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Old 10-22-2008, 09:56 AM
Jaycee12 Jaycee12 is offline
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Question Looking to adopt a toddler - Any Advice?

Hello, we adopted a wonderful little girl last year through Guatemala and we're hoping that she can have a brother or sister soon! I thought I was a pro, but I'm finding I'm VERY ignorant with the types of domestic adoption available and what is involved. All I seem to find is information regarding an infant through an agency.

Does anyone have any experience with adopting a 1-2 year old toddler (either privately or through an agency). Is this only common through Foster Care?

ANY info would be helpful as we start this daunting yet exciting process again
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Old 10-22-2008, 12:41 PM
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We adopted a toddler (20 months old at the time) and her infant brother (3.5 months old at the time) through agency adoption. When we were first starting the process, we were told that something like 95-98% of domestic adoptions were of newborns. Nevertheless, we (obviously) heard about this situation and one involving a 7 month old while we were waiting.

We went through an agency that operated more like a facilitator, so they had contacts with other agencies across the country.
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2/07 - Started researching agencies
7/13/07 - Signed with agency
8/07 - 10/07 - Adoption put on hold
12/19/07 - Homestudy complete
2/25/08 - Officially waiting
5/29/08 - Matched!! Due 7/08
6/3/08 - Baby F born. Surprise!
6/7/08 - Adoption plan fell through
7/11/08 - Matched! 20 month old girl and 3 month old boy
7/12/08 - The kids are in our care! Instant Family (just add water)!
3/20/09 - Finalized! We are legally, and in all other ways, a family.



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