids/dislikes/aversive to "messy play", i.e., sand, mud, water, glue, glitter, playdoh, slime, shaving cream/funny foam etc. __ will be distressed by dirty hands and want to wipe or wash them frequently __ excessively ticklish __ distressed by seams in socks and may refuse to wear them __ distressed by clothes rubbing on skin; may want to wear shorts and short sleeves year round, toddlers may prefer to be naked and pull diapers and clothes off constantly __ or, may want to wear long sleeve shirts and long pants year round to avoid having skin exposed __ distressed about having face washed __ distressed about having hair, toenails, or fingernails cut __ resists brushing teeth and is extremely fearful of the dentist __ is a picky eater, only eating certain tastes and textures; mixed textures tend to be avoided as well as hot or cold foods; resists trying new foods __ may refuse to walk barefoot on grass or sand __ may walk on toes only 2. Hyposensitivity To Touch (Under-Responsive): __ may crave touch, needs to touch everything and everyone __ is not aware of being touched/bumped unless done with extreme force or intensity __ is not bothered by injuries, like cuts and bruises, and shows no distress with shots (may even say they love getting shots!) __ may not be aware that hands or face are dirty or feel his/her nose running __ may be self-abusive; pinching, biting, or banging his own head __ mouths objects excessively __ frequently hurts other children or pets while playing __ repeatedly touches surfaces or objects that are soothing (i.e., blanket) __ seeks out surfaces and textures that provide strong tactile feedback __ thoroughly enjoys and seeks out messy play __ craves vibrating or strong sensory input __ has a preference and craving for excessively spicy, sweet, sour, or salty foods 3. Poor Tactile Perception And Discrimination:
__ has difficulty with fine motor tasks such as buttoning, zipping, and fastening clothes
__ may not be able to identify which part of their body was touched if they were not looking
__ may be afraid of the dark
__ may be a messy dresser; looks disheveled, does not notice pants are twisted, shirt is half un tucked, shoes are untied, one pant leg is up and one is down, etc.
__ has difficulty using scissors, crayons, or silverware
__ continues to mouth objects to explore them even after age two
__ has difficulty figuring out physical characteristics of objects; shape, size, texture, temperature, weight, etc.
__ may not be able to identify objects by feel, uses vision to help; such as, reaching into backpack or desk to retrieve an item
Vestibular Sense: input from the inner ear about equilibrium, gravitational changes, movement experiences, and position in space. Signs Of Vestibular Dysfunction:
1. Hypersensitivity To Movement (Over-Responsive): __ avoids/dislikes playground equipment; i.e., swings, ladders, slides, or merry-go-rounds
__ prefers sedentary tasks, moves slowly and cautiously, avoids taking risks, and may appear "wimpy"
__ avoids/dislikes elevators and escalators; may prefer sitting while they are on them or, actually get motion sickness from them
__ may physically cling to an adult they trust
__ may appear terrified of falling even when there is no real risk of it
__ afraid of heights, even the height of a curb or step
__ fearful of feet leaving the ground
__ fearful of going up or down stairs or walking on uneven surfaces
__ afraid of being tipped upside down, sideways or backwards; will strongly resist getting hair washed over the sink
__ startles if someone else moves them; i.e., pushing his/her chair closer to the table
__ as an infant, may never have liked baby swings or jumpers
__ may be fearful of, and have difficulty riding a bike, jumping, hopping, or balancing on one foot (especially if eyes are closed)
