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Old 02-20-2006, 05:45 PM
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We have been home a month-long

We have been home just over a month. Damian has adjusted very well. I have posted a few pictures over the last month but I thought I would take the time to write an update. I know many times bonding issues have been discussed on the forum, as well as how does it feel when your baby is finally home, and how is the family adjusting? So I thought I would tell a little bit about how our first month has gone. Damian clearly knows who mommy and daddy are and is very bonded to us. The first week we had a ton of visitors. I know many people felt they should limit visitors but even our immediate family is pretty large so I just couldn't tell them to stay away. Damian will let other people hold him once he has had a chance to warm up to them, but as soon as mommy or daddy come back into the room he reaches back for us. He is pretty bonded to his Nana (my mom) and is also warming up to my husbands parents. I am home with him until mid June, so for now he is with me all day. When daddy walks in the door from work he immediately wants daddy. He prefers to spend this time with his daddy instead of mommy. I have learned little things about my baby. For instance when he first wakes up we must pick him up out of bed and hold him and rock him for a minute until he is completely awake. If we try to change him or put him down right away he cries. He does not like to be rushed in the mornings and I think he gets that from his daddy. Damian also has gained over 3 lbs since he has been home (he did not gain weight for 3 months while in Gu). He also says mama and dada and is crawling and walking while holding onto things. Damian loves his bottle and wants nothing to do with the sippy cup. He does pinch and bite so we are trying to teach him not to do this. We have to watch him really close around his cousins. Damian is our baby. He was meant for our family. I know everyone says this but it just amazes me how perfectly he fits with us and how lucky we are to have our precious baby boy. I will post a few pics. I try to check the boards to see how everyones cases are moving along. I hope those still waiting get their little ones home soon. You can also visit Damian's website at
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Old 02-20-2006, 05:50 PM
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He is beautiful and I am so happy you have all found each other.
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dob 4/4/05 It's a BOY!!!
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Old 02-20-2006, 06:15 PM
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He's so cute . . . I'm glad to hear how well you're all doing. Enjoy the time you have at home!
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Old 02-20-2006, 06:34 PM
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Damian is as precious as ever. I'm glad to hear things are going well for you and that you are having some time at home with him. Keep us posted!
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Old 02-20-2006, 07:11 PM
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The first few months are an adjustment but your son looks like he is doing great. What a nice looking little boy.
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Old 02-20-2006, 07:17 PM
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Thanks for the update...your son is precious!
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Old 02-20-2006, 07:55 PM
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Thanks for sharing the pictures and the thoughts. It helps me keep going through all the waiting. Damian is adorable!
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Old 02-20-2006, 08:21 PM
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What a cutie! Glad to hear things are going well!
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Old 02-20-2006, 08:57 PM
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He's a doll! I'm so glad things are going so well for you..
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Old 02-20-2006, 09:06 PM
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He is a cutie pie! Welcome home!
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Thanks for sharing your experience.

I am so glad things are going relatively smoothly.

Your son is precious!

Please update us some more when you can... looks like you have your hands full!

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Old 02-20-2006, 09:11 PM
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I'm glad things are going so smooth. Damian is a cutie. I hope things continue on it's current path
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Old 02-21-2006, 05:47 AM
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He is too cute. You are a very lucky woman.
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06/20/07 Exit Family Court
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Old 02-21-2006, 06:29 AM
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I know you must be busy right now, but thanks for taking the time to post. I enjoyed reading about your first days home and seeing photos of your family. Photos and updates are the best for all of us in the waiting stage.
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