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ot: family size...what's your limit?
i've always said i wanted 6....dh used to say 2, we have 5, i want one more, dh says TWO more. lol. i guess that makes my limit 7....but i'm pretty sure that is as high as i can go....but i'm open to more....maybe.
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I've always said two if I had a boy and a girl. DD is home and DS was just granted his CoA today so we can continue his adoption (YAY!); however, dh wants six and has been asking lately about other Central and S American countries we could adopt from. OMG!!!!!
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Best Wishes from FL! Chris, Joe and Ava: Anthony's Family waiting for him to come home 12/5/06 Antonio born 2/9/07 *REFERRAL* 5/12-5/20 First visit 6/22 Bmother missing 7/7/07 2nd visit 11/7/07 Attorney released file to begin abandonment proceedings 12/18-12/21 3rd visit 6/24/08 First abandoment hearing & 4th visit! 7/29/08 CoA Granted 12/3/08 5th visit: Hosted Anthony's 2nd b-day party & delivered dossier 12-3-08 to 9-1-09 Docs, docs and more docs. AUGH!!!! 9/1/09 All docs in Guate....Submitted to CNA, file complete. 11/10/09 Empathy Study Scheduled 11/24-12/4 6/25/07 Ava Leigh born in Mixco 12/22/07 We're HOME!!!!!! Forever Family Day
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I want a big family, and thankfully DH does, too. We're only at 2 right now; still praying for A to come home....ultimately after A..maybe 1 or 2 more? Not sure. I guess maybe 4 or 5, but I'd like to look into special needs adoptions in the future, too. So that will play a part since he/she would require more attn. I would need to let my little ones get more age on them I think. I'm a lot of help aren't I?
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Mommy to C&C ![]() Still praying...for 1 more ![]() 10/17/07-Found you 10/22-It's official 11/12-rec COA 12/21-entire dossier rec'd by atty 12/22-subm for PA 1/23/08-agency says case in "grave jeopardy" 2/12-rec PA 2/15-FLOP-WHY ![]() 8/6-begged agency for atty to establish case w/CNA 8/13-agency says 'not likely' b/c we didn't VISIT ...new atty=new hope 10/13-new atty talks to CNA->We qualify for regularization ![]() 10/21-Confirmed COA from agency is not a COA. Never even filed 11/5-prior atty wants to "check" on us.Tells new atty he was never pd by agency! Agrees to give our file IF we release him of all liab 1/6/09-rec the real COA! Petition to be filed with CNA tomorrow! ![]() 2/10-'old' atty won't release our file...w/out PAYING a fee! So much for release of liability ![]() 2/16-Agree to pay file ransom 4/29-File FINALLY given to new atty 5/19-CNA officially approves us to begin adoption; accepts dossier NOW MORE HOOPS
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DH is from a family of 4 and wants 4. I'm from a family of 6 and always thought 6 was nice. Right now we have 1 at home DD and 1 potential son, and are tossing around the idea of #3. We'll likely land between 4 and 6.
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Julie PGN Waiters and FC List Keeper at http://guatedocs.bravehost.com/ DD (bio) DOB 6/10/05 DS of my heart 9/28/07 Referral: DOB 3/3/07 (almost 7 months old) 10/16 Our baby boy dies. In our hearts forever. DS DOB 01/27/0710/18/07 Referral (8.5 mos at referral) 9/20/08 Home Forever as a Family! (20 mos at homecoming) |
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We're thinking we would love to be a family of 6 (4 kids).
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Jules5/23/06- our sweet baby Samuel Miles born 1/19/07 - Home with The Giggler and never been happier! 11/08/06 - our sweet baby Lucas Matthew born 8/21/07 - Home!!! The Growler is just like his brother - a complete HONEY BEAR! June 4, 2009- Julian "Jude" Thomas born. He is the sweetest of hearts. Oh, how I love my boys so! Our children are not ours because they share our genes...they are ours because we have had the audacity to envision them and hope for them. That, at the end of the day...or long sleepless night, is how love really works. - Unknown I LOVE MY SWEET SONS!!! |
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HaHaHaHaHaHa What is the meaning of this word you speak of!!!! There is No such Word Here In Oz......... At this Point We Just Say "The More the Merrier"
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Ann The Worlds Most Grateful Mum of 10! Three Big Kids #1 03/01/83, #2 07/27/84 & #3 02/19/87#8 It's A Girl! Beautiful Girl ~DOB 7/13/04 In My Arms 11/06/04 Clare Kicked The Pants Off Leukemia 11-06 to 05-09!!! #7 It's A Girl Our Gift ~DOB 06/29/04 In My Arms 11/07/05 #10 It's a BOY! What A Doll! DOB 06/10/06 In My Arms!! 12/05/06 #4 What A Joy DOB 12/06/1994 In My Arms FOREVER!!! 02-01-09 Our Angels #5 DOB 7/12/99 #6 DOB 5/20/01 #9 DOB 8/15/04 In My Arms FOREVER!!! 06-30-09 |
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I always wanted 6 kids. I am 1 of 4, my mom is 1 of 10. I have close to 50 cousins on my moms side and I don't even know how many second cousins, I think a little more than 10.
