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Old 06-11-2006, 06:12 PM
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Thank you

Throughout this process I have been sometimes amazed by the strength that can come from within. When you feel like you cannot walk another step, somehow, you find the strength and you do. I have told myself a million times...Megan, you are strong enough to do this.

This week, I told myself, you can do this. You will find the strength to leave him once again. But I found that when I looked for it, sadly it was gone. Sadly, strength is finite. It CAN be used up.

So for everyone who helped carry me, Thank you. To friends who held me when I cried for my Braeden, thank you. For my Mommy, who talked me through the plane ride home, thank you. For my husband, who sat up with me last night when my dreams turned to nightmares, thank you. To my forum friends, who told me that I do have strength left, thank you. I will look for it again tomorrow.

Tonight, for my Braeden who cried when his Mommy left, Thank you. I love you and I miss you.
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Old 06-11-2006, 06:17 PM
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My heart goes out to you .
No Parent should ever have to say good bye to
their baby .
Praying you are on your way back to Guatemala
to bring your baby home real soon!
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Signed with agency 1~2002
Smooth adoption~ Hayle
Home forever 3~26~2003

Found Loida on photolisting 6~2005
Signed W/ agency 7~26~2005
Paper ready 10~27~2005
Loida's 4th birthday , 11~6~05
Told we were submitted for PA 12~5~2005
2~7~06 opps! agency told us , not submitted for preapproval
when Loida's abandonment decree was signed 4~11~2005, they never took the next step to have a birthcertificate issued.
Never given an explanation for this "miscomunication"
Hired outside attorney group 2~10~06
B.C. issued and compleate by 3~23~2006
told we need a new POA 4~3~2006
3rd POA got to Guatemala 5~15~06
Told we need to send another
Marriage certificate 5~22~06
Entered Family Court 6~19~06
Interview 6~27~06
P.A. 7~10~06
Social report done 7~11~06
Waiting on 1 more document so we can enter PGN
Oct 16th to 30th 2006 WONDERFUL visit
Let our precious Loida come home Lord!
signed out of minors June 24 2008
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Old 06-11-2006, 06:26 PM
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Megan, I have just lifted you up to our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, to give you strength to make it to the end. I know that my precious daughter and son-in-law visited Elia twice and had to leave her both times. The heartbreak was truly unimagineable. She finally did come home though a couple of years ago, and they adopted little Ava Grace who thankfully arrived home when she was just 4 months ago; she has been home for over a year now. I felt all the pain my daughter felt, but I can tell you that when you get that angel in your arms, and you know it is forever, all the pain will truly vanish, and your life will never be the same again. These children are the most amazing blessings! May God bless you and keep you until you hold your angel in your arms forever. Vicki
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Old 06-11-2006, 06:36 PM
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Vicky you said exactly what I wanted to express!


We hold you in our prayers. We too know how hard it is to say good-bye.

May the call come soon for you to go down and bring your baby home soon!
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Old 06-11-2006, 06:37 PM
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Megan, I am so sorry you had to leave him again. Unfortunately, many of us here know that pain all too well. The weeks will go by and pain will subside a little, but you have the memories of that last couple of weeks w/ him to get you through when your having a bad day...

I really hope that you get good news soon and you are with him forever.

