[josh1788smom]

Yes - he should have every method of contact available. I am hoping for an e-mail saying the myspace thing had nothing to do with me. As a bmom though, I am so used to feeling like I am not good enough for him. We'll see - it's all part of the ride, I guess.

[txrnr]

I agree. With all the spam and hacking into myspace, he very well may have had to cancel his account and will create a new one. I've noticed that the h.s. kids are now gravitating to facebook in our area. (I know Josh started college, but he's still in that age range)

I can't imagine how this may make you feel, and I hope you find that it was something simple, and you find a way to stay connected to him.

[josh1788smom]

I've seen his facebook account, and I have had one for longer than he has (so at least I don't look like a cyber-stalker). I am scared to send him a message on facebook. I just hoping he finds me and thinks, hey I will invite her to be a friend.

[MereM01]

Originally Posted by sal

I'm sorry for your loss....I'm a reunited adoptee... and since you and your birthson have some contact... I WOULD let him know that his birthfather died....If that were me.. I'd want to know...I never liked having the "secrets" of my adoption kept from me...I prefer the truth...however painful that may be....sal

Honesty is the best policy here. Does anyone really want to be lied to? I don't, I would rather know the truth no matter what and deal with it. If he is lied to and then later on finds out the truth don't you think that will cause him not to trust everything you tell him from then on??

[zxczxcasdasd]

My "experience" is that when kids get to college, they dump Myspace and stick with facebook- so my guess is that was it, and not really anything to do with you. If I were you, I'd put your full name as he knows it, on your facebook profile so he can find you easily, and see what happens.

[Hope1977]

I just found out my birth father overdosed a few years ago...I'm glad I know...It's broken my heart, but at least I know. I also know my birth Mom's attempted suicide. It sucks!!! But I have the right to know...