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12-03-2008, 03:42 PM
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feeling sick to my stomach....
We have been matched with our birthmom and she has given birth. It's been 48 hours and she has not signed. She is "on the fence". We left the hospital and are now just waiting to hear something...........I feel like I am going to be SICK!!!!!!!
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www.jordanandjaxonworld.blogspot.com #1 Guatemala referral 8-26-2005 home April 7th, 2006 --------------------- #2 2007 April started 2nd int. adoption 2008 change of plans.... going Domestic matched Nov. 2008! Baby #2 born Dec. 1 2008 
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#2
12-03-2008, 03:44 PM
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I'm sorry... I hope you hear something soon...
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Started Domestic Adoption 12/05 In the books 05/06 Got the call 02/25/08 - DS and DD born that day! Finalized 09/30/08
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12-03-2008, 03:44 PM
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I am sending you all hugs and prayers!!!
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 Jules5/23/06- our sweet baby Samuel Miles born 1/19/07 - Home with The Giggler and never been happier! 11/08/06 - our sweet baby Lucas Matthew born 8/21/07 - Home!!! The Growler is just like his brother - a complete HONEY BEAR! June 4, 2009- Julian "Jude" Thomas born. He is the sweetest of hearts. Oh, how I love my boys so! Our children are not ours because they share our genes...they are ours because we have had the audacity to envision them and hope for them. That, at the end of the day...or long sleepless night, is how love really works. - Unknown I LOVE MY SWEET SONS!!!
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12-03-2008, 03:45 PM
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I am so sorry, hang in there.
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August 2005 - approved with 1st agency October 2006 - 1st match (she lost the baby at 7 months) November 2006- 2nd match May 2007 - birthmom chose to parent July 2007 - decided to switch agencies Jan. 2008 - approved with agency #2 July 2008 - placed with our forever kids - sib set of 3 November 2008 - suprise phone call and we added their younger brother March 24, 2009 - finalized adoptions for first 3 June 16, 2009 - finalize adoption for #4
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12-03-2008, 03:47 PM
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We went thru the same thing. She needed more time. We brought the baby home as a foster placement to give her an additional 10 days to make her decision. She then signed. I wish you the best. I certainly know how you are feeling.
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Josie Mom to 8 EXTRAordinary little kids and big kids. 4 by birth, 4 by adoption -- how LUCKY am I???? "You must BE the change you want to see in the world." M.K. Gahndi
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12-03-2008, 03:49 PM
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UGH! I am so sorry you are feeling so sick to your stomach! I hate that feeling!!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers!
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April '07 Signed with Facilitator August '07 Matched with emom October '07 Babygirl M Born  December '07 Adoption is finalized  Blessed with the most wonderful baby girl in the whole wide world! Starting the process again for #2, June 2009 
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12-03-2008, 04:14 PM
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Oh my goodness you poor thing.
Hang in there and keep us updated.
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Signed with facilitator 1/23/07  Profile completed & sent 2/07 M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07  Cameron is born 11/10/07 FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08  Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07 Life is beautiful, but it's complicated. We barely make it. We don't need to understand, There are miracles, miracles. Yeah, life is beautiful. Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4)
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12-03-2008, 04:20 PM
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Soooo sorry!!! Fingers are crossed
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3/08 DS born   3/14/08 He's home!! 10/08/08 Finalized!!!!  * From 1st meeting with Agency til baby was at home in our arms was 4 months! God truly blessed our family. We owe EVERYTHING to him *
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12-03-2008, 04:38 PM
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You're in my thoughts today.
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 Hoping to add to our family SOON!March 2007- homestudy begins, but then put on hold for 1 year.  June 2008- Back in the saddle again September 2008- Homestudy approved, now just WAITING!!  February 2009- Presented with baby born situation, but declined based upon multiple issues.  September 2009- Expectant couple due in January is choosing between us and another couple.  November 2009- It's a match, and it's a BOY!
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12-03-2008, 04:41 PM
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Oh honey, I'm sooo sorry!
Thoughts and prayers are with you! Sandra
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1993 decided to start a family 1995 discovered problems 1995-1998 fertility Drs and surgeries 1999-2003 break from it all 2003-2005 thought about adoption but trying to find a way to afford it. 2006 decided to do whatever it took to create a family. Money should not decide a family! January 2006 gathering information applying for homestudy. July 2006 homestudy completed- we are officially waiting! July 06-March 09 Several situations that didn't work out.. Our baby will find us, until then...We are 4-everwaiting for our angel  It finally happened after over 2.5 years of waiting, our angel found us!!! ... Baby Girl Born March 10th! Home forever March 19th, 2009
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12-03-2008, 04:52 PM
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So sorry that you're going through this - just know that if and when she does decide to sign that she'll be sure in her decision. If that takes a few more days, it will be worth it once the child is part of your family.
Prayers and hugs to you and to this Mom making a huge decision.
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Thanksgivingmom Community Moderator Safe Haven First Mom in an Open Adoption Blogger: I Should Really Be Working
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12-03-2008, 05:09 PM
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jpeel,
My thoughts and prayers are with your family and this woman who has just given birth.
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12-03-2008, 05:21 PM
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My sentiments exactly.
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“Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.” - Barbara Kingsolver "If you have love, you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have." - Sir James M. Barrie "Nothing's gonna change my world." - John Lennon
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12-03-2008, 05:28 PM
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Our son's birthparents took him home for a week because they were on the fence. They've since shared with us that they really needed that time to think and then ultimately that time to say goodbye. Hang in there hun. I know exactly how you feel and it's a hard place to be.
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Ashley, 27 y/o married to Mark sweet son Declan Isaac born 8.25.08/home 9.2.08 our road: started adoption process March '08 5.19.08...matched with emom due Sept. 10th 5.27.08...found out emom/edad are leaning towards parenting and we're now the "back up plan" 6.30.08...emom will only parent if her and edad get married. edad said NO and they informed us they'll be doing an adoption plan 8.25.08...our son was born! 8.26.08...we find out birthparents need more time and they take the baby home for 7 days. We were crushed. 9.2.08...to our shock TPR was signed. Our son is home! www.morethandogchildren.blogspot.com
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12-03-2008, 06:05 PM
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Exactly, a decision like this shouldn't be made quickly, as hard as it is for everyone.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult. 1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go. 2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate. 4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl! 5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling. 6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome. 7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
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