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Old 10-23-2006, 07:13 AM
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Home for over 1 month!

We had our babies for almost 2 months now! I can't believe it.. time is just flying by!

The kiddos are doing great.. Our daughter grieved tremdously and it was tough the first few weeks. She refused to allow me to care for her. In fact, she would scratch, bite, hit, and pinch me. She would scream if she saw me or if she heard my voice. It was tough the first few weeks.
However, I practiced some attachment techniques and she has made HUGE progress!!

For those wondering: we visited twice prior to pick up and she never had a problem before, she tends to be a very easy going, relaxed child, and she is almost 9 months old.
Our son was a bit sad at first, but attached to us right away. We thought he would have the tought time since he likes and depends on routine and schedules.

For those of you stuck in PGN: I just wanted to offer you hope. Our daughter was stuck in PGN for almost 4 months and I was feeling pretty depressed and frustrated during that time. But the joy of having them home surpasses everything we went through the last 3 years to bring our children home!

For those of you getting close to PU: Congrats! Be ready for a fast ride to the PU trip! And if you haven't considered it, I HIGHLY recommend staying in Antigua. It is such a beautiful town and they have great hotels.
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10/15/05 Began

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2/23 "chiquitita" Referral (dob 1/30)
April to August: Stuck in PGN
8/29 Pink
9/7 Embassy Appointment
9/10 Home!

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3/22 "chiquitito" Referral (dob 2/25)
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9/10 Home!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:15 AM
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Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying “this is the way; walk in it.”
Isaiah 30:21

December 2003 - Decided to adopt from Guatemala
10/15/05 Began

Baby Girl
2/23 "chiquitita" Referral (dob 1/30)
April to August: Stuck in PGN
8/29 Pink
9/7 Embassy Appointment
9/10 Home!

Baby Boy
3/22 "chiquitito" Referral (dob 2/25)
May to Aug: Stuck in PGN
8/23: Pink
9/7 Embassy Appointment
9/10 Home!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:18 AM
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Thanks for the update!! I love the updates so much! Your babies are beautiful!!!! Glad things are going well.


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Jan. 3, 2006 - fingerprinted
Feb. 27 - international homestudy done
Mar. 9 - Dossier sent
Apr. 7 - I-171H in
June 5 - DNA approval
June 19th - entered Family Court
Aug. 1st - DNA Taken!!!
Aug. 8th- Out of Family Court!!
Aug. 9th - DNA results at US Embassy!!
Aug. 19th- Recvd DNA results in mail!!
Sept. 6-Received preapproval
Sept. 11 - IN PGN
Nov. 10- Previo
Nov. 15th - Our precious daughter turned one
Nov. 17th- Back In PGN
Jan. 12th, 2007 - WE ARE OUT!!!
Jan. 27th - PINK!!!!
Feb. 5th - Embassy appointment.
Feb. 7th - HOME!!!!!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:20 AM
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They are both sweet!!! So glad to hear they are both adjusting!
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6/9/06 Erick's referral (DOB 10-11-05)
6/30 HS report & dossier ready, need agency cover letter!
7/26 after 1 mo. SW receives HS cover letter from agency
7/31/06 Dossier off to consulate, HS to USCIS
8/2/06 I-171 received!
8/7/06 Dossier & POA to Guatemala
8/24/06 - 8/31 visit trip #1
8/31/06 POA re-done in Guatemala (errors on 1st POA)
9/13/06 enter family court
10/5/06 DNA pre-approval
10/6/06 FC interview & DNA testing done
10/16/06 DNA MATCH!!!!
11/14/06 pre-approval!!!!!!!!!
waiting for Guat. FC SW to correct errors on final FC report
1/5/07 FC report corrected, now fixing error on US SW report!
HS addendum to ministry of foreign affairs and translation
1/18/07 in PGN!!!!!
2/13/07 KO for missing docs that aren't missing!
2/19/07 re-entered PGN
4/6-4/15 VISIT TRIP #2 PLANNED
4/16 OUT OF PGN
5/9/07 PINK!!!!
5/22/07 embassy appt.
5/20-5/26 at the Marriott in GC
5/26-6/1 staying in Antigua
6/2/07 Erick is home forever!!!!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:20 AM
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They look so precious together!!! I am glad to hear that chiquitita is making progress on getting through her grieving and the attachment parenting has helped. I know you must be crazy busy with those two cuties - so want to thank you so much for the update on the kiddos and the adorable pictures (and I hope that you continue to keep us mind and up to date).
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:21 AM
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They are sooo beautiful!! Thanks for the "heads up" on the bonding issues. We leave at 7a tomorrow to get our little pumpkin! It's been a lllloooonnnnngggg year!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:21 AM
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Wow, your babies are stunning!!

Thank you so much for the update. I appreciate your advise about attachment and the PGN wait. I love, love, love the pictures.
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:23 AM
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Beautiful babies! You must be sooo busy with 2.

Good to hear that the attachment techniques work!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:24 AM
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Your Babies Are Absolutely Beautiful !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome Home, Glad Things Are Going Great For You All !!!!

Thanks For Sharing !!!!!!!!

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Old 10-23-2006, 07:31 AM
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You are so blessed - what gorgeous babies!! And I"m so glad to hear that your sweet little girl is adjusting better now. God bless your sweet family!!!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:31 AM
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They are both just gorgeous and look SO happy!

Thanks for the update! It is great to hear you are all doing well!
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:32 AM
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Oh gosh Myrna...they are ADORABLE!!!! Their smiles say it all and I can see they are thriving with lots of love and stability. And I love that little pink sweater on Malia. Emilee has the exact same one and I can't wait to see her in it!
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2005
5/18/2005 Referrals
After 10 mos in process, 2 PGN investigations, 176 days in PGN, and case completed in PGN.... HEAD of PGN refuses to sign

2006
3/06/2006 Abandonment begins...
9/06 First hearing
12/06 2nd hearing scheduled and not done

2007
8/24/07 2nd hearing done (not told), abandonment legal, need COA
9/07 We become sponsors for R and J
12/13/07 Sign POA, praying we make it in time

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2/11/08 Find out paperwork did NOT make it
11/08 Paperwork to Guatemala

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08/09 Waiting on court document to be completed
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:39 AM
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They are absolutely beautiful. Congrats on having them home.
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Old 10-23-2006, 07:58 AM
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What beautiful children you have! Thanks for posting the pics and for the words of encouragement!
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Old 10-23-2006, 08:01 AM
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Thanks so much for taking the time to post, and for encouraging all of us still waiting. Your babies are gorgeous. You and your husband are truly blessed.

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