__ may have disliked being placed on stomach as an infant
__ loses balance easily and may appear clumsy
__ fearful of activities which require good balance
__ avoids rapid or rotating movements
2. Hyposensitivity To Movement (Under-Responsive):
__ in constant motion, can't seem to sit still
__ craves fast, spinning, and/or intense movement experiences
__ loves being tossed in the air
__ could spin for hours and never appear to be dizzy
__ loves the fast, intense, and/or scary rides at amusement parks
__ always jumping on furniture, trampolines, spinning in a swivel chair, or getting into upside down positions
__ loves to swing as high as possible and for long periods of time
__ is a "thrill-seeker"; dangerous at times
__ always running, jumping, hopping etc. instead of walking
__ rocks body, shakes leg, or head while sitting
__ likes sudden or quick movements, such as, going over a big bump in the car or on a bike
3. Poor Muscle Tone And/Or Coordination:
__ has a limp, "floppy" body
__ frequently slumps, lies down, and/or leans head on hand or arm while working at his/her desk
__ difficulty simultaneously lifting head, arms, and legs off the floor while lying on stomach ("superman" position)
__ often sits in a "W sit" position on the floor to stabilize body__ fatigues easily!
__ compensates for "looseness" by grasping objects tightly
__ difficulty turning doorknobs, handles, opening and closing items
__ difficulty catching him/her self if falling
__ difficulty getting dressed and doing fasteners, zippers, and buttons
__ may have never crawled as an baby
__ has poor body awareness; bumps into things, knocks things over, trips, and/or appears clumsy
__ poor gross motor skills; jumping, catching a ball, jumping jacks, climbing a ladder etc.
__ poor fine motor skills; difficulty using "tools", such as pencils, silverware, combs, scissors etc.
__ may appear ambidextrous, frequently switching hands for coloring, cutting, writing etc.; does not have an established hand preference/dominance by 4 or 5 years old
__ has difficulty licking an ice cream cone
__ seems to be unsure about how to move body during movement, for example, stepping over something
__ difficulty learning exercise or dance steps
Proprioceptive Sense: input from the muscles and joints about body position, weight, pressure, stretch, movement, and changes in position in space. Signs Of Proprioceptive Dysfunction:
1. Sensory Seeking Behaviors:
__ seeks out jumping, bumping, and crashing activities __ stomps feet when walking __ kicks his/her feet on floor or chair while sitting at desk/table __ bites or sucks on fingers and/or frequently cracks his/her knuckles __ loves to be tightly wrapped in many or weighted blankets, especially at bedtime __ prefers clothes (and belts, hoods, shoelaces) to be as tight as possible __ loves/seeks out "squishing" activities __ enjoys bear hugs__ excessive banging on/with toys and objects __ loves "roughhousing" and tackling/wrestling games __ frequently falls on floor intentionally __ would jump on a trampoline for hours on end __ grinds his/her teeth throughout the day __ loves pushing/pulling/dragging objects __ loves jumping off furniture or from high places __ frequently hits, bumps or pushes other children __ chews on pens, straws, shirt sleeves etc. 2. Difficulty With "Grading Of Movement":
__ misjudges how much to flex and extend muscles during tasks/activities (i.e., putting arms into sleeves or climbing)
__ difficulty regulating pressure when writing/drawing; may be too light to see or so hard the tip of writing utensil breaks
__ written work is messy and he/she often rips the paper when erasing
__ always seems to be breaking objects and toys
__ misjudges the weight of an object, such as a glass of juice, picking it up with too much force sending it flying or spilling, or with too little force and complaining about objects being too heavy
__ may not understand the idea of "heavy" or "light"; would not be able to hold two objects and tell you which weighs more
__ seems to do everything with too much force; i.e., walking, slamming doors, pressing things too hard, slamming objects down
__ plays with animals with too much force, often hurting them
Signs Of Auditory Dysfunction: (no diagnosed hearing problem)
1. Hypersensitivity To Sounds (Auditory Defensiveness):
