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Old 05-10-2008, 06:18 AM
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Post Non Mom Changed - Teleflora apology

Check out the website, they have changed it from non-moms to adopting moms with an apology. Pretty classy!
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Old 05-10-2008, 06:27 AM
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Too bad we are STILL seperated from the "real" moms by having our own category...
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05-29-06 Maya Elizabeth (dob 05.29.06)
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07-17-06 Pre-approval
07-28-06 SW interview
08-17-06 SW report!

08-18-06 INTO PGN!!!!!!!!!!
10-31-06 K/o at 11 weeks
11-07-06 Resubmitted
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Old 05-10-2008, 06:32 AM
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Classy? Are you being scarcastic?
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Out of PGN 1/18/06 !
Orange! 2/12/08
2/21/08 2nd DNA at Embassy (?)
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Old 05-10-2008, 08:18 AM
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I have to say, I am really not easily offended by much, but this still upsets me. I am glad they took the non mom title off, but I feel offended being lumped into a catagory of caretakers (grandparents, orphanage workers, etc.). Adoptive moms are working moms, single moms, or "chairmen of everything" moms and more. Just because our children didn't come from our bodies does not make them or us any different or less real. I am very disappointed in NBC. The networks work so hard to be politically correct, you would think they could try a little harder about something like this.
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May 3, 2006–Decided to adopt!
May 19, 2006-Sent application to agency
July 2006–Homestudy done
Oct 10, 2006–Received first referral
March 2007–DNA not a match, lost referral
March 29, 2007-Shiloh was born
April 10, 2007-Accepted referral
April 22, 2007 - POA in Guatemala
July 6, 2007 - DNA taken
July 13, 2007 - DNA a match!
August (mid month) - Submitted to Family Court
September 8, 2007 - Pre-approval
Sep. (mid month) - request for new social worker
October 6, 2007 - Went to visit Shiloh
Oct. 23, 2007 - request for another new S.W.
November 9, 2007 - Birthmother interview
November (end of month) - Exited Family Court
December 14, 2007 - Submitted into PGN
December 28, 2007 - Kicked out of PGN
February 25, 2008 - Resubmited into PGN
April 10, 2008 - OUT of PGN!!!
April 29, 2008 - Orange!
May 1, 2008 - DNA at lab
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May 13, 2008 - PINK!!!
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Old 05-10-2008, 09:06 AM
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Thumbs up Non-mom Has Been Removed!!!!!

Read the fine print under Donnie and Marie.....GOOD GOING EVERY ONE!!!! WE WERE HEARD!!



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7/06 Emergency HS done with new com. Report in hand 5 DAYS!!!
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9/14/06 Giuseppa Maria born
9/19/06 Accepted referral. POA
11/06 DNA DONE
12/06. 99.99% match DNA
12/04/06 FC
12/26/06 MERRY CHRISTMAS TO US PA ISSUED..
12/28/06 In PGN....the waiting game begins!!
02/07/07 Previo= name declaration
02/19/07 Name affidavit on its way to Guatemala
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04/07/07 100 days in PGN
04/24/07 OUT!!!
5/18/07 B/C Issued
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5/29/07 PINK!!!! THANK YOU GOD!!
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Old 05-10-2008, 09:09 AM
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Way to go everyone, finally someone has heard us.
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3/6/07 POA
3/10/07 Received I171H
7/19/07 DNA Authorization
7/23/07 DNA Taken
7/30/07 DNA Results 99.99%
9/2-9/9 #1 visit trip
9/4/07 Enter PGN
9/14/07 Received PA
9/26/07 KO #1
10/28-11/4 #2 visit trip
11/8/07 Resubmit to PGN
11/30/07 2nd reviewers desk
12/17/07 KO #2
1/13-1/22 #3 visit trip
1/16 Happy 1st birthday
2/11/08 Registered with CNA
2/28/08 Resubmit to PGN
3/17/08 2nd reviewer
4/11/08 Waiting for final signature
4/18/08 OUT but they won't release my file
4/25/08 File has been released
5/8/08 Final siganture
5/13/09 Submitted for BC
6/2/08 BC
6/3/08 extended pick-up
6/11/08 Orange
6/13/08 Passport
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7/1/08 PINK
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7/10/08 HOME
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Old 05-10-2008, 09:17 AM
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They should also announce it live on tv too.
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10/24/05 Hurricane Wilma hits us.
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7/06 Emergency HS done with new com. Report in hand 5 DAYS!!!
8/06 Court old HS Comp
8/06 docs in Guatemala
9/14/06 Giuseppa Maria born
9/19/06 Accepted referral. POA
11/06 DNA DONE
12/06. 99.99% match DNA
12/04/06 FC
12/26/06 MERRY CHRISTMAS TO US PA ISSUED..
12/28/06 In PGN....the waiting game begins!!
02/07/07 Previo= name declaration
02/19/07 Name affidavit on its way to Guatemala
02/23/07 Back In PGN
04/07/07 100 days in PGN
04/24/07 OUT!!!
5/18/07 B/C Issued
5/23/07 Submitted for Pink
5/29/07 PINK!!!! THANK YOU GOD!!
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Old 05-10-2008, 09:36 AM
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I am glad they took the non mom title off, but I feel offended being lumped into a catagory of caretakers (grandparents, orphanage workers, etc.).

