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Originally Posted By Sylvia G.

The biological father of my 12-yer-old daughter termanated all of his parental rights yrs. ago. My husband now wants to adopt my daughter, and she is also excited about it.

I have checked into it, and the cost is unreal. I have been told that we can file the papers ourselves since it would be uncontested. Where do I go to get the papers? The cost through an attorney is over 600.00 and I know that I can file the papers myself for just over 100.00 plus the cost of the newspaper add. This is an very important issue and I would like to do this myself. We are a single family income and money is tight.

Thank you for your time in this matter.

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Originally Posted By Mary

Did you ever find out any information on this. I am in the same boast. Thanks for anyone's help.

[apalchak]

I am also in search for the adoption kit. I have called the circuit court here in St. Mary's County in Maryland and I actually called the Administrative Judge. The judge said, we can file the petition on our own for as long as we know what are the procedures and what are the requirements that we need...but, I was told to get legal advice from a lawyer (which again, we don't want to do because it's too expensive). My husband wants to adopt my child, but we have consulted different lawyers around the area and they charge a minimum of $1,000!!!!! I have searched thru the internet and found something on www.myshoppingonline.com and search for DO-IT-YOURSELF ADOPTION KIT. It's only $27.95. I just found that today and I am going to tell my husband about this when he gets home from work. It's a money back guarantee if you think it's not good for you. Check on that, it can help you. We probably might go on that and submit it to the court ourselves.

Good luck on your adoption process and God bless you!!

[lightrayne]

There is also one on the rapidlaw.net site.......or in some states you can get all the papers you need from your local courthouse.

[YakimaAdoption]

We are in Yakima county and completed a step-parent adoption (of two daughters) ourselves. Here was what we did:
1) Went to the website: Do It Yourself Documents® - Step Parent Adoption Service, Washington State
We filled out the document on-line and paid $148.50. We were contacted via email by them, and set up an appointment the following week to meet the notary in Seattle, who would notarize the documents, so we could file them in court. We had the natural father meet us there, and he signed right there and the notary took care of his paperwork too.
2) We contacted a social worker to set up the home study. You only need one home study, and it must be conducted before the step-parent adoption. The judge will need the social worker's report before he will approve the adoption. Our Social Worker charged us $500 for the home study. Note: Some social workers we contacted wanted $800 for this service. Also, it's important to meet with your potential social worker, to make sure you like them. We met with one, and I had a very bad feeling about her, so we didn't use her. Our Social Worker provided us a list of questions she would be asking, to prepare us and our daughters.
3) After the Social Worker meeting, we went to Yakima court, to the court clerk's office. We told the woman we were there to file a step-parent adoption ourselves. She asked us if we wanted a proxy (so that we wouldn't have to come to court at all!). We said yes! I think it cost us an extra $35. So our total fee was a couple of hundred dollars. This proxy is a very important thing to do. It means that when the court clerk receives the Social Worker's report, that the clerk will walk it over to the judge (usually the same day), and the judge signs the document. Our final adoption was signed ONE DAY after the clerk received the Social Worker's report, and when it was done, the clerk called us and told us to come in to pick up the paperwork.
4) Pick up the paperwork from the court clerk. We had five certified copies made (by the clerk) of the final adoption papers. We did this because in 30 days, those legal documents will be sealed forever. Also, we had to write checks to have new birth certificates made for our two girls. The clerk takes these checks, and mails them to the state where the girls were born themselves. (I think the cost was $22 for each daughter.) The clerk will hold the birth certificate forms for 30 days, then mail them to the state where they were born. Why? Because after the adoption is final, they must wait 30 days for someone to contest the adoption. After 30 days passes, the adoption is forevermore legal.

So it cost us about $700 total for the step-parent adoption of our two daughters. Compared to the $6,000 we were quoted by several lawyers, this was remarkable. The process was EASY!

I hope this helps any of you who are considering this option!

[ibcrazy389]

I found this one recently for those in California

Do Your Own California Adoption: Nolo's Guide for Stepparents and Domestic ... - Frank Zagone, Emily Doskow - Google Books