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Old 03-01-2006, 06:28 AM
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I am so sorry for what you had to endure. Thank God both you and your DH had to the strength to endure it to bring your sweet children home! You are amazing!!!
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Old 03-01-2006, 06:40 AM
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What joy you must feel each day as you look at him and realize her is here to stay. You have a tremendous story to tell you children one day. As difficult as it was to go through, I know that without a doubt you would say it was worth it for your baby. That fact alone is a tremendous testimony to your commitment as a parent and will give your kids a lot of security in who they are in your sight.
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Old 03-01-2006, 06:48 AM
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I am so happy your children are home with you safe and sound!
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Old 03-01-2006, 06:50 AM
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Thank you for sharing, it's really an important thing to do.

I am so glad everything worked out in the end, but so sorry for all you had to endure!
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Old 03-01-2006, 06:54 AM
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MLRJ,
I remember your threads and posts on this. I remeber thinking to myself that what you where enduring was the scariest thing. I am so glad that it is over for you.
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Old 03-01-2006, 06:55 AM
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I am so sorry you had such an ordeal with the facilitator and the agency!!

Thank you though for sharing your story and hopefully saving others from the same pain!

Glad to know that there was a happy ending however and you now have your kids home with you!
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Old 03-01-2006, 07:48 AM
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I'm so glad that you've shared this awful ordeal...we all need to know about the possibility of these kinds of things happening.

But I'm even gladder that both of your Guatemalan angels are home with you. Honestly, we were so worried about Christopher when your plea for prayers came out, but I would have been absolutely distraught if I'd known that he was missing for a month. I just remember that sweet tiny little baby during our visit...thank goodness you had the strength to stick with it and get him home.

The US Embassy should ban that facilitator!!!!
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Old 03-01-2006, 11:55 AM
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Wow, thanks for sharing. I know from having a nightmare adoption (2nd one) myself that you'd rather just forget about it once your child is home. And we didn't go through nearly as much trauma as you did!

Kudos to you for sticking it out for your little one!
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11/28-It's a Match!!! - 99.99%!!!
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Old 03-01-2006, 12:05 PM
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How awful. You are an amazingly strong person for being able to survive this ordeal. Your kids are lucky to have you.
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3/26 Finally, received PA!
4/9/07 - Embassy refused to allow attorney to pick up PA
4/21/07 - Received PA email again!
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Old 03-01-2006, 12:06 PM
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Wow....as awful as your story is, I am sure the words cannot even begin to convey the terror, doubt, sweats, sleepless nights... and much more.

Thank you, thank you for sharing your story. We can only hope that telling people about the bad players in this industry will help shut them DOWN.
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Thank you for sharing your story. And I encourage you to please write to the US Embassy, copy your member of Congress (visit www.congress.org and enter your zip to find their name and contact info) tell your story and ask that they review any dealings with that particular facilitator.

As for those babies, I bet it is so wonderful to sneak into their rooms at night at watch them sleep. They really are home forever - a dream come true! I am so happy that you can finally begin the 'and they live happily ever after' part of the story!
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Homestudy Complete 2/23
171 H - 3/9
Dossier Translated 3/18
Search for Birth Mother - Located 7/25
FC - 7/28
US Embassy - 8/3
Preapproval 8/30
PGN - 9/7
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BC 9/26
PINK! 9/29
HOME FOREVER 10/03 Hooray!

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DNA taken 1/31/07
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Old 03-01-2006, 01:08 PM
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one of those stories you just can't even believe. wow. thank GOD your kids are home.
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3/18/05- Home forever!!!
Waiting for Gabriella Ingrid.....!
1/20/06- SURPRISE!!! Agency call of inquiry for
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2/7/06- Full referral
2/23/06- Dossier and all acceptance docs DONE!
3/25/06- I-797C received! (I-171H equiv)
6/7/06- DNA authorization and entered FC
6/15/06- DNA and FC interview
6/23/06- Positive DNA match!!!
7/18/06- Pre-approval
7/28/06- Exited Family Court
8/16/06- Entered PGN
9/27/06- OUT OF PGN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
9/16 or 9/17- Submitted for Pink
9/19- NOT GIVEN PINK for missing cable 37
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Old 03-01-2006, 01:16 PM
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Margie,

Thank you for sharing your story! We endured a horrible ordeal with our agency and facilitator too! It all came to a head when we were down on our pick up trip. One day, I will post our story, so that others will steer clear of my facilitator and agency.

I'm so glad that your children are safely home with you and your family!!

Leigh
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Just want to say thanks for all of your encouragement- I feel relief just being finally able to tell this story- I do plan to write the US embassy- just are not sure they will do anything as I know other folks that have tried this route- For anyone else who tried to PM me for my agency/facilitator name- I have cleared my inbox.

I do look at my four precious children and thank God for them everyday. I give special thanks to God for bringing Christopher home as I really had moments of doubt at times during the ordeal. He has endured incredible stress in his short life. I guess we were just meant to be his family.

thank you all again.

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This is so unbelievable ! I cant believe this has happened to you. You must have been out of your mind !!! I am so glad your story has a happy ending. Thank you for sharing.
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