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06-05-2009, 12:19 PM
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She disappeared...
That's why they didn't want us to travel. Because she went and held him and then wanted to parent. But was told by CPS that she couldn't parent right now - she had to place or he would go into foster care. So she told our agency that she wanted to go through with the adoption. And then she left the hospital with no contact info, no home, etc.
Since she did sign a form asking our agency to "have control" (can't think of proper words right now) they are going to petititon the courts for guardianship. If granted, he could come home with us while they try to find her. I am so confused. So sad. So spent.
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06-05-2009, 12:26 PM
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(((((HUGS))))) I am praying the child is okay and you get some answers soon.
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06-05-2009, 12:28 PM
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I cannot imagine what you are going through, but I am praying for you...
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Melissa Mommy to M & K January 17th, 2007~ Began homestudy~ decided on domestic adoption February 22nd, 2007~ Received referral of 3 1/2 month old baby girl in TX! February 27th, 2007~ Held our baby girl for the first time!!! September 19th, 2007~ Finalization! ************************************************** April 16, 2009~ Updated homestudy meeting for #2 May 21, 2009~ Chosen again! Baby boy due August 5th July 17, 2009~ Baby born. Mother is parenting baby. July 17, 2009~ Chosen again! Baby boy due August 22nd August 28, 2009~ Back to waiting for our second child... October 7, 2009~ Chosen again for baby boy due Nov. 25 November 11, 2009~ Baby boy born in MS!!!
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06-05-2009, 12:29 PM
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Oh Jules, I am sooooo sorry. Hang in there. I don't even know what the heck kind of advice to give...just thinking of you.
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06-05-2009, 01:13 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with the baby, as well as the rest of you.
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Wife of 14 yrs to a wonderful husband  TTC 4 yrs Blessed with bio DD 6/2000  TTC 3 Yrs Blessed with bio DS 10/2004  Surprise!  08/2007Temporary placement of newborn relative Love at first sight, 5 day old tiny baby boy  Bmom asks us to adopt  Adoption Final 11/2007  My family is complete 
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06-05-2009, 01:32 PM
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Hang in there ...
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06-05-2009, 01:39 PM
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oh...i'm so sorry to hear that.
 how awful for you, how awful for little guy to be left in limbo, and how awful for mom. i hope to hear a happy ending soon!
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06-05-2009, 01:55 PM
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I am so sorry. You have my prayers.
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06-05-2009, 02:09 PM
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so sorry to hear this news....you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers! I truly hope this all gets worked out!
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06-05-2009, 03:39 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened.
I hope some sort of resolution is reached soon so you can find some peace.
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06-05-2009, 03:46 PM
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Jules I hope this is resolved soon and you WILL have your baby soon, the baby that is meant for you and I do hope it is this one.
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06-05-2009, 03:53 PM
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This is the story of both my daughters. If the mother's didn't choose adoption, the alternative was foster care due to substance abuse. And both M-K and Hanna's birthmom's left the hospital and disappeared. In both cases, the agency was able to take custody right away. With Maire-Kate, the agency was able to track down mom within a few days and met her at a fast food restaurant to have the paperwork signed. With Hanna, Mom was missing for about 6 weeks before they found her and she signed TPR. Hanna stayed in cradle care during that time. I would definately wait for TPR before traveling. Make sure all the ducks are in a row before making the trip.
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06-05-2009, 05:11 PM
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I agree. Do hang in there.
Something very similar happened with us and things did turn out happily.
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06-05-2009, 06:40 PM
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Oh my goodness! My prayers are with you and the baby.
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06-05-2009, 06:46 PM
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Sending prayers your way.
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