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Old 10-26-2006, 03:47 PM
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We ended our journey!

I'm sorry to say, but this was just not the right time for us. I know that there will be a day that is right for us, we will just leave it in God's Hands. However I will still be lurking looking for all the "OUTS" & "PINKS".

I wish all of you the best of luck in your journey & may your time fly.
God Bless All,
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Old 10-26-2006, 03:49 PM
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Glad you were able to do what is right for you and your family at this time. Your time and place will come, probably when and where you least expect it!!
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Old 10-26-2006, 03:56 PM
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You seem very at peace with your decision and I hope that you find what your future is intended to hold and that it involves another angel! Good Luck with everything!
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Decision to Adopt...2/06
Paperchasing completed....4/4/06
Homestudy complete.....May/06
ACCEPTED REFERRAL....7/13/06....YIPPIE!
"Bianca Hope" DOB: 5/9/06
171-H fingerprints taken 7/11/06 and approval 7/31/06 (less then a 3 wk. wait...OMG)
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DNA/SWI SET FOR 9/4/06 and comfirmed test was done....9/7/06...WOOHOO
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12/26...Bianca is in our arms forever!!!
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Old 10-26-2006, 04:05 PM
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Wishing you all the best Sandy! I'm glad you'll be hanging around. We certainly want to see updates on your little cutie-pie!
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Old 10-26-2006, 04:09 PM
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Sounds like you made a thoughtful decision. I know you weighed all the options and that this wasn't a quick decision. I agree, keep your heart open and you might find your little guy in a most unexpected place. Keep in touch here!
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5/18/2005 Referrals
After 10 mos in process, 2 PGN investigations, 176 days in PGN, and case completed in PGN.... HEAD of PGN refuses to sign

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2/11/08 Find out paperwork did NOT make it
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Old 10-26-2006, 04:16 PM
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I definately wish you the best. I'm sure that decision did not come easily but I wish you peace with your decision to follow your heart. The Lord works in mysterious ways. Today I was talking about my infertility/miscarriages to a co-worker in a way that I had not done in awhile. Although I do know this, it made me realize even more that we were led to this adoption and to more specifically to Gabby. It may be that now is not the right time or that the Lord has plans for you that you may not even be aware of yet. Follow your heart, keep an open mind, and trust your decisions. Again I wish you the best for you and your family!!!
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Old 10-26-2006, 05:41 PM
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I am so sorry it didn't work out for you. I hope you are at peace with your decision. Please do stick around!
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Old 10-26-2006, 06:22 PM
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Sandy, it sounds like you are at peace with your decision. I know you had many doubts over the last couple months. Wishing you happiness! And thanks for hanging out on the forum to encourage the rest of us.
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Old 10-26-2006, 06:28 PM
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Heart Thank you all!

I do believe we are at peace with our decision, however like you said our little guy is out there we just don't know where & when. The Lord is good, sometimes I just wish someone would come knocking on my door & say "I heard you wanted a baby, well I know where one is" wouldn't that be awesome.

Tristan just had is 2 years check up, and one of our nurses got a baby this way. Long story short one of the patience that goes to the doctor, her niece was giving up her baby & this is how she became a Mommy! The story just gives my chills when she talks about it.

Like I said I don't care if they are Red, Yellow, Black, Brown or White every babies deserves to be loved, and my heart has lots of loving to give again one day.

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Old 10-26-2006, 06:36 PM
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Sandy,
I am so sorry to hear this.. I think you have to go with your gut. If you don't think it is the right time, then you know best. I will be praying that God will lead you down the path of his choosing... HUGS.. I'm here if you need to vent or cry...
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Old 10-26-2006, 07:29 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this, but you have to do what's right for you and your family. Best of luck!
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Old 10-26-2006, 08:08 PM
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You never know how or when the right child will come to you.. We received a call about a birthmom, and two months later, we were driving to TX to pick up our son.. We went from having no children to having four in three years! God bless you and continue to give you peace with your decision..
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Old 10-26-2006, 09:40 PM
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Sandy,
God bless you and your family. May He send your baby your way when the time is right~~whenever that may be.

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Old 10-27-2006, 05:56 AM
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I am sorry things didnt work out here but I am glad that you belive in the Lord and what he wants for you is better then what you want for yourself. SO I know you have some good things instore for your life to come. Just go with the ride becuse you will be blessed. I will pray for you. You take care and when things start happening make sure you clue us in because we love to here what God is doing in your life. God bless. Kim
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Old 10-27-2006, 07:09 AM
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Sandy,
I'm sorry you aren't going to be joining us this time around on the journey, but I wish you the best! I know you know the blessings of having a little "Guetamalteca," and I'm sure this was a tough decision for you.

Please keep in touch!
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