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Old 11-11-2008, 05:37 PM
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international and domestic adoptions.

Anyone out there adopted internationally and also domestic? We are on our 2nd adoption and the 1st was international. Some of the birthmoms that have looked at our profile our concerned by our international adoption. I guess that feel that it would be hard on one child to have no contact with birth family and for the other to have a more open relationship. If you have done both, what are your thoughts on this? I feel that each child is different and are going to have different types of relationships in their lives. Sometimes I feel that these birthmom's are not giving us a chance.
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home April 7th, 2006

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2007 April started 2nd int. adoption
2008 change of plans....
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Baby #2 born Dec. 1 2008
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Old 11-11-2008, 06:43 PM
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I haven't BTDT, but I have a son through domestic adoption and his birthmom wants no contact at all, so even if we adopt domestically again, we could still have one child without birthparent contact and one with. Best of luck in your journey!
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Accepted Referral 10/11/07
12/27/07 to 1/3/08: Visit trip-a tiny taste of heaven!
1/7/08: Our sweet baby girl dies in her sleep

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4/5/2008: Updated homestudy for Domestic done
4/10/2008: Family profile book done
4/21/2008: Matched with a baby already born! (who happens to be Guatemalan American!)
4/24/2008: Meeting our son for the first time!
5/10/2008: Finally home forever!

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Starting the journey again and praying for the budget to fall into place!

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Old 11-11-2008, 08:41 PM
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That is interesting and definitely something I had not thought of??!!!

We adopted our 2 sons from Guatemala and are currently waiting for a domestic match.

Best wishes to you and your family.
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5/23/06- our sweet baby Samuel Miles born
1/19/07 - Home with The Giggler and never been happier!


11/08/06 - our sweet baby Lucas Matthew born
8/21/07 - Home!!! The Growler is just like his brother - a complete HONEY BEAR!

June 4, 2009- Julian "Jude" Thomas born. He is the sweetest of hearts. Oh, how I love my boys so!


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