[mom81lea]

Hey everyone. I was just wondering if anyone out there could share with me what an international homestudy is like. I have no idea what to expect! What kind of things are "they" looking for. What kind of questions are asked? Are there certain requirements about your home and so on? I guess I am just looking for a run down on what I need to do to get ready. Also, who do I get to do a homestudy? I live in Illinois and I honestly don't know where to start. Any advise anyone has would be great. Thanks and God bless----Leah

[LisaCA]

sorry, I have no clue, but you might try posting on the international adoption support boards

http://forums.adoption.com/forumdisplay.php?f=180

there are also boards for specific countries, assuming you know which country you're interested in.

good luck!

Lisa

[randloar]

I think that people going intl check this board, so it doesn't really matter, although, its true you might get more people responding on the general intl board....
but here is a start......

What kind of questions are asked?
Anyways, we had our homestudy for intl and our social worker was asking questions that related to out biographical summaries that we wrote about ourselves (our life, history, some questions regarding raising children, etc). Before the homestudy we had lots of paperwork to fill out, and had to write/answer many questions about ourselves. We had two-two hour meetings with her, and in the second one we had one on one meetings where one spouse left the room for awhile (more of the same types of questions but addressing our own personal thoughts, rather than "our collective" take on our lives, and raising kids). I think what they ask varies pretty dramatically and can be different, so hopefully others will chime in on this....

Are there certain requirements about your home and so on?
She did a walkthrough of the house to see that the kids would have a room (we hadn't set anything up yet, but she needed to know it wasn't a 1 bedroom house). She said she didn't care if there was dust on the ledges, or a pile of paperwork to deal with, or laundry. But she was looking for safety issues (we remodeled some stuff and didn't have any bannisters for our stairs, and she wanted that fixed, but I can see that!). She commented that she can't wait to come back after we get the kids home so she can see what our house "really" looks like (when we don't have time to clean it spotless for her)....

Also, who do I get to do a homestudy?
For intl adoption you have your homestudy done by an approved agency in your state, and you can work with any agency that you like for the intl part of it. There is no real need to have your intl agency be instate or close by as email and phone communication works fine. Personally, I wanted the best agency "for our country" rather than one that was close to me. That is the hard part as some agencies are really good in one country but aren't as experienced in other countries (hence why I would recommend picking your country before choosing your agency).
AND, some homestudy agencies aren't "approved" to give a homestudy for some countries, so maybe picking your country comes first??

Hope that helps get you started!! Good luck and keep asking questions!!

[sak9645]

Here's something that's a version of what I wrote previously in answer to this question:

"Homestudy" is something of a misnomer. Very little of it involves studying your home. The homestudy has two basic purposes:

1. To determine whether you can provide a safe and nurturing family environment for a child. Note that you do NOT have to be rich or to have a fancy home to provide a safe and nurturing family environment! If you have a steady job, are not overwhelmed with debt, rent or own even a small apartment, are in reasonable health, and have not committed any crimes involving violence or children, you can often be approved.

2. To prepare you for the challenges of parenting an adopted child. There ARE some challenges, so this is really the most important part of the homestudy.

Each state differs in its requirements for a homestudy. Homestudies for international adoption also differ from those for domestic adoption or foster care, because the USCIS and your country of choice will have some requirements, with regard to what is included. And, finally, each homestudy agency may have some unique requirements.

Still, here is how a homestudy generally works:

1. Intake. You will fill out a questionnaire and have an in-person or telephone interview with the homestudy agency or provider. The purpose of the intake is to determine whether it is reasonable to commence a homestudy, or whether it would be a waste of the social worker's time and your money, because you could not possibly be approved. As an example, you will be counseled not to even consider a homestudy if you or your spouse have ever had a conviction for child abuse, if you have a serious psychiatric illness, if you are on public assistance, and so on. You may also be counseled to wait for some period of time before having a homestudy -- for example, if you contemplate moving to another state soon, if you have just started your very first job, if you just got married or divorced, etc.

2. Document review. The social worker assigned to your case will need to verify your identity and your claims on intake by looking at documents, such as: your birth certificate, your marriage certificate, any divorce decrees, a letter from your employer verifying employment and salary, the results of a physical examination by your physician, a clearance from the local police, a canceled check showing a recent mortgage or lease payment, bank and investment company statements showing assets, and so on. The social worker will also ask that you sign a statement allowing him/her to obtain a child abuse clearance for you, from your state government.

3. References. While practices vary, you will generally be expected to provide the names of three people, not related to you, who can comment knowledgably on your character and suitability to parent a child. These people -- who can be friends, neighbors, work colleagues, clergy, people with whom you do volunteer work, etc. -- will receive a form that they must fill out and return to the agency. Some agencies also require a face-to-face interview with one non-relative.

4. Autobiography. Many, though not all, homestudy workers have each spouse, or the single adoptive parent, write an autobiography, which will serve to guide the subsequent mandatory counseling sessions. There is usually an outline for the prospective parents to follow, covering things like how their parents educated them, how their parents disciplined them, how strong their parents' marriage was and how they handled disagreements, and so on.

5. Pre-adoption classes. Some, but not all, agencies require that a person attend classes or complete an on-line course of study that will cover such topics as parenting transracially, dealing with the negative attitudes of relatives or friends, attitudes towards birthparents, recognizing the medical risks of adoption, and so on.

