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Old 08-12-2007, 12:27 PM
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Arrow Updated 11/11 Casa Quivira Parents - Pre and Post Placement Support

Not often do we allow this kind of thread to be posted - but because I am going to outline some guidelines, I feel confident that those seeking support, will use the thread in the spirit in which it was created.

No 'agency specific' discussion about the way they do business
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No innuendo - FACTS ONLY!




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Remember that the media is not known for reporting FACTS - take everything with a grain of salt until you hear it from the horses mouth!

Please follow the guidelines of this thread so it doesn't have to be closed. Those who do violate the guidelines will be banned from further participation on THIS THREAD.

Thanks for your continued cooperation regarding our rules and guidelines. Hopefully the members here can get the support they need!
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Old 08-12-2007, 12:50 PM
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Thank you for opening this thread.

When I heard that the situation in Guatemala involved CQ my heart stopped. I'm so worried about Nicholas. I want him home with us.

Thank you Brandy and MicheleB for your encouragement so far. It really helped me calm down.

CQ has been around for a long time. I pray that things will be cleared up soon.
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Old 08-12-2007, 01:43 PM
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I wanted to pass along some information along that I have received (I have two boys in CQ) from the US Program Coordinator of Casa Quivira.

We were told that police did go to CQ and are believed to still be there, the babies are still being taken care of by the nannies at Casa Quivira.

Two attorneys (not the founders) have been arrested.

We have been asked to contact both the Guatemalan Embassador in the US and the US Embassy in Guatemala for their intervention and assistance.
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Old 08-12-2007, 01:47 PM
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i am sick in my stomach - i am home with Carmen Lily - but I know only too well the agony and uncertainty of waiting - to add this kind of twist seems incredible



i so so hope this gets resolved quickly and does not affect timelines

you are all in my thoughts

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Old 08-12-2007, 01:50 PM
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PLEASE remember - this isn't the place for you to offer your feedback on how wonderful or awful the hogar is.

This is a place for support for families dealing with the the difficulties currently going on in Guatemala.
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Old 08-12-2007, 02:13 PM
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Unhappy OMG I am so sorry this is happening to you.

My heart is breaking for everyone who is effected by this situation. If you need to chat, feel free to PM me and I will be here for you. Good luck and God Bless.

PS I have personal experience with this situation.

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Old 08-12-2007, 02:26 PM
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Please know my thoughts and prayers are with all the families and I am here for support.

I also wanted to reiterate what Brandy said that the media often does not report everything - especially in Guatemala.

I am following the situation very closely and will let you all know if anything comes up that has not already been posted.
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My thoughts and prayers go to those of you impacted by this.
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Old 08-12-2007, 03:10 PM
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Thank you everyone for your prayers! Please continue to pray for our babies!!!! We need them to come home!

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Old 08-12-2007, 03:38 PM
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Praying for all families and children involved!!!!
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Old 08-12-2007, 04:02 PM
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I just received another update with a program coordinator for CQ. In a nutshell, here is what whe says:

Upon entering CQ the police were giving all documentation showing that it was legal for CQ to have the children in their care, as well as documents showing that the children were properly relinquished. The police interrogated the lawyers, nurse and nannies at the hogar. The police took many, many documents without looking them...including files of cases out of PGN, proof of cases legally in process, office logs etc...

The attrnys were arrested and roughly $1300 was paid for them to be kept at a hospital instead of a jail. Bond has been posted at approx. $15K.

The police were going to move the children out of CQ, but the staff physician at CQ stated that many babies need continual medical care (one of which is my little Gabe). For now all babies remain at CQ

I'll continue to update as I get info.
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Old 08-12-2007, 06:00 PM
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First - krafmatic - I LOVE your pic, precious!

I'm so sorry everyone that is affected by this and I hope the situation resolves itself soon!

You're all in our thoughts & prayers!

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Old 08-12-2007, 06:09 PM
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Everyone has my prayers and support. I am so sorry.
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Pray please

Catalina is currently at CQ. We are devastated to think of what might be happening there. We have received e-mails and talked with someone helping to communicate with the parents. We are supposed to be visiting in 3 DAYS!!!. After reading the e-mails form the Hogar’s contact we truly feel that they did nothing wrong. Right now we were told no one is coming in or out of the Hogar. Please pray for all the children, babies, nannies and families involved. I would love to hear if others have been in this situation and what the out come was, or even if you have heard of this happening before. My DH and I are in shock and desperate to hear that everything will be okay.
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I'm so sorry for all involved. I hope the children are safe and you guys get some concrete news soon. We will be praying for you.
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