Family Forums
Parenting Forums
Pregnancy Forums
Adoption Forums
Fertility Forums






Members List Photos Events Local Adoption Support Search Arcade Reviews Membership Upgrade
Welcome to the Forums. Register
If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts.
Forum Categories
User Name
Password

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 10-07-2008, 06:07 AM
skilack's Avatar
skilack skilack is offline
Momma to 4
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 486
Total Points: 10,790.56
Donate
toddler carseat question

Its finally time to buy our little guy a toddler seat for my car.

Does anyone know the answer to this. When you forward face the seat and use the latch, do you have to use the top tether strap? My car doesn't have a top tether. I wasn't sure if I have to use the carseat strap instead. I can't find the answer anywhere.

How old were your kids when you turned them around?We aren't sure if we are forward facing him or rear. Depending on the car seat it might not fit rear facing.

Thanks.
Reply With Quote
Adoption Information
Scott & Dee (NJ)
are hoping to adopt
Scott & Dee hoping to adopt A Service of Adoption Profiles

  #2  
Old 10-07-2008, 06:13 AM
Fran27 Fran27 is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 2,360
Total Points: 5,513,951.38
Donate
Well, the law is, rear facing until 20lbs and one year. In practice though, it's much safer to keep them rear facing as long as possible. If you do a google search, there is a video that shows why. It's scary. So, I'll definitely keep mine rear facing until 30-35lb.

I'm no help for your other question, none of our cars have LATCH.
__________________
Started Domestic Adoption 12/05
In the books 05/06
Got the call 02/25/08 - DS and DD born that day!
Finalized 09/30/08


Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 10-07-2008, 06:47 AM
DPline's Avatar
DPline DPline is offline
Taking a Stand

Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 12,519
Total Points: 222,028,281.09
Donate
Definetly keep your child rear facing for as long as possible. It is definetly much safer.

If your car has LATCH points in the seat byte it also must have a teather point. It is part of the LATCH system.

Very few convertable seats teather rear facing but it is always better to have a forward facing seat teathered if possible. Do read your car seat and vehicle owners manual though for weight maximums for the teather.

This link might help you LATCH and Top Tether Information for Child Safety Seat Restraints
__________________
Debbie - Mom to 3
Including 2 from Guatemala

Community Moderator

Last edited by DPline : 10-07-2008 at 06:53 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 10-07-2008, 06:58 AM
catey catey is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Nov 2007
Posts: 17
Total Points: 877.10
Donate
Here is a website where you can search for a Child Safety Seat Inspection site close to your home. Good luck.

Child Safety Seat Inspection Station Locator
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 10-07-2008, 07:01 AM
mommieof2cuties's Avatar
mommieof2cuties mommieof2cuties is offline
Mom of 4 great kids:)
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 2,298
Total Points: 44,700.25
Donate
Go to your dealership and have them install the top teather if for some reason you don't have one, if you have an SUV they can be hidden! for example, on the floor, on the back of the seat. All carseats should be installed using the latch and top tether when it can be as that is the best way to install.

Summer

I love Britax, always safe, seldom recalled and you can get one that will remain a five point for 65 pounds and another one till 85 pounds five point is the safest carseat you can get! It is about being safe! My oldest will be in a five point until he is 85 pounds, he is only 30 pounds, has a long way to go
__________________
Adoptee 1979 , BMOM to E 1995, mom, and more
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 10-07-2008, 11:28 AM
skilack's Avatar
skilack skilack is offline
Momma to 4
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 486
Total Points: 10,790.56
Donate
Thanks everyone. I have a SUV. I just can't find the top tether. I will have to check the owners manual.

I notice people always say weight for rear facing,does height matter too? My guy is skinny but tall. Almost every car seat he outgrew is because of his height. I'll be lucky he is 30 pounds when he is five. LOL.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 10-07-2008, 12:06 PM
Fran27 Fran27 is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 2,360
Total Points: 5,513,951.38
Donate
Yes not sure of the height though... but I'd say it's going to be way past one year anyway before they outgrow it (there needs to be one inch between the top of the seat and their head).
__________________
Started Domestic Adoption 12/05
In the books 05/06
Got the call 02/25/08 - DS and DD born that day!
Finalized 09/30/08


Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 10-07-2008, 01:11 PM
DPline's Avatar
DPline DPline is offline
Taking a Stand

Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 12,519
Total Points: 222,028,281.09
Donate
Quote:
Originally Posted by mommieof2cuties
All carseats should be installed using the latch and top tether when it can be as that is the best way to install.


