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Old 02-21-2006, 11:42 AM
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PGN Waiters PITY PARTY!!!!!! Come WHINE here!!!

OKAY all you whiners!!! Post here!!!! LEt it allll out!!


Is it NOT okay to be angry at the person on the other end of the phone when they are not your agency????
I feel for some reason that it is a justified feeling!!!!!!

Now, I KNOW I haven't been in as long as some, but I also know I HAVE been in longer than some, and to that I say

LET ME OUT PGN!!!! PLEASE God, here my MANY MANY prayers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE lets have an ENTIRE week like yestersay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 02-21-2006, 11:51 AM
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Well at 264 days, I should definitely sign up.
That is over 9 1/2 mos!
Just thinking about it gives me a major "HEADACHE".
I miss my baby!
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Old 02-21-2006, 11:58 AM
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I'm really good at whining!!! C'MON PGN let us out!!!

I have been praying for the long timers!
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1/17/06-K/O-Need more documents from El Salvador
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Old 02-21-2006, 12:15 PM
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I guess I'm a long-timer now...it will be 12 weeks for us tomorrow. I doubt we'll be out anytime soon...there are problems with our case. We are hung up in Minor's Court right now, which I guess is a disaster at the moment. Then once we exit we'll have the lovely GCBC wait!! And pink slips are taking awhile now I hear. Yes, I'm pretty depressed about the whole thing.
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Old 02-21-2006, 02:05 PM
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Unhappy

I am on Board! We got our referral in July. We have been in PGN since Nov 6th. KO#1 Back in Dec 6th. Sent into investigation on Jan 18th. No word except speculation on what is wrong, PGN not giving any info to lawyer. 15th week in PGN after 9 week wait for pre-approval. I always keep in mind just when you think you have it bad, someone elses timeline is worse.

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Old 02-21-2006, 02:12 PM
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I WANT MY BABY GIRL HOME WITH ME!!!!!!! PGN LET US OUT!
I have no clue where we are at the moment with PGN have not heard anything since we were resubmitted on the 16th......Wish I knew something.
It is the not knowing that drives me crazy!
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Old 02-21-2006, 02:36 PM
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Let me whine!!!!!!!!

Thank you for starting this thread!!! I want OUT!!! We have been in since 1/17. Why are people who went in after me already out!!!!!! We have heard nothing. I can't stop crying. I want him home!!!!! Come on PGN.......LET US OUT!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 02-21-2006, 02:50 PM
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Please let us out PGN...! I can't wait to bring Caleb home!!! Prayers for all of us to be out of PGN soon.
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Old 02-21-2006, 03:08 PM
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May I attend the party to offer some cheering on...

for those of you waiting! ESPECIALLY the long term waiters! There are too many long term waiters. Get OUT!

As someone who just entered PGN I have no complaints right now.

Just getting over and feeling relief from exiting FC after so long and feeling excited about getting to PGN.

I know if I become stranded in PGN at all, I can come here and get some encouragement.

Thank you for the support you show one to another.

Laura Jean
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*Home Forever 5/06-God is gracious!

*3/15/06 It'a boy!
*Exited FC, DNA match, PA
*6/15/06 Becomes abandonment case
*Lost referral
*8/06 Attempting to adopt him thru orphanage.
*10/31/06 NO CERT issued at abandonment hearing
*Now waiting for a 2nd abandonment hearing, it's all in God's capable hands.

*Referral of 7 mo. old boy
*7/14/06 New Cert & Auth Docs sent to Guat
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*8/09/06 DNA Auth
*8/22/06 Sample recieved at Lab Corp
*8/23/06 Exited FC
*8/28/06 DNA match
*9/28/06 Entered PGN W/O PA b/c of Oct.1st scare
*9/29/06 Notified of PA, received on 9/28/06
*10/20/06 3 KO's, Witness Statements, PA, & B.Mom paper needs re-doing
*11/1-11/5 Visit trip!
*11/6/06 New Witness Stat's received in Guat, being translated
*11/8 BACK IN PGN
*11/27(?) ish, KO for a signature
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Old 02-21-2006, 03:44 PM
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We just want IN PGN. It's been seven weeks since pre-approval. Thanks for allowing the whine time.
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Old 02-21-2006, 03:49 PM
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As a two time PGN long timer (95 and 105 days) I feel for and am praying for all of you.

Come on PGN! Let Peach45gardenin's grandaughter in and then open the flood gates!! PLEASE!
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Old 02-21-2006, 03:51 PM
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Thank you for starting this thread! I have had a rough time of it lately, and just feel so exhausted. All that we wanted to do when we started this whole process was to become a family, and yet our son is 8-1/2 months old and is STILL not home with us. We were kicked out more than three weeks ago now, and all that we are receiving is double talk from our agency.


If you want to know of the agency that we would NOT recommend anyone to use, PM me.

Please, please to whomever the powers may be, please let our son come home!
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It's been MONTHS & WE ARE STILL WAITING........
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Old 02-21-2006, 04:30 PM
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I was kicked out of PGN last week so


I WANT BACK IN AND THEN I WANT OUT!!!!!!!!!!!

iT IS SO HARD TO LOOK AT THAT PICTURE AND KNOW WE ARE SO FAR APART.
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Old 02-21-2006, 04:37 PM
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I want OUT!!!!! WE ave been in since Dec 2. I want OUT....
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Old 02-21-2006, 04:40 PM
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Just a cheerleader

I wanted to let you PGN Waiters know that you're in my thoughts every day. I was 'only' in PGN for 8 weeks and got out 2 weeks ago - it was torture of course, but nothing compared to so many. So though I'm not whining on my own behalf, I'll be a surrogate whiner and cheerleader for all those waiting to escape from PGN!
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