[djchris]

I just returned home from the hospital... Dad is now on the Hospice floor ... he literally said his goodbyes to all the family over the past few days... it might take a few more days before his body catches up and he lets go and is at peace.. he is suffering from congestive heart failure, and he has fought a good fight for many years... he has been fighting hard these past few weeks, and has told everyone that he was holding on for 'his girl'.. she won't be home in time.... I told him tonight that he should not wait... that I will make sure she knows him... he has three pictures of her in his room...she is his 'unfinished business'...I am praying that he can go in peace, and that he does not suffer anymore... please keep him ( and the rest of my family) in your prayers....

[jalavimi]

I wish I could give you a hug! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Give your Dad a hug for us. - Monica

[posh]

my prayers are with you. I hope you and your family find peace.

[jules17]

Oh, Donna...I just saw the title of your thread and knew. I am just so sorry - I know it is heartbreaking to lose someone you love and at such a beautiful time in your life (getting ready to welcome your daughter). Life certainly isn't fair sometimes. I am a volunteer hospice counselor - any time you want to talk, I am here to listen for as long as you need.

Sending you and your family calming hugs...may you find some peace and comfort during this very difficult time. Jules

[ej-momtobe]

Donna,

So sorry to hear this. I understand your sadness...my mom died 2 months ago....she did not hang on long enough to meet the baby. Your baby will get to know your dad by getting to know you.

[BrooklynsMom]

I am sorry....Brooklyns papa is terminal and has been fighting hard for the past year...He has always been her favorite...they are connected at the hearts....it has been so hard to try and prepare her for his loss....She is 3 and 1/2 and it is so hard....to watch her try to understand....

My heart is with you....I am so sorry for your pain...Beth

[jlinberger]

Oh my goodness, I am so very sorry. I can't imagine your heartbreak.

[lisam00]

I am so sorry. I lost my Mom to cancer in 2004. She was a fighter for a long time too. When she knew that the end was near, she told everyone goodbye and shared happy past memories with each of us. It sounds so strange but I treasure the time that I had with her at the end of her life her on this earth. We sat, talked, held hands, and just simply enjoyed our time. Sadly, my Dad died just 9 months later from a sudden stroke.

You didn't ask for any advice but I'm going to give some anyway...try to just enjoy this time with your Dad. Try not to stress or worry..I know it's hard. Take comfort in knowing that your Dad is going home to the Father in heaven..his pain will be over.

I truly believe that my parents watched over Ava from heaven. We got our referral shorty after my Dad died and I just knew that my parents knew her before we did. No matter what the situation, it's so hard to lose a parent. Hang in there and know that God is holding your Dad and all of your family.

I am praying for your Dad and for all of you...may God be with you all and bring you comfort.

Lisa

[imateach]

My heart breaks for you. Praying for your dad, you and your family.

[CashCrew]

Oh my goodness I am so sorry. My heart is aching for you and your family. I will be saying special prayers for you all. I'm so sorry.

[Anne1377]

Hi Donna,

I sent you an email as well but please know that we are keeping your family in our thoughts.

Let me know if there is anything we can do. We are here for you!

Diane and Jim

[starryeyes]

Donna, I am so sorry.

I'm a nurse practitioner with Hospice and I work exclusively with CHF patients, so please feel free to PM me if you need info or a listening ear.

Will keep you and your family in my prayers.

[Leebert2]

My heart sank for you when I read your post. I am sending you a big hug. It is excruciating to lose a parent. I lost my mom 7 years ago and it will be a year that my father is gone on October 1st. Your daughter will know him through you. I will make sure my daughters know their grandparents always. I never actually met my grandfather, but I knew him because my mom kept his legacy alive by telling stories about him and teaching me the lessons he taught her. I am so sorry. Nothing and no one can replace a parent.

Lisa

[annelisa]

Donna,
I am so sad for you and for your family. No one is ever truly prepared to lose a parent; the grief is so great.
I don't know what else to say except that my heart goes out to you.
God bless..........

[Ms.Judi]

I am praying for you and your family. My Dad passed away 5 years ago, but I know he is watching over my daughter everyday and keeping her safe until I can bring her home.
Hugs,