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#76
01-09-2009, 01:08 PM
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Any news yet? I hope you get your baby!!!!
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#77
01-09-2009, 01:48 PM
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Thinking of you!!!!!
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Jillian Anabel's mom Daughter's DOB 4/18/2006 Receive referral 6/1/2006 HOME AS A FAMILY 12/23/2006 June 2009: Officially waiting for kiddo #2! 7/2009: Profiled - decide it's not the right fit for our family. Back to waiting!  10/2009: Profiled - not selected. Back to waiting!
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#78
01-09-2009, 01:51 PM
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Still NO NEWS!!!
Talk about on pins and needles- the phone rings and we jump at it like a cat, lol So ready to hear something!!! I'll letcha know when we hear something just waiting! Whatever the answer, I'm going to have a good cry...lol
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1993 decided to start a family 1995 discovered problems 1995-1998 fertility Drs and surgeries 1999-2003 break from it all 2003-2005 thought about adoption but trying to find a way to afford it. 2006 decided to do whatever it took to create a family. Money should not decide a family! January 2006 gathering information applying for homestudy. July 2006 homestudy completed- we are officially waiting! July 06-March 09 Several situations that didn't work out.. Our baby will find us,  until then...We are 4-everwaiting for our angel  It finally happened after over 2.5 years of waiting, our angel found us!!! ... Baby Girl Born March 10th! Home forever March 19th, 2009 
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#79
01-09-2009, 02:01 PM
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Thanks for the update! We're on pins and needles with you. What a nervewracking day!
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Signed with facilitator 1/23/07  Profile completed & sent 2/07 M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07  Cameron is born 11/10/07 FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08  Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07 Life is beautiful, but it's complicated. We barely make it. We don't need to understand, There are miracles, miracles. Yeah, life is beautiful. Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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#80
01-09-2009, 04:14 PM
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she still needs more time... another week
I swear I truely think we are jinxed!
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1993 decided to start a family 1995 discovered problems 1995-1998 fertility Drs and surgeries 1999-2003 break from it all 2003-2005 thought about adoption but trying to find a way to afford it. 2006 decided to do whatever it took to create a family. Money should not decide a family! January 2006 gathering information applying for homestudy. July 2006 homestudy completed- we are officially waiting! July 06-March 09 Several situations that didn't work out.. Our baby will find us, until then...We are 4-everwaiting for our angel It finally happened after over 2.5 years of waiting, our angel found us!!! ... Baby Girl Born March 10th! Home forever March 19th, 2009
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#81
01-09-2009, 04:18 PM
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She didn't say no, so take it at face value.
I'll be thinking of you, and mom with her hard choice ahead. best of luck!
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Our journey...http://callahancrew.blogspot.com/ Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. ~Dr. Seuss 10/07 - We start home study visits, requirements, and paperwork! 12/07 - Approved to adopt. 01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old! 11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day! 06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again?  06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother. 07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY! 07/28/09 - Matty is in our arms!    Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Diet Plans
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#82
01-09-2009, 04:32 PM
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More time is fine. Its not no. You are not jinxed. The one good thing about being involved in these situtations is that it gets you excited and gives you the strength to continue on. Even if she decided to keep this baby, you will have had two weeks of hope and excitement. Two weeks where you did something other than sit there with no news. That's good right?
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#83
01-09-2009, 04:40 PM
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oh, sandra, you must be so anxious!!! i ditto what aclee said...and pamper yourself this weekend!!!
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#84
01-09-2009, 04:42 PM
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Girl, pour yourself a nice glass of wine. I know this must be excruciating! We are all here to support you!! 
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 Jules5/23/06- our sweet baby Samuel Miles born 1/19/07 - Home with The Giggler and never been happier! 11/08/06 - our sweet baby Lucas Matthew born 8/21/07 - Home!!! The Growler is just like his brother - a complete HONEY BEAR! June 4, 2009- Julian "Jude" Thomas born. He is the sweetest of hearts. Oh, how I love my boys so! Our children are not ours because they share our genes...they are ours because we have had the audacity to envision them and hope for them. That, at the end of the day...or long sleepless night, is how love really works. - Unknown I LOVE MY SWEET SONS!!!
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#85
01-09-2009, 04:43 PM
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ITA! Get some Ben and Jerry's or something.  I'm glad she's taking this time to make up her mind, but boy, your anxiety has to be through the roof!
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Signed with facilitator 1/23/07 Profile completed & sent 2/07 M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07 Cameron is born 11/10/07 FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08 Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07 Life is beautiful, but it's complicated. We barely make it. We don't need to understand, There are miracles, miracles. Yeah, life is beautiful. Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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#86
01-09-2009, 05:34 PM
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I third or fourth what the others have shared...it wasn't a NO
But I fully understand being on pins and needles. Praying the PBMOM makes the best choice for her and her newborn. Wish the wait part was easier to deal with... Have a glass of wineGod Bless and Sending Prayers to you and PBMOM! Summer
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#87
01-09-2009, 05:57 PM
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I can't imagine how hard it must be for her too... I hope that if she decides against it you'll be matched soon...
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Started Domestic Adoption 12/05 In the books 05/06 Got the call 02/25/08 - DS and DD born that day! Finalized 09/30/08
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#88
01-09-2009, 06:17 PM
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Yes, this is definitely a hard situation for everyone involved - pbmom, preemie baby, and pa-parents. My thoughts are with all of you. And hey, Sandra - The Ben and Jerry's is a great idea. Take care of yourselves.
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dd born 12/01 dd/ds twins born 5/04 Started Domestic Adoption Process 6/10/07 Matched to Day Old Baby Boy 10/24/07 Match Failed 10/25/07 Decided to Switch to Foster/Adopt 3/1/08 Licensed!! 8/11/08 Placements: T 2 Yrs Old 4-13-09 to 4-15-09 - Went to Kinship 
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#89
01-09-2009, 07:11 PM
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still praying!!
God Bless, Summer
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Adoptee 1979 , BMOM to E 1995, mom, and more
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#90
01-09-2009, 07:12 PM
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Both!!!!!!!!!!!!
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