Family Forums
Parenting Forums
Pregnancy Forums
Adoption Forums
Fertility Forums






Members List Photos Events Local Adoption Support Search Arcade Reviews Membership Upgrade
Welcome to the Forums. Register
If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts.
Forum Categories
User Name
Password

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 07-28-2008, 08:09 PM
CurlysGirly's Avatar
CurlysGirly CurlysGirly is offline
Happiest Mommy on Earth

Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 3,091
Total Points: 25,073.73
Donate
Successful 1st Mom Search

I know this was debated on another thread but I wanted to share the joy with my forum friends that our discreet searcher found our daughter's first mother! I found out some wonderful information on her heritage which is El Salvadorian (!!) and siblings.

She mentioned that she would like to meet us when we travel back to Guatemala. She said that hearing how we love her made her certain that she made the right decision. She is now married and her husband knows that she placed Devon for adoption. Her 1st mom has sinced had a daughter with her husband (Devon has a half baby sister!!) and her 1st mom is also an adoptee (like me and Devon).

I am beyond thrilled and can barely contain myself waiting for the pictures from the meeting!

Thanks for letting me share my joy!!
__________________
~~Tara
http://www.thesillysantillis.blogspot.com/
It's a Girl DOB 11/9/06

07/03/07 -- Home in the USA!



Reply With Quote
   
Guatemala Adoption Information

  #2  
Old 07-28-2008, 08:11 PM
maccafan's Avatar
maccafan maccafan is offline
Daniel's Mom
Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 920
Total Points: 24,668.18
Donate
What awesome news! I'm so glad your search was successful and had a positive outcome. What a wonderful thing for Devon!
__________________
Jennifer


Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 07-28-2008, 08:14 PM
guatemama94's Avatar
guatemama94 guatemama94 is offline
Mis razones de ser....
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 1,159
Total Points: 30,717.44
Donate
Wow! That is fantastic news! Congratulations! Thanks for sharing
__________________
DS Guatemala
Referral 8/99
Home 8/24/00



DD Guatemala
Paper chase 8/06
Home 12/18/07



DD U.S.A.
Paper chase 04/07
Home 11/26/07
Lots of delays, waiting, phone calls, emails
Filing petition 10/08
Foster/Adoption finalized 4/09/09
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 07-28-2008, 08:26 PM
SKL SKL is offline
Senior Member

Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 2,435
Total Points: 114,526.51
Donate
Thank you for sharing! I am so glad to hear that your search made both your family and Devon's birth mother very happy.
__________________
Mom of Norma and Sara

********************************
6/06 began paper chase
9/06 home study completed
10/06 I-171
11/06 dossier completed
1/25/07 referral of Norma
1/26/07 referral of Sara
2/23/07 DNA test x 2
3/6/07 It's a match x 2!
4/23/07(?) out of FC
4/26-4/30 vist trip
5/5 & 5/7 PA x 2
5/24 "In" PGN
6/15 resubmit after KO
8/31 OUT x 2!
9/11 2nd DNA Auth
9/25 Pink!
10-10 Visa appointment
10-10 Norma's birthday party in Guatemala!
10-12 Norma and Sara are HOME!!!

********************************
Thank God for a smooth process in Guatemala
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 07-28-2008, 08:58 PM
Mindybeth6's Avatar
Mindybeth6 Mindybeth6 is offline
~Happy Mom of Two!~

Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 3,958
Total Points: 334,211,044.38
Donate
Tara....so glad we talked tonight. I am so happy for you and you know I think this is totally wonderful. See you this weekend girl!
__________________

Mindy
Referral of Princess Mikayla Faith 6-30-06
DOB 6-17-06
Enter Family Court 8-14
DNA and SWI Complete 8-23
Out of Family Court 9-1
Pre-Approval 10-6
IN PGN 10-11
PGN Kick Out 11-2
Re-Submitted to PGN 11-2
OUT OF PGN 1-2
IN OUR ARMS FOREVER 1-27
Embassy Appointment 1-29
HOME FOREVER AND EVER 1-31
http://theousleyfamily.blogspot.com/
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 07-28-2008, 09:00 PM
akasohappy's Avatar
akasohappy akasohappy is offline
Amber

Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 1,728
Total Points: 44,076.77
Donate
That is awesome news!
This is something we really want to do.
Glad is turned out well.
__________________
Amber

It's a girl!!! DOB: 3/29/06
Referral 4/18/06 - TBN - Emma Kate
Waiting.......and praying!
DNA a positive match! 6/16/06
Pre-Approval 6/27/06
The 1st time I held my daughter!!!!! June 28, 2006
1st visit trip June 27 - July 6
New POA sent out 7/10/06
2nd visit trip Aug. 13-18
Submitted to PGN Sept 12 - OOPS! Not true!
Actual date file entered PGN - Oct. 23rd
KO'd Nov. 7 - PGN requires new employment letter
for my husband - notary's commission expired
FINALLY RE-SUBMITTED TO PGN Jan. 4th, 2007
New reviewer assigned to our case Jan. 30, 2007
KO'd AGAIN!!! Feb. 1, 2007 -
this is really getting old!!
3rd visit trip Feb. 1-4th
Feb. 21st and we still don't know what KO#2 is even for?!?!?!?
Guess it wasn't a KO after all!!!!!!
Feb. 22 OUT OF PGN!!!!!!!!
March 26th 2007 leaving for extended pick up trip!

