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Old 03-26-2006, 08:55 AM
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In memory of Tobie 3/26/04-3/31/04

Today my third son would have been 2 years old. Some of you know me and I have talked about him before. I wanted to share pictures of him with you because you all have become good friends.
I am proud of him and it is not often I get to show people these pictures.
We started the adoption process shortly after this time in our lives. I thought for sure by by his second birthday we would have our baby from Guatemala home. Hopefully by this time next year we will.
Today we are letting 2 balloons go at his grave. Next year Gabby will help us remember who was to be her brother, Tobie.
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"For I know the plans I have for you, Ana Gabriela, declares the Lord, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:02 AM
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I am so sorry, this is heartbreaking. Jennifer peace and comfort coming your way to you and your family.
Also your family is beautiful.

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Started adoption process a long time ago....
November 27, 2005, Baby Girl born
December 19, 2005 Received referral ,
January In family Court, DNA Auth
February 8, DNA results, it's a match! In FC waiting on PA
March 7, Visa Pre Approval
March in PGN
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May 5, Ciao PGN....We are OUT!
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:04 AM
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What beautiful pictures. You are in my thoughts and prayers today.

Carolyn
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June 28, 2001/Birth of our bio.son
July 15, 2005/Home forever from Guatemala with son #2
March 15, 2006/Start adoption from South Korea!
May 18/Homestudy to Korea
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July 21/Received I-797 finally!!!
September 25/Received I-600
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:08 AM
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Jennifer, thank you for sharing a bit of Tobie with us. I am so sorry that he was only with you for a short time, but it is clear he will always will be a part of your life in a big way.

God Bless,
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One Guatmalan prince, William, 1 (Referred 2/05-home 8/05),
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:09 AM
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What a beautiful family! You're in my thoughts today.
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:11 AM
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You will be in my thoughts. Thank you for sharing your pictures.

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Old 03-26-2006, 09:30 AM
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Dear jennifer,

It is good that you can come to this forum and share these feelings with so many of us who have cared and prayed for you.
I hope that the day brings peace to you. He is in your heart and spirit forever.

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Old 03-26-2006, 09:33 AM
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Oh my gosh how incredibly sad!!!! What a horrible thing for any parent to have to go thru. I hope you get your little girl home soon. What a wonderful memorial sending off two balloons. My thoughts are with your family.

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Old 03-26-2006, 09:34 AM
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Hi,

My heart goes out to you as my daughter's 6th birthday was in Feb, that is if she had lived to be six, so I understand. She died after a botched open-heart surgery at age 16-months.

I know what this feels like, you are in my thoughts today and always.
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:35 AM
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Jennifer, my heart goes out to you as a mom who has been through many losses. May God comfort you during this time as only he can. I will be praying that you are able to bring your daughter home soon.

In Christ's Love,
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Started paperchase 3/28/06
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Preview in Mixco 03/27/08
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Praise God!! Mixco bc 05/02/08
Visiting our precious son 05/07/08-05/10/08
Passport 05/13/08
2nd DNA auth. 05/19/08
2nd DNA taken 05/22/08
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:36 AM
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Jennifer,
My heart and prayers go out to you all today. I can't even imagine your pain. May God bless you and bring your baby girl home very soon. Take care. God Bless.... HUGSSSS
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K/O - Guat Error 11/01/04
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Old 03-26-2006, 09:59 AM
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God Bless you and your family. I think you have chosen a wonderful way to remember Tobie. Thank you for sharing it with us.
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dob 4/4/05 It's a BOY!!!
referral 4/22/05
I-171H 5/9/05
dossier 5/12/05
DNA done 6/17/05
FC interview 6/16/05
DNA Match!!!! 6/23 99.99!
Glorious Visit 6/30-7/5
Out of FC some time before 7/13
Pre-approval 7/27. Officially notified 8/4.
2nd wonderful visit 8/10-8/17
PGN 8/16 (we think!)
O-U-T!!! 8/30
BC 9/5
PINK 9/12
Travel 9/17-9/22
Home 9/23

2nd time
7/30/07Christian born
9/7/07Referral
11/22 enter PGN
12/14 PREVIO
2/11 Resubmit
2/27/08 OUT
3/26/08 2nd DNA
4/2/08 DNA arrives at Embassy
4/3/08 Missing Visa 37
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4/25/08 Embassy
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Old 03-26-2006, 10:05 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story. Your family will be in my thoughts today. Take care.
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Signed with agency 3/1/05
HS Complete 5/27/05
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Dossier in Guatemala 8/15/05
Referral 08/15/05
POA sent 8/17/05
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PA 1/20/06
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Old 03-26-2006, 10:11 AM
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I follow your posts so closely, may God bless you at this difficult time. I know you would do anything to have his little sister home now, I would give a great deal to see that happen for you.

Without a doubt, Tobie's short time on earth had great meaning. I know it included lessons for all of us, thank you for sharing that him with us. I feel even closer to you now that I have seen your beautiful family together. May God bless you all and may He hold Gabby tightly in his arms until she arrives in yours.
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Old 03-26-2006, 10:16 AM
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I will be thinking of you today. Thank you for sharing your precious baby with us. I think it is beautiful that you will be releasing 2 balloons for him today.

Lisa
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Born 2/4/04
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