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Old 01-08-2009, 12:47 PM
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The first thing I learned about the adoption process is to expect the unexpected, as that's all you can count on.
Hang in there and don't give up! Tomorrow might bring its own surprises.
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Old 01-08-2009, 12:51 PM
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Sandra, hang in there. I think you are smart to let things with the toddler play out. I am hoping that you get good news tomorrow....

I remember something my mother saying to me when I was struggling for years to have a child: "Good waiters make good tips!" I wanted to throttle her, so I won't repeat it. But I know you have had a long wait and I hope you are a mom soon!!
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Thanks guys, good or bad- tomorrows the day!!!! We're so nervous, excited, concerned for PBM, just ready for an answer!!! It's so humbling to know what could make us so happy could in turn have the opposite effect on PBM...
At least we know we gave her time and room to make her choice without pressure in anyway.

Guys, thanks for keeping the faith and for sending good thoughts and prayers!

We can do this!!!!

I'll keep you all posted!

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1993 decided to start a family
1995 discovered problems
1995-1998 fertility Drs and surgeries
1999-2003 break from it all
2003-2005 thought about adoption but trying to find a way to afford it.
2006 decided to do whatever it took to create a family. Money should not decide a family!
January 2006 gathering information applying for homestudy.
July 2006 homestudy completed- we are officially waiting!

July 06-March 09 Several situations that didn't work out..

Our baby will find us, until then...

We are 4-everwaiting for our angel

It finally happened after over 2.5 years of waiting, our angel found us!!! ... Baby Girl Born March 10th!

Home forever March 19th, 2009
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Old 01-08-2009, 07:24 PM
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Sandra,

Pulling out all the stops for good thoughts, vibes, and prayers!

Hopefully tomorrow is a wonderfully, exciting day!

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01/09: Another referral out, still in limbo, world appears to be crumbling...ugh!
08: Very sick parent and grandparent, declined one match, one referral for a waiting child, and several presentations...time is not being kind to us.
07: Officially waiting with an agency!!

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Old 01-08-2009, 07:26 PM
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Praying for you, whatever news you get tomorrow!
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Guatemala Timeline:
Accepted Referral 10/11/07
12/27/07 to 1/3/08: Visit trip-a tiny taste of heaven!
1/7/08: Our sweet baby girl dies in her sleep

Domestic Timeline:
4/5/2008: Updated homestudy for Domestic done
4/10/2008: Family profile book done
4/21/2008: Matched with a baby already born! (who happens to be Guatemalan American!)
4/24/2008: Meeting our son for the first time!
5/10/2008: Finally home forever!

2009:
Starting the journey again and praying for the budget to fall into place!

Benicio's blog:
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In memory of Ariana Maria: www.adoptingariana.blogspot.com
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Old 01-09-2009, 06:27 AM
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Very anxiously waiting since today is.....FRIDAY!
Hoping and praying today is your day.
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Old 01-09-2009, 06:33 AM
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I'll be checking all day.

Thinking of you Sandra!
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Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07

Life is beautiful, but it's complicated.
We barely make it.
We don't need to understand,
There are miracles, miracles.

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Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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Old 01-09-2009, 07:00 AM
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Quote:
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I'll be checking all day.

Thinking of you Sandra!

Me too! Hope today is a great day for you!
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I know you are on pins and needles today. We're all thinking of you!!!
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Old 01-09-2009, 09:11 AM
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Oh I can't wait to hear!!!!
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Aug-Signed w/ agency....canceled w/ agency.
Sept-Started HS; 3 visits: 9/2/08, 9/15/08, 9/18/08
9/15/08-Got a call about a little girl on the 12th. Profile shown. Not chosen.
9/15/08-MATCHED!!
9/17/08-Unmatched do to situation being too difficult...
9/17/08-Profile being shown to birthmom that has given birth!!! Never heard back
9/18/08-10pm, got call about little girl born early that morning! We've been chosen and need to be there to pick up baby from the hospital!!!!!
9/19/08-Met baby, birthmom, and birthmom's mother!!!
9/20/08-Discharged from hospital with baby!!!
10/2/08-ICPC paperwork submitted....FINALLY! Only a few more days until we can go home!!!
10/7/08-ICPC granted! We're home!!!

Only 16 days from start of home study to holding our beautiful daughter in our arms! God works miracles!!
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Can't wait to hear an update; praying for you!
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August '07 Matched with emom
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Blessed with the most wonderful baby girl in the whole wide world!

Starting the process again for #2, June 2009
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Old 01-09-2009, 11:24 AM
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I'll be checking all day.

Thinking of you Sandra!

Ditto here...
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Girl I am praying too!!!!!
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* From 1st meeting with Agency til baby was at home in our arms was 4 months! God truly blessed our family. We owe EVERYTHING to him *
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