March 29th - Happy 1st Birthday Kate!!

Home forever on April 27th!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Praise God!!!
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 07-28-2008, 09:01 PM
guatparents2be guatparents2be is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 1,733
Total Points: 71,819.42
Donate
tara i am sooo excited for you. how wonderful for you all!
__________________
Samantha- Mama to Julian
http://www.chiquitito.blogspot.com
09/28/06 DOB
01/10/07-3/27/07 PGN
04/27/07 Placed in our arms forever
05/12/07 Home sweet home
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 07-28-2008, 10:13 PM
jeannecr's Avatar
jeannecr jeannecr is offline
loving my baby Gabriel
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 1,790
Total Points: 11,694.17
Donate
Wow! Sounds like the beginning of a wonderful relationship!
__________________
Jeanne, mama to Gabriel from Guatemala

Reply With Quote
Click Here for More Information

  #9  
Old 07-28-2008, 11:18 PM
nathansvolunteers's Avatar
nathansvolunteers nathansvolunteers is offline
Miracles DO happen!

Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 1,302
Total Points: 34,798.46
Donate
Tara,
That is WONDERFUL!!!!!!!!!
I know how important this was to you, especially as an adoptee with no info on your birth family. I am just thrilled for you!!

Hugs,
Cindy
__________________
12-2-05 application to agency
2-23-06 birth of our beautiful baby girl
3-16-06 referral
6-15-06 to PGN (insert long, complicated saga here...)
12-18-06 our journey ends due to a heartless reviewer that rejects our case and rips our family apart
But wait! Evil reviewer gets fired , and our attorney finds the one person in PGN with a !
Miraculous resubmit 1/10/07!! (We find out 1/30) AND THEN
2/27/07 O-U-T!!!!!!!!!! Camille, we love you, and you are coming HOME!!
3/15/07 PINK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
4/11/07 Embassy Appointment
4/13/07 Lucky Friday the 13th...our angel is HOME. It's finally really, truly, OVER.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 07-29-2008, 01:55 AM
Lexi73 Lexi73 is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 42
Total Points: 632.87
Donate
what a happy conclusion to the search! It is very nice to hear that some birthmom are doing well. I wish you the best reunion when you next travel to Guate.
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 07-29-2008, 05:01 AM
Ms.Judi's Avatar
Ms.Judi Ms.Judi is offline
Elaina's Mommy
Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 2,323
Total Points: 43,134.50
Donate
How awesome is that!!! TOO EXCITING!!!
__________________
Judi


May 2006 Referrral of my ANGEL
ELAINA ELIZABETH ALEXANDRA
Born December 28, 2005
September 2006 Enter PGN
November 2006 Exit PGN
DECEMBER 17 IN MY ARMS FOREVER
HOME DECEMBER 21, 2006


www.myguatemalanangel.blogspot.com

I LOOK INTO YOUR EYES AND SEE
THE GREATEST MIRACLE GIVEN TO ME
YOU ARE THE JOY OF EVERYDAY
YOUR SMILE GUIDES MY WAY
-SHELLEY HOWINGTON



"In love He destined us to adoption to Himself." Ephesians 1:5
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 07-29-2008, 05:49 AM
mksilvermoon's Avatar
mksilvermoon mksilvermoon is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 1,356
Total Points: 16,139.02
Donate
congratulations Tara! so pleased the search was successful and contact is an option - it's an amazing journey and so wonderful to have photos/extra info etc

MK
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old 07-29-2008, 05:52 AM
JustBarbara JustBarbara is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 3,711
Total Points: 84,435.22
Donate
Congratulations on finding Devon's first mom and for the positive outcome. I am so happy for all concerned.
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old 07-29-2008, 05:54 AM
Summer95's Avatar
Summer95 Summer95 is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 523
Total Points: 4,194,811.56
Donate
Congratulations Tara!!!

You must be on ....I am soooooo very happy for you!
__________________
Mother Of One Fabulous Son
My Pride, Joy, and Love of My Life!!
Wife to One Wonderful Husband
You Are My Angel!!

~~~~~~~~~~~~
Reply With Quote
  #15  
Old 07-29-2008, 06:13 AM
Guatemom's Avatar
Guatemom Guatemom is offline
Senior Member

Join Date: Oct 2004
Posts: 2,706
Total Points: 69,352.50
Donate
Wow, that sounds awesome, congrats!!! Can't wait to see those pics!
__________________
Mommy to C&C
Still praying...for 1 more
10/17/07-Found you
10/22-It's official
11/12-rec COA
12/21-entire dossier rec'd by atty
12/22-subm for PA
1/23/08-agency says case in "grave jeopardy"
2/12-rec PA
2/15-FLOP-WHY
8/6-begged agency for atty to establish case w/CNA
8/13-agency says 'not likely' b/c we didn't VISIT
...new atty=new hope
10/13-new atty talks to CNA->We qualify for regularization
10/21-Confirmed COA from agency is not a COA. Never even filed
11/5-prior atty wants to "check" on us.Tells new atty he was never pd by agency! Agrees to give our file IF we release him of all liab
1/6/09-rec the real COA! Petition to be filed with CNA tomorrow!
2/10-'old' atty won't release our file...w/out PAYING a fee! So much for release of liability
2/16-Agree to pay file ransom
4/29-File FINALLY given to new atty
5/19-CNA officially approves us to begin adoption; accepts dossier
NOW MORE HOOPS
Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 01:53 PM.