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referrals suspended in Russia-What???
8/2005 switched to Guatamala
9/05 Referral of Arely- 4 wks old
12/05 Wonderful visit, w/o DNA
1/23- FC
complication after complication
Called Senator for help
2/20 Wonderful visit #2, still no DNA!!!
3/01-Meeting w/ Senator
3/07- DNA authorization and SWI
3/20- DNA test done
3/27- In PGN w/o PA
4/4- DNA match
4/26 PA
5/4-KO 1, 5/8 back in
5/18-22- wonderful visit #3
5/?- KO 2 and back in
7/5- ko 3, 8/4 back in
8/9 baby girl turns ONE
9/9 OUT of PGN
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10/13- Embassy appt..
10/17-HOME--yeah!!!!
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Old 06-11-2006, 06:56 PM
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Oh my heart is breaking for you reading your post. I am soooooo sorry for your pain. I can only imagine how hard this is for you and I am sorry. We are all here. Vent away. I hope your case is resolved quickly. You need your baby home!!
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M- 8 yr old son
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Isabella our Guatemalan Princesa
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Jan 2006 We are Starting Our Journey !
Jan 25 -- Paper chase begins
May 27-- 171-H IS HERE !!
June 8-- Our baby girl referral
June 25--POA
June 26-- DNA test
July 14--FC
July 17--PA
Aug 18--FC exit
Aug 25--IN PGN
Sept 11-- KO'ed ( for a baby bc )
Sept 20--Back in
Oct 13-KO #2 (Bmom BC)
Oct 13-Back in
Nov 22-- WE ARE OUT BABY !!
Dec 16-- HOME FOREVER
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Old 06-11-2006, 07:07 PM
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I'm so sorry that you had to leave your baby again. I can't imagine how hard that leaving and the wait must be. Extra hugs and prayers coming your way...
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12/5/2006 Welcome home Addisyn Lucia May!!!
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Old 06-11-2006, 07:15 PM
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I'm so sorry Megan. I will be praying for you and hoping you can find your strength again! I know you can and you will. Braeden will be home very soon!

Take care of YOU!
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11/05 decided to switch countries from Ukraine to Guatemala
11/23/05 accepted referral for beautiful baby girl born Nov. 9th.
12/15/05 dossier to Guatemala
1/15/06 DNA matched and we are in Family Court
1/25/06 embassy receives DNA
2/23-2/27 beautiful visit trip!
3/10/06 contacted senator's office about preapproval.
4/21/06 got PREAPPROVAL! Yippeeeee!
8/18/06 FINALLY IN PGN
8/25/06 ooops....our mistake! NOT in PGN!
9/4/06 Okay! NOW we're IN PGN!
12/19/06
OUT OUT OUT of PGN! Thank you SOOOOOO MUCH!

1/10/07 new birth certificate issued
1/17/07 PINK!!! Appt is 1/23/07 Thank you God!
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Old 06-11-2006, 08:07 PM
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Oh, Megan. I am so very sorry for all the hurt you are experiencing. I am also lifting you up in prayer tonight. Please know that you are not going through this alone. ((((((HUGS)))))))
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Old 06-12-2006, 04:52 AM
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My heart is breaking for you. I'll be praying!!
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I-171H 7/8/05
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DNA done 8/19/05
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DNA results 10/4/05
Wonderful visit 10/13/05 to 10/16/05
Out of Family Court 10/??/05
Preapproval 11/21/05
Entered PGN 11/24/05
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Old 06-12-2006, 05:23 AM
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I'm so sorry you are experiencing this pain. I just said a prayer for you!
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PGN 1/18/07
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Old 06-12-2006, 05:41 AM
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I am so sorry that you had to come home without your son, that saddens me. I hope that PGN has some movement and that you can return to Guatemala and bring your son home as soon as possible.
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11/10 - Carson was Born
11/23 - Accepted Refferal of C DOB 11/10
2/2 - Received our I171H
2/15 - Entered Family Court
Wonderful Visit - 3/1-3/4
3/8 - FC Interview
3/8 - DNA Test
3/15 - Out of FC
3/17 - DNA Match
4/7 - Pre-Approval
4/21 - Entered PGN
5/29 - OUT of PGN
6/2 - Adoption Decree Picked Up
6/15 BC from Escuintla
6/22 PINK
7/2 - Arrived for Pick Up
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7/5 - HOME FOREVER....

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Old 06-12-2006, 06:11 AM
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I am praying for you!

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Old 06-12-2006, 11:03 AM
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I am so very sorry. I can only imagine your heartbreak. I'm praying that you get liberated from PGN and have your baby boy home with you very soon. Hugs coming your way
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Old 06-12-2006, 11:12 AM
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Tears are running down my cheeks as I type. You poor thing, may the last time you say good by to him is when you pack him off to college.

Several family member and friends asked if we were going to visit - I know that I'm not strong enough to give her back.

I pray that PGN moves quickly and that he's home in your arms soon.
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