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Off Topic: Need thoughts and prayers and ADVICE
Many of you have become my online friends, and I wanted to get some support since everyone's life at one point or another has been touch by cancer. My Mom found out on Friday that she has Ovarian Cancer and that it has spread already to the lymphoid (sp?). Any advice would help. Prayers would also be wonderful. She was supposed to have emergency surgery today but they had to put it off until Friday. Thus causing me more stress. The fact that she could die upsets me greatly and I was hoping for some advice, if anyone on here has had it and came through it? Thanks for letting me share.
God Bless, Summer ![]()
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I am so very sorry... No advice, just hugs!
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I'm so sorry to hear this.
The only advice I can give is for you to stay strong, and for your mom to fight. It's amazing what the power of a positive mind can do. Sending hugs and prayers your way. |
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I don't have much advice to give, but please know I will be praying for your mother and your family. I am so sorry you and your family are faced with this.
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Lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way.
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I don't have a lot of knowledge about ovarian cancer, but I do know what it's like to hear that a parent has cancer. I know well what a terrible punch in the gut that is, and I'm so sorry you and your family have to cope with this right now. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.
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Jillian Anabel's mom Daughter's DOB 4/18/2006 Receive referral 6/1/2006 HOME AS A FAMILY 12/23/2006 June 2009: Officially waiting for kiddo #2! 7/2009: Profiled - decide it's not the right fit for our family. Back to waiting! ![]() 10/2009: Profiled - not selected. Back to waiting! ![]()
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No experience with ovarian cancer but wanted to offer you my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry, I wish I had something helpful to say..
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I too am very sorry you guys had to get this news. Hopefully she is diagnosed early so that it can be treated. You will be in my prayers.
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Thank you so much for the thoughts and prayers. It means so much to sign on and see them. My mom will be having surgery on Friday so please pray for us
Thank you so much!Summer and Family
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I wish I knew something about ovarian cancer, I don't - but I do know people who have been diagnosed with advanced cancer who have done quite well and lived long lives with treatment. So there is always hope. Last weekend I found out my Dad has "aggressive" prostate cancer so I can totally relate to how you're probabaly feeling now. PM me if you want to vent/commisserate/share.
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I hate to say it but the prognosis for metastatic (where it has spread) ovarian cancer is not good, however I don't know your mom's situation. (((HUGS))) Chemotherapy can give her a reduction in her pain and her symptoms. I hope the doctors give you some answers after her surgery.
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Sadly, ovarian cancer is a bad one, not so much because it's more aggressive than other cancers but because it's hard to detect and frequently not diagnosed until it has spread. Once any cancer spreads, treatment becomes more difficult. However, just because it's harder to treat, doesn't mean it's impossible to treat. Stay strong - your mom will need you. Also, there is a strong genetic component to ovarian cancer and it's related to breast cancer so you should talk to your doctor about your own risks. Don't give up hope. Thinking of you...
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No advice, but I will say a prayer for you and your mom, that things will be as easy as they possibly can for you.
*hugs*
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Kati (30) WONDERFUL Husband Vince (28) BEAUTIFUL Daughter Yuna (signed with agency 7-06, born 10-06, finalized 4-07) April '09 -- Starting research into adopting from foster care MAPP Classes: May 5 - July 7June '09 -- Quit MAPP classes, adoption plans on hold while deciding if Haiti might be right for us in a few years. |
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Summer,
(((HUGS))) I am SO very sorry to hear about this! I have no advice about ovarian cancer but sadly do have experience of a parent with cancer... If you need to talk or vent I am here! S
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1993 decided to start a family 1995 discovered problems 1995-1998 fertility Drs and surgeries 1999-2003 break from it all 2003-2005 thought about adoption but trying to find a way to afford it. 2006 decided to do whatever it took to create a family. Money should not decide a family! January 2006 gathering information applying for homestudy. July 2006 homestudy completed- we are officially waiting! July 06-March 09 Several situations that didn't work out.. Our baby will find us, until then...We are 4-everwaiting for our angel ![]() It finally happened after over 2.5 years of waiting, our angel found us!!! ... Baby Girl Born March 10th! Home forever March 19th, 2009
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Kati (30)
WONDERFUL Husband Vince (28)
BEAUTIFUL Daughter Yuna (signed with agency 7-06, born 10-06, finalized 4-07)
April '09 -- Starting research into adopting from foster care
MAPP Classes: May 5 - July 7

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