[Adrianmom&dad]

Our baby boy Adrian was born 5-20-05, ref 6-30-05.

We just went into PGN last week. we do not get a whole lot of updates from our agency except for pictures & medical updates every 6 weeks. Looks like a lot of people are way ahead of us that got ref around the same time or even months afetr ours.

I see all detailed timelines. We have been given very few dates of when thigs have happened.

Should we be worried or is this normal? Thanks

[dspakowsky]

I woundn't be worried, but your case is moving slow. That doesn't mean you won't get your child home though. Can you call your agency and ask for more details? Although now that you're in PGN, there may not be much they can tell you, until you're "out".

Keep the faith! Your little baby is waiting for you. Even if it takes a while, it will all be worth it in the end!

[riaanne]

I am with you - I do not get many updates either - i call my agency and ask for them right around the time I think things should be done and I follow up once a week until I get an answer. We also do not get any medical updates, I have asked and they tell me the attorney does not give any to them. I get pics every 6 - 8 weeks and his length.

A lot of people seem to have very detailed info they either have agencies better able to communicate with them or know who to contact to force the info out of At this point I'm happy to get an answer to a direct question

[apetry26]

I don't know exact days of when things have happened for our case, only months. I don't usually get detailed info. I haven't gotten any medicals. That seems to be the trend lately. I'm starting to think that isn't' so bad. If something was wrong I'm certain I would be told of that. I just quit asking for them and pics- waste of time. My agency isnt very good in the communication area. I assume things are moving along. I email them once a week or two just to see if there has been any progress. Usually there isn't. Sometimes, you just have to get very direct w/ them to get the answers you need. Angie