[Jo Ellen]

Kim,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my prayers. You deserve to know what happened to your son and where he is buried and I will also pray that you can get the answers you deserve. It is what you and your son need the most now.
(((((((((((( Kim ))))))))))))))))))

[Chris72bones]

I just read your story. I found my birthmother when I was 20. Found 2 younger brothers that she had with a guy she met a year after she gave me up. One of them committed suicide as soon as I started to get to know him. They said he wrote a big long suicide note that consisted mostly of heartbreak over his mother leaving him when he was a year and a half old. (She had left them, too) I was a year and a half old when she gave me up for adoption. I can relate to your profound sense of loss. Not exactly the same in nature, but close enough. I am 37 years old and could never maintain an intimate relationship for more than 2 months. Therefore I have no children and have never been married---and believe me, it's not because of my looks. I'm not a great looking guy but am better than average and I also have alot of character. Anyway thought I'd share a little. Hope it does something for ya.

[kakuehl]

Chris, your story saddens me. Have you tried counseling? Please do not let your mother's behavior control the rest of your life.

[21032103]

Hi Kim,

I searched for my birth mother and found she had passed away. I went through really hard times, to the point that I couldn't function in the real world for about 6 weeks. I totally understand what you mean when you say no one outside adoption gets it. If I can help you in any way by listening and understanding what you're going through, please get in touch. Listening is my profession. Take care.