[Beautyqueen616]

So I guess I should say we may be expecting again. I had emailed her because I had not heard from her in awhile (our's is an odd relationship, we have been friends forever families known each other forever) and had been worried. I'd also been having baby dreams and so had MIL. She told me she had not contacted me because she may be pregnant and did not know how to tell us because she does not want us to be dissapointed, does not want to be pregnant but has no money for the pills or shots and no longer has medicaid and can't go to the Dr. and will want us to take the baby if she is.

I emailed her back and asked her when her last period was and if she had any symptoms. Told her we were not dissapointed but worried about her. We had been because it has been mid April since we last talked to her. I also asked her if she wants me to come get her and take her for a test.

I really hope that she's not. We want another baby but not that way. I know it hurt her so much the first time but it was what she felt was right and what she wanted plus DD would have been taken away and put into foster care. She tries to play it like she did not and does not care but I know she does.

[jalapeno]

Sending hugs to all involved.

I hope it turns out to be a false alarm!

[Beautyqueen616]

I do too but the only thing I can say is I've been having baby dreams for several weeks now, MIL has been having dreams about S being pregnant and now she tells me she hasn't had a period, isn't on BCPs and all that. So all signs point to yes.

Hopefully she will email me back today with more info and DH and I will go get her a test tomorrow or take her for one. We need to get an attorney involved ASAP since she has no insurance or anything and the bio dad would be this guy who is nearly as old as me and she is 16! Her dad has allowed this guy to live with her and as bad as it sounds, I don't want him to have the baby. What kind of "man" can he be sleeping with a GIRL 10 years younger then him. Don't get me started on her own father, she has no mom she walked out on them.

[Beautyqueen616]

Ok so I got more info. I think she may be yanking our chains for attention. She's good at it. She told me she has not even had a period since last December, I just found out she dropped out of high school becuase "it messes with her sleeping". I don't know. I'm just going to let it be what it is and I will know soon enough, her dad and my FIL are in contat pretty often (they have been friends forever) so who knows. Her dad does not even know half of what she does, or he does and chooses to look the other way. The older guy no longer lives with her. She said she has no boyfriend right now and hasn't for "a whole week". I wish there was more we could do for her but honestly her parents wouldn't let us help back when she was little and it's to late now.