A seat correctly installed with a seatbelt is just as safe as one correctly installed with LATCH. LATCH may make it easier to get a proper installation, but is not in and of itself safer.



skilack - The maximum height and weight is totally dependent upon the seat and the maximums for that seat. There is a sticker on your child's car seat that will tell you what those maximums are for rear and forward facing. The one year and 20 lbs minimum is to get the child to a developmental point where their body is hopefully strong enough to withstand the crash forces while forward facing. The older/bigger/stronger they are the better though. That is why it is better to keep them rear facing as long as possible. (We would all be better off rear facing but I would get mighty car sick!)

To the best of my knowledge there are no documented cases of children who legs where injured in a crash because their legs were touching the back of the seat, folded, or whatever. But there are many children in hosptials with horrific neck and spinal injuries because they were turned around too soon. Keep them rear facing until they max out the rear facing weight limit for the seat or max out of the seat in height. Whichever comes first. (I have one of those tall skinny kids who always out grew them in height first too. )
__________________
Debbie - Mom to 3
Including 2 from Guatemala

Community Moderator

Last edited by DPline : 10-07-2008 at 01:16 PM.
Reply With Quote

  #9  
Old 10-07-2008, 01:49 PM
skilack's Avatar
skilack skilack is offline
Momma to 4
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 486
Total Points: 10,790.56
Donate
Quote:
(We would all be better off rear facing but I would get mighty car sick!)

Me too!!! Thanks Debbie for the info. There is so much info out there I never know what to believe.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 10-07-2008, 01:55 PM
DPline's Avatar
DPline DPline is offline
Taking a Stand

Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 12,519
Total Points: 222,028,281.09
Donate
And there is a lot of BAD information out there!

The NHTSA website is another good one for car seat info. Home | National Highway Traffic Safety Administration(NHTSA) | U.S. Department of Transportation It is what catey linked to above to find a car seat check location but there is also a lot of other good info. there as well.
__________________
Debbie - Mom to 3
Including 2 from Guatemala

Community Moderator
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 10-07-2008, 02:43 PM
HappyHopefulMommy HappyHopefulMommy is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 598
Total Points: 19,372.12
Donate
The childs height also affects the car seat. My daughter outgrew her infant car seat at 4 months old because of height. So we bought the toddler convertible car seat and had it rear facing until she was 20 pounds. So even if their height is too long for a specific car seat, they do still have to be rear facing.
__________________
August 2005 - approved with 1st agency
October 2006 - 1st match (she lost the baby at 7 months)
November 2006- 2nd match
May 2007 - birthmom chose to parent
July 2007 - decided to switch agencies
Jan. 2008 - approved with agency #2

July 2008 - placed with our forever kids - sib set of 3
November 2008 - suprise phone call and we added their younger brother
March 24, 2009 - finalized adoptions for first 3
June 16, 2009 - finalize adoption for #4
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 10-07-2008, 06:25 PM
calpal calpal is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 12
Total Points: 1,091.46
Donate
I listened to two weeks of child car seat experts a few years ago. They all strongly recomended using the tether regardless of whether you are using the latch system or the seat belt, primarily to reduce the possibility of a head injury. Most SUV's I've driven have the attachment on the back of the seat.
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old 10-07-2008, 07:21 PM
mommieof2cuties's Avatar
mommieof2cuties mommieof2cuties is offline
Mom of 4 great kids:)
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 2,298
Total Points: 44,700.25
Donate
I agree and if the seatbelt fails, that is why they came up with the latch and the tether as a way to install
__________________
Adoptee 1979 , BMOM to E 1995, mom, and more
Reply With Quote
Click Here to Learn More
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:11 AM.


Click Here to Learn More