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04-27-2009, 04:50 PM
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Need your thoughts and prayers
Hi everyone,
My DH and I brought home our little one this week. We were in the hospital with the very sweet Birthmother and her family and everything went great. We are over the moon with happiness. Today, however, we heard she is having doubts and may want to parent. We are just in a daze. I can't even imagine giving him back as I am already so deeply in love. I know that she has every right to parent. I logically understand that. But, my heart is breaking right now. I am just living minute by minute waiting for her decide. Just needed to share. Thank you ladies. TAP
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Married Dog Died of Cancer this year  2 IVF (one ectopic, one mc) 2 IUI .. nada Oct. '08 Completed Home Study and Signed With Agency April '09 Matched. Mother reclaimed after one week.  May '09 Matched. WE HAVE A LITTLE GIRL.   November/Decmeber Adoption should be final Updating Homestudy Waiting for #2  TAP 
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04-27-2009, 04:53 PM
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Hugs and prayers are with you... I wish I had some words of comfort.
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Melissa Mommy to M & K  January 17th, 2007~ Began homestudy~ decided on domestic adoption February 22nd, 2007~ Received referral of 3 1/2 month old baby girl in TX! February 27th, 2007~ Held our baby girl for the first time!!! September 19th, 2007~ Finalization! ************************************************** April 16, 2009~ Updated homestudy meeting for #2 May 21, 2009~ Chosen again! Baby boy due August 5th July 17, 2009~ Baby born. Mother is parenting baby. July 17, 2009~ Chosen again! Baby boy due August 22nd August 28, 2009~ Back to waiting for our second child... October 7, 2009~ Chosen again for baby boy due Nov. 25 November 11, 2009~ Baby boy born in MS!!!
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04-27-2009, 04:55 PM
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Oh Tap, it's just so hard. My heart is breaking for you just reading this. Many, many hugs in this difficult time.
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Jillian Anabel's mom Daughter's DOB 4/18/2006 Receive referral 6/1/2006 HOME AS A FAMILY 12/23/2006 June 2009: Officially waiting for kiddo #2! 7/2009: Profiled - decide it's not the right fit for our family. Back to waiting!  10/2009: Profiled - not selected. Back to waiting!
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04-27-2009, 05:10 PM
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Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
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dd born 12/01 dd/ds twins born 5/04 Started Domestic Adoption Process 6/10/07 Matched to Day Old Baby Boy 10/24/07 Match Failed 10/25/07 Decided to Switch to Foster/Adopt 3/1/08 Licensed!! 8/11/08 Placements: T 2 Yrs Old 4-13-09 to 4-15-09 - Went to Kinship
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04-27-2009, 05:32 PM
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Thoughts are with you! We have been through a similar situation and I know how tough it can be. I am so sorry that your family is having to endure this.
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Not by our planting, but by Heaven our harvest. Tyler Graham Born 8/13/06 Forever ours 12/21/06 Grayer Jonathan Jalen Born 12/24/07 Forever ours 7/28/08 Lila Kennedy Born 6/8/09
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04-27-2009, 05:42 PM
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We've also been thru it. And I am praying for you.
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Josie Mom to 8 EXTRAordinary little kids and big kids. 4 by birth, 4 by adoption -- how LUCKY am I???? "You must BE the change you want to see in the world." M.K. Gahndi
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04-27-2009, 05:51 PM
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I am sorry you are going through this. My prayers are with you.
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04-27-2009, 06:10 PM
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Wow, I do so hope there is a quick resolution--my thoughts will be with you.
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04-27-2009, 06:13 PM
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Praying for you, your husband, this sweet baby boy and his first mother. I am sure this is a very difficult time for all of you right now.
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First Adoption: baby boy born August 06  Second Adoption: baby Girl born December 08  God has truly blessed us!
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04-27-2009, 06:16 PM
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How incredibly difficult. Hang in there.
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Signed with facilitator 1/23/07 Profile completed & sent 2/07 M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07  Cameron is born 11/10/07  FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08  Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07 Life is beautiful, but it's complicated. We barely make it. We don't need to understand, There are miracles, miracles. Yeah, life is beautiful. Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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04-27-2009, 06:18 PM
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I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through but will keep you in my prayers.
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04-27-2009, 07:19 PM
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I'm so sorry. Good luck with everything.
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Mom of  June '08-Mailed Application to Agency November '08-Homestudy Complete Now-Waiting to be Mom of 
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04-27-2009, 07:41 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.
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 August 2008 - Approved to adopt
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04-27-2009, 10:12 PM
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hugs and prayers
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04-27-2009, 10:24 PM
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Thinking good thoughts and sending positive vibes. Fingers and toes are crossed....hugs!
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3 Years TTC w/fertility treatments 12.07-Completed homestudy 4.08-Moved! Homestudy update 7.08-Developed bio, started networking 8.08-Started classified advertising 10.08-Contacted by birthparents 11.08-Agreed to an adoption plan w/bparents 4.09 - Failed adoption 6.09 - Another homestudy update 7.09 - Back in the game..our baby will find us 10.09 - Matched with new eParents, baby due in Dec 09!
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