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Old 12-01-2008, 06:47 PM
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If it makes you feel any better - I work for the state doing foster care adoptions - they are just as nasty to state workers as everyone else. I think it must be a requirement to be hired!
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Old 12-01-2008, 07:30 PM
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Hey Storm,

I am so sorry you had a bad experience!!! Have you tried the office in New Rochelle?? They were really nice when we went there.

Here's the info:

SOCIAL SECURITY
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Hope this help!

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Old 12-01-2008, 07:46 PM
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Storm (and others) - wow, I am so sorry!! I had no idea that it could be that hard.

With both boys, I had researched it on the Internet first. Bing bang boom - 5 minutes in and out.

Why don't you all come here? We can go to our friendly and not busy office. Social Security # Party!! Woooo HOOOOO!!!
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Old 12-01-2008, 08:11 PM
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Hey Storm,

I am so sorry you had a bad experience!!! Have you tried the office in New Rochelle?? They were really nice when we went there.

Here's the info:

SOCIAL SECURITY
STREET LEVEL
85 HARRISON ST
NEW ROCHELLE, NY 10801


Hope this help!

--Renee
Thank you so much, i will go there!
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Old 12-01-2008, 08:59 PM
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To me it's a kicker they want the immunization record. What if you said, we don't see a Dr, it's against our religon. What would they want then? What they want is so random. I'm going to bring ever piece of paper with Ty's name on it. I don't have the amended BC yet though, so I think I'm only going to get the Identification number, or whatever it is. I'm going wait and do it in Jan...
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I'm going to bring ever piece of paper with Ty's name on it. I don't have the amended BC yet though, so I think I'm only going to get the Identification number, or whatever it is.

That's what I did...the first time I went there for AJ, they give me nonsense because they wanted the paperwork from BOTH times we went to court, plus one showing his name change (Must be MI SS offices, ED)

When I went for JD, I brought my 4 inch binder that held every piece of paper that we had from the adoption...Everything from the Adoption cert. to our fire escape plan.

The worker was not amused...
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Old 12-01-2008, 09:07 PM
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When I went for JD, I brought my 4 inch binder that held every piece of paper that we had from the adoption...Everything from the Adoption cert. to our fire escape plan.

The worker was not amused...

I LOVE IT...and am very amused!!
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Old 12-02-2008, 05:04 AM
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That's what I did...the first time I went there for AJ, they give me nonsense because they wanted the paperwork from BOTH times we went to court, plus one showing his name change (Must be MI SS offices, ED)

When I went for JD, I brought my 4 inch binder that held every piece of paper that we had from the adoption...Everything from the Adoption cert. to our fire escape plan.

The worker was not amused...

Ooooh awesome, you out documented the SS office!
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Old 12-02-2008, 06:17 AM
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That's what I did...the first time I went there for AJ, they give me nonsense because they wanted the paperwork from BOTH times we went to court, plus one showing his name change (Must be MI SS offices, ED)


It wasn't the A2 office, was it?
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Old 12-02-2008, 06:26 AM
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No...I'm WAAAYYYY on the east side.

Looks like we have equal opportunity knuckleheads in Michigan!
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Old 12-02-2008, 07:02 AM
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To me it's a kicker they want the immunization record. What if you said, we don't see a Dr, it's against our religon. What would they want then? ...

Cameron didn't have one due to his heart defect, so I asked and all they said to bring in was his insurance card. It wasn't a big deal at all.
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Old 12-02-2008, 10:55 AM
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Cameron didn't have one due to his heart defect, so I asked and all they said to bring in was his insurance card. It wasn't a big deal at all.

What if his insurance card doesn't have his name on it? All our insurance cards look the same, and they only have DH name on them as the subscriber...
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Old 12-02-2008, 10:56 AM
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That's what I did...the first time I went there for AJ, they give me nonsense because they wanted the paperwork from BOTH times we went to court, plus one showing his name change (Must be MI SS offices, ED)

When I went for JD, I brought my 4 inch binder that held every piece of paper that we had from the adoption...Everything from the Adoption cert. to our fire escape plan.

The worker was not amused...

I'm doing it.
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01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old!
11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day!

06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again?
06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother.
07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY!
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Can I still apply for the adoption tax credit using the temporary # I used last year?[/quote]

Yes-the temp # is good for 2 years, then the IRS will inactivate it.
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