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Old 09-28-2009, 09:43 AM
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We just got the horrible phone call

After having DS since Friday, we just got the call from the agency that the bmom has decided to parent.
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Old 09-28-2009, 09:47 AM
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I'm so sorry! (((HUGS))) You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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I will be keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 09-28-2009, 09:56 AM
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Old 09-28-2009, 09:58 AM
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Please let me know if you need to talk. I've been through it. I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Old 09-28-2009, 10:02 AM
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Heather, I'm so sorry.
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Oh Heather. Oh Heather... I'm so sorry.
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I am so sorry. My prayers go out for you.
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Old 09-28-2009, 10:49 AM
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I'm so sorry...Thinking you and your family.
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After having DS since Friday, we just got the call from the agency that the bmom has decided to parent.


Heather, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and pray for all involved. So many people never realize the emotional rollercoaster that us aparents face, also. I know how hard failed adoptions are and am here if you need anything.
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