My husband wants 2 kids. He is a single child with a stepbrother thrown in when he was a little older. His mom only has 1 sister with 1 child. So he is not used to big families. I don't know how many kiddos we will end up with. But I am willing to take however many God is willing to give us. ![]()
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I have really been struggling with this lately. We have 2, DD and DS. After our process, I really hoped that 2 would feel complete to me, but it doesn't. We always said 3, maybe that is our end. I would love to be able to adopt several more children, we'll see.
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5/19/06 Referral - DOB (4/29/06) 7/28/06 I-171H 9/20/06 SWI 10/24/06 DNA authorization 11/6/06 It's a Match 99.9999% 12/5/06 PA 12/18/06 In PGN 360 really LONG Days 12/13/07 - We are OUT! ![]() 12/17/07 - Coban BC 12/20/07 - Passport 1/3/08 -2nd DNA Authorization 1/8/08 - DNA sample taken, Embassy MD appointment 1/16/08 - DNA arrives at USE - COME ON PINK!!!!! 1/18/08 Pink Embassy Appointment 2/5 Home forever 2/7
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We have one now - and I hope to adopt a second when Madeline is 4.
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Ashley Mommy to Madeline born 8/19/06 * home 1/10/08 #2 - Looking at all of our options.. ~Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away~ |
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We only have one now but, I really don't have a limit - - yet. Currently looking at options to grow our family further. In my mind I see four kiddos. Will accept however many God entrusts us with.
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Ours has been such a process....first we had one, then decided on another, then a third. Then I thought we were done when our littlest one went to kindergarten, until I felt a very strong call from God to adopt. It took four years to convince dh to go along. After we brought home our fourth child, I felt we should bring home another, closer in age than our "big" kids, so we adopted ds number five. Now I really feel like we're done--I'm maxed out!
My brother, though, has six under the age of 7 and hasn't said he's done, yet! So I guess it just depends on what your family can handle. Carolyn
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Ours has always been two kids. We have Marco and will be hopefully picking up Dulce next week.
Stacy
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I always wanted 6 kids, like my mom had. I'm seeing a trend here! But, I got a late start and my 2 certainly make my life full. The late start means that my career is an inextricable part of who I am. Plus I get tired at night!! And during the day too! So I really don't think 6 is in my future . . . it was a nice thought, though.
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Mom of Norma and Sara ******************************** 6/06 began paper chase 9/06 home study completed 10/06 I-171 11/06 dossier completed 1/25/07 referral of Norma 1/26/07 referral of Sara 2/23/07 DNA test x 2 3/6/07 It's a match x 2! ![]() 4/23/07(?) out of FC 4/26-4/30 vist trip 5/5 & 5/7 PA x 2 5/24 "In" PGN 6/15 resubmit after KO 8/31 OUT x 2! 9/11 2nd DNA Auth 9/25 Pink! 10-10 Visa appointment 10-10 Norma's birthday party in Guatemala! 10-12 Norma and Sara are HOME!!! ******************************** Thank God for a smooth process in Guatemala
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It's just me as a single mom & my bebita (Jacqueline).....and frankly today's been tough so that is my limit!!
Seriously, as a single mom I think 1 child is the right number for me, but I admire & support any one who wants larger family. I actually have a Log-in date for China adoption but I told my agency to drop it now that I have Jacqueline.....she's the child I have wanted & been waiting for so long. And now I am so touched that I have to go upstairs and kiss her even though she's napping...
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Susy Oct 2006 Signed contract with agency April 2007 Lost 1st referral but it led me to Jacqueline - met her & signed POA in Guatemala 3/18/08 OUT of PGN on her first birthday (while I was in GC visiting)! ![]() 5/14/08 I turned from Tangerine into a PINK grapefruit!! 5/2708 Embassy Appointment 5/30/08 Home to the USA
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With 5 at home (and praying for our other two), we're completely open to however many God chooses to bless us with. The more the merrier in this home.
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Praying home my two Guate's for over 4 years... And seeking to find God's will in all of it... http://prayingthemhome.blogspot.com/ 2005 5/18/2005 Referrals After 10 mos in process, 2 PGN investigations, 176 days in PGN, and case completed in PGN.... HEAD of PGN refuses to sign 2006 3/06/2006 Abandonment begins... 9/06 First hearing 12/06 2nd hearing scheduled and not done 2007 8/24/07 2nd hearing done (not told), abandonment legal, need COA 9/07 We become sponsors for R and J 12/13/07 Sign POA, praying we make it in time 2008 2/11/08 Find out paperwork did NOT make it 11/08 Paperwork to Guatemala 2009 Working with the CNA to bring our children home 06/09 Paperwork submitted complete to CNA 08/09 Waiting on court document to be completed 11/09 Court document complete, CNA reviewing file |
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