6. Counseling sessions. Most homestudies call for approximately three counseling sessions in the social worker's office. A common pattern for married couples is that the social worker meets once with the husband alone, once with the wife alone, and then once with both together. The purpose is to help prepare the person or couple for parenting an adopted child, although the sessions also help to determine that the spouses are "on the same page" about the adoption and about raising an adopted child. The social worker may ask questions based on the autobiography and other information, and the prospective parent may also have questions for the social worker. Expect questions about how your relatives will relate to an internationally adopted child, how you plan to teach the child to appreciate her cultural heritage, what you know about the medical risks in adoption, what experience you have had in dealing with racism and other prejudices, how you plan to discipline your child, and so on.

7. Home visit. The home visit, though usually the most feared part of the homestudy, is actually about the easiest part. Basically, the social worker comes to a prospective parent's home to see if it is safe and welcoming. The home does not need to be big or fancy or or even owned. In fact, it can be a very modest rental apartment. It can be furnished with "hand-me-downs" that don't match perfectly. And the social worker doesn't look to see if dust bunnies are under the beds or the closets are a bit untidy.

Very few people "fail" a homestudy because of the home visit, unless it reveals evidence of a dangerous lifestyle (for example, unsecured firearms, tanks of venomous snakes, drug paraphernalia).

Pets are fine, but the social worker will probably want to see evidence that they are properly licensed, if required, and properly immunized, if required. He/she may also want to observe that they are not vicious and that your home isn't full of their waste products. In addition, he/she will probably ask what you will do if your animals can't adjust to the new baby, or if the new baby turns out to have allergies to animal dander.

The homestudy is not a "pop quiz" and you are always welcome to ask the social worker, in advance, whether there are any things the state requires, such as a fire extinguisher in the kitchen or locks on the medicine cabinets. (Most states do NOT require that the child's room be set up in advance or that all childproofing be done.) And most states have very liberal rules concerning square footage of bedrooms, children sharing bedrooms with siblings of the same gender, etc. Basically, if you would be comfortable having your mother-in-law or your employer over for dinner, your house is probably just fine.

The social worker may get a little worried if your house looks too perfect, with beautiful white carpeting and sofas in the living room, lots of valuable antiques, and so on. He/she may wonder if you REALLY know what children are like, and if you are prepared to make some major adjustments when you adopt.

Most social workers also have a sense of humor, and fully understand that things can go wrong. Many, many parents have had minor disasters, either while the social worker is in the house, or just as his/her car pulls into the driveway. You know the sorts of things. The dog vomits on the floor at the social worker's feet. The toddler already in residence decides to show how competent he is by taking off every stitch of his clothes and running around the room naked. The toilet in the powder room overflows. Or the cookies that were being baked to create a nice homelike atmosphere burn to a crisp, totally stinking up the house.

If you do have a minor disaster, don't worry. Try to relax and maintain your own sense of humor. The social worker knows that life is never predictable when you have children, and likes to see prospective parents who are flexible and easygoing enough to cope with whatever their kids-to-be dish out.

8. Homestudy report preparation. The social worker will write up a report in the format required by your state. For an international adoption, it will also go to the USCIS, the placement agency, and the foreign country. Some agencies allow families to review the homestudy report and correct errors of fact before it is submitted, while others do not.

As to finding a homestudy provider, you have several options. Many times, your placement agency will be able to recommend a good homestudy provider in your state. Parents in your local adoption support group can often tell you about the strengths and weaknesses of local providers. You can also find people from your state on-line, and find out what providers they used and if they were pleased. The website of the Joint Council on International Children's Services has a membership directory that can help you identify agencies in your state that have signed the organization's Standards of Practice. And so on.

Hope this helps.

Sharon

[Siras]

Originally Posted by sak9645

unless it reveals evidence of a dangerous lifestyle (for example, unsecured firearms, tanks of venomous snakes, drug paraphernalia).

I have 21 tarantulas, will that be a problem? They're all caged obviously, I never handle them and they never escape. (I also have cats, dogs, fish, and a few lizards but I'm not worried about them) I'd had to think I'd be denied the chance to adopt because I have a love of animals.

[randloar]

If it helps any, we had 4 dogs at the time of our homestudy, one of which isn't to happy to meet strangers. Our smallest dog is ~65-70 pounds, so they aren't exactly lap dogs either (don't tell them that as they don't know it yet ). Our social worker just wanted to make sure that we were aware of the issues that pets can be, and that we had a plan for how they were to meet the kids and interact with them. As well, the fact that we had dog gates, and could easily have a separation b/t the kids and dogs if needed made her happy that we were aware that pets and kids need to be monitored.

I realize that social workers will have different views on this, but that was how it worked for us!!

[mom81lea]

WOW!!! Finally some good info on the homestudy. Thank you guys soooooo much for all the great answers. I have one question though. My husband is a carpenter and is currently trying to start his own thing remodleing houses. Needless to say... starting your own thing generally makes things financially tough!! He has no pay check so to speak but does get a profit after every house sells. How much of a problem do you think this will be?

[sak9645]

Self-employed people are usually asked to provide a statement from an accountant, who can verify income.

Sharon

[Mindybeth6]

Our SW was fabulous. We are adopting from Guatemala and certain countried require specific things to be adressed in the homestudy. It was such a simple process. It was three visits total, we just talked about ourslelves and our willingness to adopt and the issues surrounding international adoption. WE have a trained police dog that attacks people, on command of course, and it was not a problem. THey basically want to see that you are loving, stable, secure financially, and are accustomed to the issues surrounding adoption. You will be FINE. Don't stress...it was a really enjoyable part of the process for us and truly not stressful at all. Now we are waiting for the 171H and working on our dossier and THAT is stressful!

Good Luck