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#31
11-26-2008, 04:41 PM
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I am sorry you guys are going through this. Sending prayers your way!!
Hearing this story makes me never wanna adopt again. People playing with your emotions. The lies etc... are just too much. AARRGH!
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#32
11-26-2008, 04:46 PM
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Hugs
Sending hugs and prayers you and your DH's way!! I wish things had been a lot less stressful on you two but once that baby is yours, it'll be worth it!!!!!
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#33
11-28-2008, 02:52 PM
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The News Is Not Good
The baby's mom did not sign the papers today. She has refused to see or speak to the agency social workers or DH and myself. She doesn't have the decency to look at me or the social worker who has been supporting her for 7 months to say either, "Thank you for all you've done, but I can't go through with it" or "Ha ha I took you guys for everything I could get!" CPS was notified and will take temporary custody of the baby when he is released on Monday. They don't plan to tell mom this until Monday morning. I am sooo ticked off right now and there is nothing I can do to change it. Thank you all for your support. I just have to believe that there was a greater plan in all this and my baby will find me. I am hoping for a baby born situation next. I'm not sure I will be able to open myself up and trust another emom for a while. I hope to have better news soon. Thanks again!
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#34
11-28-2008, 02:55 PM
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I'm so sorry Gwen.
((HUGS))
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#35
11-28-2008, 03:17 PM
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So sorry Gwen. That totally sucks!
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#36
11-28-2008, 03:24 PM
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Gwen, I'm so very sorry.
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#37
11-28-2008, 03:42 PM
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Hard part
Gwen,
I remember this part. This is the hard part and sound like she had a c-section so she will be in the hospital longer. My SW or bmom SW said this is part of your labor. I said labor like this doesn't last three days!! I wanted to pounce on her. My son's bmom same situation she could either give it up for adoption or they would take it and she knew this as they took her second child at birth but still you never know. It ain't over til it's over sort of thing. Good thoughts and prayers going your way. Good LUck Ange
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#38
11-28-2008, 04:30 PM
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Gwen I am soooooo sorry and also p'ed off!!
See thankfully we had an already born situation. This kind of thing would make me wanna slap her silly! The nerve after all you've done and then nothing! No word or anything. NOT COOL!
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3/08 DS born 3/14/08 He's home!! 10/08/08 Finalized!!!! * From 1st meeting with Agency til baby was at home in our arms was 4 months! God truly blessed our family. We owe EVERYTHING to him *
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#39
11-28-2008, 04:34 PM
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Gwen, honey I'm so sorry this is happening!!!
Sandra
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1993 decided to start a family 1995 discovered problems 1995-1998 fertility Drs and surgeries 1999-2003 break from it all 2003-2005 thought about adoption but trying to find a way to afford it. 2006 decided to do whatever it took to create a family. Money should not decide a family! January 2006 gathering information applying for homestudy. July 2006 homestudy completed- we are officially waiting! July 06-March 09 Several situations that didn't work out.. Our baby will find us, until then...We are 4-everwaiting for our angel  It finally happened after over 2.5 years of waiting, our angel found us!!! ... Baby Girl Born March 10th! Home forever March 19th, 2009 
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11-28-2008, 04:48 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this...(((hugs))) to you...
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11-28-2008, 05:04 PM
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I am really sorry.
Sending you hugs, hopes and prayers for peace.
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#42
11-28-2008, 05:13 PM
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I am so sorry Gwen.. I was hoping for a good news from you today.. Your baby will find you... I just got my home study approved on the 18. I was telling my friend.. I want the baby already born so I can eliminate to go through this.. I am very sorry..
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#43
11-28-2008, 05:26 PM
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So very sorry to hear it
 {{HUGS}}
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#44
11-28-2008, 05:36 PM
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HI Gwen, i am soooooo sorry to hear that this happened. i hope that she just decided to parent the baby instead of scamming you guys. i cant believe that people would do that. i am just starting my home study and i am terrified that something like this will happen to me. Again, i'm so sorry and hopefully you wont have as many problems next time. Good luck!!!
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#45
11-28-2008, 06:39 PM
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Gwen~so sorry this happened to you. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
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