__ distracted by sounds not normally noticed by others; i.e., humming of lights or refrigerators, fans, heaters, or clocks ticking __ fearful of the sound of a flushing toilet (especially in public bathrooms), vacuum, hairdryer, squeaky shoes, or a dog barking __ started with or distracted by loud or unexpected sounds __ bothered/distracted by background environmental sounds; i.e., lawn mowing or outside construction __ frequently asks people to be quiet; i.e., stop making noise, talking, or singing __ runs away, cries, and/or covers ears with loud or unexpected sounds __ may refuse to go to movie theaters, parades, skating rinks, musical concerts etc. __ may decide whether they like certain people by the sound of their voice 2. Hyposensitivity To Sounds (Under-Registers):
__ often does not respond to verbal cues or to name being called __ appears to "make noise for noise's sake" __ loves excessively loud music or TV __ seems to have difficulty understanding or remembering what was said __ appears oblivious to certain sounds __ appears confused about where a sound is coming from __ talks self through a task, often out loud __ had little or no vocalizing or babbling as an infant __ needs directions repeated often, or will say, "What?" frequently Signs Of Oral Input Dysfunction:
1. Hypersensitivity To Oral Input (Oral Defensiveness):
__ picky eater, often with extreme food preferences; i.e., limited repertoire of foods, picky about brands, resistive to trying new foods or restaurants, and may not eat at other people's houses) __ may only eat "soft" or pureed foods past 24 months of age __ may gag with textured foods __ has difficulty with sucking, chewing, and swallowing; may choke or have a fear of choking __ resists/refuses/extremely fearful of going to the dentist or having dental work done __ may only eat hot or cold foods __ refuses to lick envelopes, stamps, or stickers because of their taste __ dislikes or complains about toothpaste and mouthwash __ avoids seasoned, spicy, sweet, sour or salty foods; prefers bland foods 2. Hyposensitivity To Oral Input (Under-Registers)
__ may lick, taste, or chew on inedible objects __ prefers foods with intense flavor; i.e., excessively spicy, sweet, sour, or salty __ excessive drooling past the teething stage __ frequently chews on hair, shirt, or fingers __ constantly putting objects in mouth past the toddler years __ acts as if all foods taste the same __ can never get enough condiments or seasonings on his/her food __ loves vibrating toothbrushes and even trips to the dentist Signs Of Olfactory Dysfunction (Smells):
1. Hypersensitivity To Smells (Over-Responsive):
__ reacts negatively to, or dislikes smells which do not usually bother, or get noticed, by other people __ tells other people (or talks about) how bad or funny they smell __ refuses to eat certain foods because of their smell __ offended and/or nauseated by bathroom odors or personal hygiene smells __ bothered/irritated by smell of perfume or cologne __ bothered by household or cooking smells __ may refuse to play at someone's house because of the way it smells __ decides whether he/she likes someone or some place by the way it smells 2. Hyposensitivity To Smells (Under-Responsive):
__ has difficulty discriminating unpleasant odors __ may drink or eat things that are poisonous because they do not notice the noxious smell __ unable to identify smells from scratch 'n sniff stickers __ does not notice odors that others usually complain about __ fails to notice or ignores unpleasant odors __ makes excessive use of smelling when introduced to objects, people, or places __ uses smell to interact with objects Signs Of Visual Input Dysfunction (No Diagnosed Visual Deficit):
1. Hypersensitivity To Visual Input (Over-Responsiveness)
__ sensitive to bright lights; will squint, cover eyes, cry and/or get headaches from the light __ has difficulty keeping eyes focused on task/activity he/she is working on for an appropriate amount of time __ easily distracted by other visual stimuli in the room; i.e., movement, decorations, toys, windows, doorways etc. __ has difficulty in bright colorful rooms or a dimly lit room __ rubs his/her eyes, has watery eyes or gets headaches after reading or watching TV __ avoids eye contact __ enjoys playing in the dark 2. Hyposensitivity To Visual Input (Under-Responsive Or Difficulty With Tracking, Discrimination, Or Perception):
__ has difficulty telling the difference between similar printed letters or figures; i.e., p & q, b & d, + and x, or square and rectangle __ has a hard time seeing the "big picture"; i.e., focuses on the details or patterns within the picture __ has difficulty locating items among other items; i.e., papers on a desk, clothes in a drawer, items on a grocery shelf, or toys in a bin/toy box __ often loses place when copying from a book or the chalkboard __ difficulty controlling eye movement to track and follow moving objects __ has difficulty telling the difference between different colors, shapes, and sizes __ often loses his/her place while reading or doing math problems __ makes reversals in words or letters when copying, or reads words backwards; i.e., "was" for "saw" and "no" for "on" after first grade __ complains about "seeing double" __ difficulty finding differences in pictures, words, symbols, or objects __ difficulty with consistent spacing and size of letters during writing and/or lining up numbers in