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Old 01-09-2006, 02:04 PM
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Pity Party Going On and I am the Hostess!

I have tried to refrain from complaining or sounding impatient.... but I am eating a ton of baked tortilla chips dipped in a combination of salsa and conqueso sauce.

Just cause they are baked Laura doesn't mean you can eat a whole bag!

I have a great agency and attorney it's just that because of the holidays and the extra long vacation for our attorney in Guat we haven't had an update in weeekkkssssssss....

The silence is hard.... Am I out of FC? Do we have PA? Could we possibly be out of FC and be in PGN as we speak?

I wouldn't be so anxious but I see many, many, PA's getting out so quickly and after our DNA was done and matched.

So I can't help but wonder. We are visting this Friday so we shall surely know all at that time. I pray someone was checking on PA's while my attorney was on vaction since they are coming so quickly.

Until then, there must be more baked chips, or fat free, no sugar added, vanilla cherry swirl ice cream on hand to consume .....

My prayers go out to all of us, especially those who are under investigation, have complications, and unnecessary delays.

Sorry, just need a boost of good news, that's all. Thanks for reading this.

Laura Jean
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*United 8/04-Thank you God!

*Sib Ref, DD#2, DOB 8/05
*Home Forever 5/06-God is gracious!

*3/15/06 It'a boy!
*Exited FC, DNA match, PA
*6/15/06 Becomes abandonment case
*Lost referral
*8/06 Attempting to adopt him thru orphanage.
*10/31/06 NO CERT issued at abandonment hearing
*Now waiting for a 2nd abandonment hearing, it's all in God's capable hands.

*Referral of 7 mo. old boy
*7/14/06 New Cert & Auth Docs sent to Guat
*7/28/06 SWI
*8/09/06 DNA Auth
*8/22/06 Sample recieved at Lab Corp
*8/23/06 Exited FC
*8/28/06 DNA match
*9/28/06 Entered PGN W/O PA b/c of Oct.1st scare
*9/29/06 Notified of PA, received on 9/28/06
*10/20/06 3 KO's, Witness Statements, PA, & B.Mom paper needs re-doing
*11/1-11/5 Visit trip!
*11/6/06 New Witness Stat's received in Guat, being translated
*11/8 BACK IN PGN
*11/27(?) ish, KO for a signature
*12/3 Back In
*2/6/ OUT and Waiting for Mixco BC
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Old 01-09-2006, 02:08 PM
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Vent away! The not knowing is so hard. I would be happy (maybe) with a weekly update of some sorts.
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Old 01-09-2006, 02:23 PM
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You would know if you have PA because the embasy will send a notice to your e-mail. annaguat
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May 5,2005 start
Aug. 23 I171H
Sept. 20 referrals
Oct. DNA match
Nov. PA received, FC stuck because of holidays
Dec. Awesome visit!
Dec. wait for FC and out!
Dec. into PGN and stuck because of holidays
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Old 01-09-2006, 02:28 PM
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Just wanted to send hugs your way. Vent away. I hear ya!!!

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Old 01-09-2006, 02:30 PM
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USUALLY Embassy gets the email to you. Not always.

Hang in there. PGN is up next ... (you are probably in without PA ... ).

The darkest hour is just before dawn as many here know.
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Old 01-09-2006, 02:37 PM
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last adoption we NEVER got an email and either did..

our agency or atty. in fact it sat ther for a week cause they never contacted anyone.

also, our atty won't put us in without PA anymore. she has changed her way of doing things as far as that goes...

thanks for your kind words...

laura jean
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*United 8/04-Thank you God!

*Sib Ref, DD#2, DOB 8/05
*Home Forever 5/06-God is gracious!

*3/15/06 It'a boy!
*Exited FC, DNA match, PA
*6/15/06 Becomes abandonment case
*Lost referral
*8/06 Attempting to adopt him thru orphanage.
*10/31/06 NO CERT issued at abandonment hearing
*Now waiting for a 2nd abandonment hearing, it's all in God's capable hands.

*Referral of 7 mo. old boy
*7/14/06 New Cert & Auth Docs sent to Guat
*7/28/06 SWI
*8/09/06 DNA Auth
*8/22/06 Sample recieved at Lab Corp
*8/23/06 Exited FC
*8/28/06 DNA match
*9/28/06 Entered PGN W/O PA b/c of Oct.1st scare
*9/29/06 Notified of PA, received on 9/28/06
*10/20/06 3 KO's, Witness Statements, PA, & B.Mom paper needs re-doing
*11/1-11/5 Visit trip!
*11/6/06 New Witness Stat's received in Guat, being translated
*11/8 BACK IN PGN
*11/27(?) ish, KO for a signature
*12/3 Back In
*2/6/ OUT and Waiting for Mixco BC
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Old 01-09-2006, 03:06 PM
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Some munchies for the pity party!

Laura,

The least I can do is come by and hang out at the pity party, and bring some munchies! (I'm recycling some silliness I created when I was growing mold in PGN, as it seemed like it might be good snacks for your fiesta!!)

Hugs and sympathy,

Mary
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Old 01-09-2006, 03:07 PM
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Old 01-09-2006, 03:08 PM
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This goes great on Wonder bread...

with bananas...
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Old 01-09-2006, 03:10 PM
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Some CAKE!
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Old 01-09-2006, 03:14 PM
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Laura when you start dipping the Tortilla Chips in the Cherry Swirl Ice Cream then you have to start worrying!!! CHips and Dip are my greatest weakness. And I don't even buy the Baked Kind!! shameshameshame.....
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Old 01-09-2006, 03:59 PM
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The waiting is soo hard, as my earlier post about waiting for pink says. Its the control (or should I say, lack of control) that we all have in the situation. The embassy emailed me my pre-approval way before I ever heard from my agency about, so hopefully you will too. And I understand the eating thing. I 've eaten almost a half pound of See's Peanut Brittle here today that is sitting on my secretary's desk!
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Just want to offer a hug. }}}Jean{{{ I'm sorry you are frustrated. Please vent here amongst those who have been there anytime. Have a wonderful trip.
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I think many of us have been through the frustration of the process and certainly understand what you are going through!!

I hope that you hear some good news soon!
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Old 01-09-2006, 04:55 PM
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It's just such a difficult process and I feel for you!!! It is great that you are visiting on Friday...that will be the perfect pity party remedy! Hang in there and have a great trip!!!

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