I agree. I usually shrug these things off as ignorance, but this whole "non-mom" thing really offends and hurts me. Although I'm glad they changed the title, I don't like being put into a different category with caretakers. It still sends the message than I'm not my son's "real" mom. I also don't like that the caption for the adoptive mom says something like "She has one child of her own, and six adopted crack babies." Does that mean her six adopted kids are supposed to feel grateful that she deigned to take them in and raise them with her "own" child? Maybe I'm being oversensitive, but it bugs me.
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Old 05-10-2008, 09:54 AM
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Non-mom has been removed...yes....I am stilloffnded by being an "adopting" mom. The adoption is done. Now, I am just a MOM.
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Old 05-10-2008, 09:57 AM
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Old 05-10-2008, 10:01 AM
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As an adoptee I still don't like the title..adopting mom...my mom is my mom, end of story. And why is the adoptive mom lumped with the step mom..that is TOTALLY different in my opinion. I think adoptive moms can and should be included in any of the other categories as well! UGH
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Old 05-10-2008, 10:11 AM
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I Agree We Are All Still Moms!!!!!!! Period! Just Ask Our Children!!
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Sara D.O.B. 1/8/04
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Lilee D.O.B. 4/16/06
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Old 05-10-2008, 11:02 AM
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Real Mom...

I still feel like they separated us from being real Mommy's. I'm not going to watch their program anyway.

Happy Mother's Day to my fellow REAL Mommies!!!!

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2/1/07- First day of our journey
8/24/07- Received and accepted a referral for my beautiful boy.
10/05/07- DNA is 99.9%
11/06/07- PA
11/14/07- Entered PGN
12/20/07- KO for 4 previos
1/07/08- Waiting to hear if back in PGN before 12/31
1/22/08- Waiting, waiting, and more WAITING!!
2/06/08- OUT & PGN approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2/26/08- 2nd DNA test taken.
3/5/08- I'm soooooo done with the waiting...come on PINK!!!!
3/6/08- DNA at the Embassy. Gimme PINK baby!!!
3/17/08- We are SOOOOOO PINK!
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Has this also been changed?
She has seven children, six of whom were adopted and exposed to methamphetamines in the womb and were born meth positive.
Before I thought it mentioned something about a child of her own and six who were adopted.
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May 3, 2007 - PA
May 22, 2007 - Entered PGN
July 12, 2007 - OUT!!!
August 27, 2007 - Jaden is placed in my arms forever!
August 28, 2007 - Embassy Appointment
August 30, 2007 - HOME!!!!

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Old 05-10-2008, 11:37 AM
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I still think the categorization stinks. It really makes no difference to ME what others think of me as a mom, but what kind of a message does it send to our kids? I have bio kids and am now adopting. I'm not going to be a different type of mom to our little guy than I am to our other three! That's just ridiculous. So, I responded to their response asking them to completely ravamp the whole thing if they decide to do it in the future.
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