math problems __ difficulty with jigsaw puzzles, copying shapes, and/or cutting/tracing along a line __ tends to write at a slant (up or down hill) on a page __ confuses left and right __ fatigues easily with schoolwork __ difficulty judging spatial relationships in the environment; i.e., bumps into objects/people or missteps on curbs and stairs Auditory-Language Processing Dysfunction:
__ unable to locate the source of a sound __ difficulty identifying people's voices __ difficulty discriminating between sounds/words; i.e., "dare" and "dear" __ difficulty filtering out other sounds while trying to pay attention to one person talking __ bothered by loud, sudden, metallic, or high-pitched sounds __ difficulty attending to, understanding, and remembering what is said or read; often asks for directions to be repeated and may only be able to understand or follow two sequential directions at a time __ looks at others to/for reassurance before answering __ difficulty putting ideas into words (written or verbal) __ often talks out of turn or "off topic" __ if not understood, has difficulty re-phrasing; may get frustrated, angry, and give up __ difficulty reading, especially out loud (may also be dyslexic) __ difficulty articulating and speaking clearly __ ability to speak often improves after intense movement Social, Emotional, Play, And Self-Regulation Dysfunction:
Social:
__ difficulty getting along with peers __ prefers playing by self with objects or toys rather than with people __ does not interact reciprocally with peers or adults; hard to have a "meaningful" two-way conversation __ self-abusive or abusive to others __ others have a hard time interpreting child's cues, needs, or emotions __ does not seek out connections with familiar people Emotional:
__ difficulty accepting changes in routine (to the point of tantrums) __ gets easily frustrated __ often impulsive __ functions best in small group or individually __ variable and quickly changing moods; prone to outbursts and tantrums __ prefers to play on the outside, away from groups, or just be an observer __ avoids eye contact __ difficulty appropriately making needs known Play: __ difficulty with imitative play (over 10 months) __ wanders aimlessly without purposeful play or exploration (over 15 months) __ needs adult guidance to play, difficulty playing independently (over 18 months) __ participates in repetitive play for hours; i.e., lining up toys cars, blocks, watching one movie over and over etc. Self-Regulation: __ excessive irritability, fussiness or colic as an infant __ can't calm or soothe self through pacifier, comfort object, or caregiver __ can't go from sleeping to awake without distress __ requires excessive help from caregiver to fall asleep; i.e., rubbing back or head, rocking, long walks, or car rides Internal Regulation (The Interoceptive Sense): __ becoming too hot or too cold sooner than others in the same environments; may not appear to ever get cold/hot, may not be able to maintain body temperature effectively __ difficulty in extreme temperatures or going from one extreme to another (i.e., winter, summer, going from air conditioning to outside heat, a heated house to the cold outside) __ respiration that is too fast, too slow, or cannot switch from one to the other easily as the body demands an appropriate respiratory response __ heart rate that speeds up or slows down too fast or too slow based on the demands imposed on it __ respiration and heart rate that takes longer than what is expected to slow down during or after exertion or fear __ severe/several mood swings throughout the day (angry to happy in short periods of time, perhaps without visible cause) __ unpredictable state of arousal or inability to control arousal level (hyper to lethargic, quickly, vacillating between the two; over stimulated to under stimulated, within hours or days, depending on activity and setting, etc.) __ frequent constipation or diarrhea, or mixed during the same day or over a few days __ difficulty with potty training; does not seem to know when he/she has to go (i.e., cannot feel the necessary sensation that bowel or bladder are full __ unable to regulate thirst; always thirsty, never thirsty, or oscillates back and forth __ unable to regulate hunger; eats all the time, won't eat at all, unable to feel full/hungry __ unable to regulate appetite; has little to no appetite and/or will be "starving" one minute then full two bites later, then back to hungry again (prone to eating disorders and/or failure to thrive)
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Re-Submitted to PGN 11-2
OUT OF PGN 1-2
IN OUR ARMS FOREVER 1-27
Embassy Appointment 1-29
HOME FOREVER AND EVER 1-31
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eli has had his eval already...we are waiting on some medical records. i think he did too well to qualify for anything.
