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#121
02-07-2009, 09:53 AM
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What a kick in the stomach!
I know there are no guarantee's and I know that there are other people involved (ie; the babies, the bparents, the family members, etc.) but right now, in this thread, I can only relate to you! I really only care about how discouraged you must feel and the pain you are experiencing. I know you're hope is being chipped away every time this happens and there isn't anything anyone can say to bring that piece back. I hope you and your DH have it within yourselves to hang in there. I can feel your disappointment through my laptop! I've been wanting to pm you, but I thought you'd update us when you were ready. I'm really REALLY sorry. I think it sucks that neither situation panned out. And I hope your wait is coming to an end soon!
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8 failed IUI's, 5 failed IVF's, 1 Foster/Adopt placement (maternal aunt claimed him) July 2008 - signed with agency (Domestic Adoption) November 2008 - homestudy approved & profile handed in - Officially waiting!  April 2009 - Looking into signing with an additional agency, since we haven't even been "shown" with our current one  June 2009 - Reluctantly signed with additional agency 
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#122
02-07-2009, 01:14 PM
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Oh my goodness. So sorry.
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Signed with facilitator 1/23/07  Profile completed & sent 2/07 M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07  Cameron is born 11/10/07  FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08  Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07 Life is beautiful, but it's complicated. We barely make it. We don't need to understand, There are miracles, miracles. Yeah, life is beautiful. Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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#123
02-07-2009, 01:24 PM
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Wow 4ever. I'm so sorry. Sending well wishes and prayers . . .
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DD: Born 4/06, Fost/Adopt, Home at 2 days old, Finalized at 17 months old DS1: Born 5/07, Fost/Adopt, Bio Brother of DD, Home at 13 days old, Finalized at 9 months old DS2: Born 9/07, Bio
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#124
02-07-2009, 02:15 PM
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Praying that the baby that God intends to be your finds your arms real soon.
EZ
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http://www.october15th.com/ In Rememberance of my 3 Brothers in Heaven, who went to live with Jesus before I was born.
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#125
02-07-2009, 03:09 PM
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dang...i was sure hoping ONE of these would be yours.
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#126
02-07-2009, 05:25 PM
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I'm so sorry!
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dd born 12/01 dd/ds twins born 5/04 Started Domestic Adoption Process 6/10/07 Matched to Day Old Baby Boy 10/24/07 Match Failed 10/25/07 Decided to Switch to Foster/Adopt 3/1/08 Licensed!! 8/11/08 Placements: T 2 Yrs Old 4-13-09 to 4-15-09 - Went to Kinship
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#127
02-07-2009, 06:16 PM
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So sorry to her this. Thinking of you
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Doc & Doting Dad
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#128
02-07-2009, 06:51 PM
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No words...
  Debbie
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Still longing for a child... Jim & Debbie 01/09: Another referral out, still in limbo, world appears to be crumbling...ugh! 08: Very sick parent and grandparent, declined one match, one referral for a waiting child, and several presentations...time is not being kind to us. 07: Officially waiting with an agency!! 
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#129
02-08-2009, 05:34 AM
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So sorry Sandra. Please don't give up hope. Hanging in there with you.
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1st DD Hannah Nicole received her wings, July 03  2nd DD May 94  12yr ttc Began adoption July 07 Possible match family placement Oct. 07 Fell through Nov. 07 Jan. 08 Got call ....not chosen by emom 03-07-08 Matched - emom due March 11th Call 03-08-08, lead 4 families to think they were going to parent her baby  Call 03-10-08, she wasn't even pregnant Waiting again. 03-17-08 Had to turn down baby girl, couldn't get flight before discharge Our hearts are breaking and waiting again. 04-29-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due in June 06-17-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due July 6th Profiled 07-18-08 for emom due in Nov. - emom decided to parent 08-25-08 Profiled 07-25-08 for emom due in Oct. - never heard back from emom Profiled 08-12-08 for emom due in Sept. - never heard back from emom Trying not to get discouraged, but getting more difficult every day. 
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#130
02-08-2009, 06:32 AM
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I am so sorry.... I am sure the cradle care family did all they could! Cradle care is supposed to be 4days- 30 days at the most pending on the states. It is so sad for both babies. I will pray that the right baby finds you and that both of the babies here get a nice forever home with you in the end.
Summer
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#131
02-08-2009, 04:25 PM
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I am sorry that these situations did not work out. I am sending you a big
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#132
02-08-2009, 04:50 PM
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SO sorry to hear of these developments - you're in my prayers.
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02/04-02/07 TTC#1 w/ unexplained infertility, 9 rounds of oral meds, 3 surgeries, and 2 miscarriages 04/20/07 Orientation and Application to Adopt 09/27/07 Approved and Waiting! 04/08-06/08 THREE failed matches! 07/10/08 Matched! Baby girl born 6/24/08 07/29/08 She's ours! ICPC already cleared! 01/23/09 Finalized! 03/30/09 Yes, we're crazy - starting again! 04/09/09 Second Application submitted 05/05/09 Homestudy Update! 07/13/09 Finally approved and waiting again!!! 08/09 Unexpected pregnancy and m/c
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#133
02-09-2009, 06:05 AM
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Oh Sandra, sometimes it's just impossible to understand.
I'm so sorry. And sorry too for the little ones.
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Homestudy started 7/06 Homestudy finished 8/06 Officially waiting 9/12/06 Matched and met our beautiful baby girl 3/25/07 Finalized!!!! 10-25-07 
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#134
02-09-2009, 07:14 AM
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I have prayed your baby will come soon and your waiting will end. Be strong and faithful knowing that your time is coming.
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 12/20 received a  call - want to adopt baby due in Jan1/2 baby is here 1/13 baby still in hospital - not doing well 1/20 just waiting 1/26 baby is better - be out of hospital soon 2/8 baby is getting better everyday - will be in hospital for a few more weeks 3/5 baby is out of hospital and they have decided to parent
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