[Shareavoice]

These mesages should not be open to the World Wide Web. What is the reason to sign in?

No Privacy in your forums!

[organicmommy]

You can tell them that you know she is in foster care, just don't tell them how you found out. Just ask if this child is going to be available for adoption that you know her foster parents...if you do...
There are ways around things, you just have to be careful and go about it the right ways.

[BioAdoptMom3]

I think a lot also depends upon the circumstances. How long has the child been with your friend? How does your friend feel about having her as a foster child? Would they be willing to give her up? Do they want to adopt her should she become available? As a foster and adoptive parent I think those are things that need to be considered first. If everyone involved feels its in her best interest to be with you and your wife after your homestudy is done then I would by all means ask social services if this child is in a position in which she could be moved. I can't really see how your friend could get in trouble as long as you don't say she told you that.
The only reason I posed those other questions is that I know I would not have wanted someone else trying to have my daughter moved to their home, although my situtaion was a bit different in that we had had her since birth.
Good luck and keep us posted.
Nancy

[Shareavoice]

What a hole in security... You need to fix your system!