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Old 06-22-2008, 12:26 AM
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3 yrs today since meeting DD & she's still not home...

6/22/05...the day after getting DS's visa and a day before bringing him home, we met Nidia. She was 2 wks old and we thought she'd be home in perhaps 6 months. Who would have thought that, 3 yrs later, the case would still be waiting for re-approval from PGN and that the birthmother would have to be interviewed for about the 9th time? We're so glad we got to see her for her 3rd birthday but it's time for her to come home to her forever family.

BTW, the lawyer's contact was finally able to reach the birthmom's home earlier this week and found out that she's not there. The lawyer is now trying to track her down in Guatemala City, using previous jobs as his lead. Doesn't sound that promising but I'm trying to remain hopeful. She's shown up at each and every other appt throughout the years. God willing, she'll be located soon.

Please pray that the DOS statement appearing in Guatadopt on 6/18/08 is true and that our file, which supposedly had been approved by Mr. Barrios and waiting at the window for pick-up back in April, will be released this week without the BMI. Thanks.

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to PGN with PA: 11/28/05
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DD moved to hogar from 4/06 until 8/07
2/8/08: Released from Investigations 2 yrs later!!!!
2/11/08: Back in PGN
9/5/08: OUT OF PGN!!!!
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Old 06-22-2008, 02:49 AM
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I'm praying for you and your family Damaris. This just has to be the week of good news for you. Nidia needs to be home.
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Baby Boy Born in Colombia 2/15/00
Referral 5/4/00
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02/08/07 SWI
03/02/07 Entered PGN
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Old 06-22-2008, 03:52 AM
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I am so sorry you are having such a long wait. I pray that Nidia is home soon!!
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Old 06-22-2008, 05:21 AM
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I am so sorry for all that your family has gone through. I hope and pray you hear good news soon and get to bring your daughter home. And congrats on your 3 years home with your son.
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Old 06-22-2008, 05:25 AM
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Keeping you and your family in my prayers, Damaris.
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Old 06-22-2008, 06:19 AM
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3 years. Way way way too long.

May she be home soon.
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5/06-8/06 Research
9/15 Signed with Agency!!!! The paperchase begins!
9/25 a princess is born
10/2 Homestudy Application and Police fingerprints
10/3 I600A Mailed
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4/6 My beautiful mother passes into eternity
4/18 DNA 99.9%
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Old 06-22-2008, 06:22 AM
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Were thinking about you and your family, and praying Nidia is home very soon. Hang in there Damaris, We're here to support you.
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9-9-07 Pre approval
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11-7 K/O of PGN
11-13 resubmit
11-21/11-25 3rd visit trip
12-23-07 100 days in PGN
1-19-08 4th visit trip
KO'd AGAIN!!!!
3-4-08 RESUBMITTED!!
3-17-08 1st Bday-5th visit
5-9-08 birthmom interview(Not really, actually 5-28)
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6-24-08 OUT!!!!
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Old 06-22-2008, 06:25 AM
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I changed the title of the thread, so that users could support you

It had been posted initially with the title of "3" - I added the "yrs today since meeting DD & she's still not home... "

I am sorry for all that you're family is going thru.
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Old 06-22-2008, 06:32 AM
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Damaris - I'm so sorry you are still facing this uncertainty and that your beautiful DD is still not home. I can't imagine the toll this has taken on you and your family. Please know we're praying for you.
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Old 06-22-2008, 06:36 AM
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Damaris...

I cannot even imagine how agonizing this wait has been. What a long time to wait. I certainly hope that your little one is home much sooner than later.

Best wishes,
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11-14-07 US Embassy rejects corrected docs AGAIN
12-10-07 US Embassy rejects corrected docs 3rd time
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08-31-08 Birth Mother found last minute and interviewed, back into PGN
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Old 06-22-2008, 06:52 AM
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I am continuing to pray for you and your family every day! (((hugs)))
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Old 06-22-2008, 07:17 AM
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Prayers being sent. She needs to finally be home with her family. Good luck!
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Damaris, I'm continuing to pray for you and your little angel!! I pray this is the week for her to be OUT and coming home!!
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Damaris,
I am on my knees for you constantly. It is way past time for your sweet angel to be home. I am praying this is your week and you will finally hear the words "YOUR OUT" and we will all celebrate like never before.

Much love and many prayers my friend.
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????????? Several KO's can't get straight answer
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I can't even imagine waiting 3 years!! You will be in my prayers for an out soon!

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