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Old 03-31-2006, 08:04 PM
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Question Telling younger children about adoption?

Does anyone know of any good children's books that explain about adoption, specifically international adoption. I have 2 nieces (5 and 9) and my brother and his wife do not want us to discuss the adoption in fron of them. He said he does not want them to know until we return home with the baby because they won't understand.
I think it would be more confusing to just show up with a baby one day, but I don't know.
I would love to know a good way to talk about it with them. They were always so excited when my sister-in-law's sisters have been pregnant and talked excitedly about their new cousins and how they couldn't wait for them to be here. It is a little sad that I won't get to see them get excited to wait for their new little cousin from Guatemala. I thought we could tell them when we accepted a referall, but my brother wants us to wait.
(Just to be clear, my brother has been EXTREMELY supportive of the adoption and is looking forward to being an uncle! He has even helped us financially so I don't want anyone to think that he is anyhting but great. He even congratulated me on being an expectatnt mom!)
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Old 03-31-2006, 08:18 PM
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Check out Over The Moon: An Adoption Tale by Karen Katz! I borrowed this from our public library (along with several other children's adoption books) and it was absolutely my favorite! It even tells of a Latin American adoption with a foster mother!
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Old 03-31-2006, 08:20 PM
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The one that comes to mind is "Over the Moon" - I have an extra copy that I would be more than happy to send you if you PM me your contact info. Good luck.

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Old 03-31-2006, 08:32 PM
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The one I like is "A New Barker in the House" by Tomie dePaola. It is about two older kids (actually puppies) who get a new sibling through adoption from a Hispanic country. It is very cute and they would easily understand the point.
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Old 03-31-2006, 08:48 PM
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A Mother for Choco,, My kids love that book..
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