[Earthchild]

Hi All,

My name is Jen and I live on Long Island. I am currently looking into domestic adoption. Has anyone worked with any agencies on the island that they know deals with single parent adoptions? (After 4 years of TTC #1, my husband and I are now divorcing).

I appreciate any advice/info. you can give me.

TIA,

Jen

[mom2alex]

Hello and welcome. Sorry, I don't have any agency recomendations as we live in Central/Upstate NY. Just wanted to say hello and wish you luck!

[gia-LI]

I'm new to this board as well - also named Jen, from LI, 4+ years of TTC#1, and pursuing a domestic adoption!

I'm sorry to hear about your divorce - I imagine this must be very difficult for you. To answer your question, I would suggest going to the NYS Child and Family Services website where you can find a list of all voluntary adoption agencies licensed within the state of NY. As a NY resident, you will need to work with an agency with a licensed in NY, even if they are not located in NY. Or you could use a lawyer for a private adoption.

I found that by process of elimination, I came down to a much more manageable list that met my needs - crossing out all of those that only do international, special needs, older children, and those with a religious affiliation. After further researching my short list, I decided on Spence-Chapin in NYC. They offer a sliding scale, all expenses are included in their agency fee, and have never heard a bad word against them and lots of good stories. I believe that will work with singles. They have a domestic orientation session coming up in Aug and you will need to sign up quick if you want to go. They only offer it 2x per year and it fills up quickly.

I hope this helps! Lots of luck!

[Earthchild]

Thank you very much for your replies. I am going to look into the info. you gave me.

Jen

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[MKbookworks]

Hi Jen(s) - I am also on LI and my dh and I are just starting our homestudy process with the hope of completing an international adoption this year. You may PM me for the name of our agency - they have been very nice so far.

We are anxious, waiting and alternatively scared to death or excited...... nice to meet you!
Missy

[Ldyjane60]

Welcome to the boards Jen sorry to hear about what you are going through. I have no advice here for you sens I live in upstate NY Binghamton area to excat. Good Luck with everything if you would like to keep in touch please give me shout any time Bea

[Earthchild]

Thank you for all of your responses ladies!!!