he totally makes eye contact...but that is fairly new and inconsistent. still doesn't love hugs and affection, but is getting better. we are still having all the same probelms we had before.....and the anger issues are getting worse. he is clearly frustrated. i'd probably be mad too if i fell on my face all day long. ![]() Quote:
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i think mindy answered the first part of your question. the second is eli has been dx so far with sensory integration disorder. basically he seeks and/or avoids sensory experiences to his detriment. like he eats non food items (think kitties, car parts, trash) and walks on his toes to avoid the feeling of his foot hitting the ground. the list is long. anyway. i have just been thinking about all our kiddos struggling so much, and just wondered if anyone had crossed over from this to something else. it will be interesting to see in a few years where all of these kiddos are at in this. you know? |
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Oh Brook that makes me SO mad you don't think he will qualify there. I hate that. I have talked with several parents lately whose children were basically "turned down" because there symtoms weren't "bad" enough. It makes me soooo upset. Mikayla's aren't that "bad" either but the lucky "in" for us was her speech delay. With that and her SPD she will likely phase into the pre-school system here where I live (local schools). Keep me posted about it.
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Re-Submitted to PGN 11-2
OUT OF PGN 1-2
IN OUR ARMS FOREVER 1-27
Embassy Appointment 1-29
HOME FOREVER AND EVER 1-31
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Is he is private therapy of any sort? With the anger issues, have you looked into or talked to an attachment therapist?
Many of the symptoms/characterists overlap for children with these type of issues...http://www.betterendings.org/Overlap...cteristics.pdf I know for DS we had overlap...and at one point a potential autism/ASD dx...which turned into a significant developmental delay, generally shy child and severe speech impairment (after being kicked out of EI ST for being advanced.) Getting your DS evaluated by the proper professionals will help...but it often takes a few (unsuccessful) attempts to find the 'right' professional. If EI isn't helping you, you will probably need to go the private (expensive) route. Good luck and trust that mommy gut...if it says something is off...it is usually right.
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"Autism/autistic" has been brought up with my two a lot lately.
Both have sensory integration issues, and significant ones at that. Early Intervention has now told us they "don't qualify"...even though Gabe has yet to say a single word (he's great at receiving language skills but terrible at expressing due to low muscle tone and sensory issues in his mouth). We are doing private speech, OT, and attachment for both of them. It needs to be done, but holy cow the bills are racking up. As far as autism goes, we are on a wait and see pattern. We should get more info after Ian's battery of nuerology tests, but most likely it will just mean more waiting and seeing what develops. Since we are already getting a broad spectrum of therapies I don't have a huge problem with not getting another label applied to them.
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Our DD is 14 months old and has hypotonia (low muscle tone) and SID. She is severly developmentally delayed. She is at a 3/4 month old level and will need speech therapy as well, someday. Whether autism will be a factor our therapist said we wouldn't know until she is older.
Absolutely push for therapy with the SID dx. OT makes a huge difference for kids that suffer from SID. Our DD has been put in a theratog suit and it helps her SID issues. We are unsure what is the cause of our DD delays. We will be having genetic testing done, but can't get an appt until the first of the year.
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I have a daughter on the autism spectrum, and I will tell you that if you have concerns it is in your best interest to get your son tested. Not that the diagnosis is important, only that so many doors will open for you with therapy for your son if he is, in fact, autistic.
I had my daughter tested at 3 years old and my son was just tested at 2. They are confident that he's not on the spectrum (which my Mommy gut told me he wasn't, and that my daughter was). With that said, I believe strongly in Mommy's gut. If your questioning him, please please get it looked into further by developmental pediatricians.
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