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Old 10-06-2008, 08:10 PM
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Native American Adoptions

Has anyone adopted a child that was part (or all) Native American? I know it has it's own complications. We were contacted about a possible cc/na situation. Just hoping for some info that could help us.

I don't yet know the tribe.

I don't expect in depth legal advice because I will contact our attorney as soon as we know more info. But any help would be appreciated. Thanks!!
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Old 10-06-2008, 09:06 PM
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We've looked into it, as my husband is non status/Metis (we're not sure where he fits exactly, as he was adopted and we don't know where his bgrandmother signed on the treaty).

I don't know about the States, but here in Canada, adopting a Treaty child is next to impossible. Bands MUST consent, and very very very few do. If the child is non status, then it can proceed as a regular adoption from what I know.

Honestly, it makes me more than a little mental. While I understand that the spectre of children being ripped from their homes is a very real and recent event, having children live in foster care when there are ppl that are wanting to adopt them makes no sense to me either.
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Old 10-06-2008, 09:13 PM
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Where I live, if the child is eligible for enrollment, there are hoops that you have to jump through. The NA parent cannot sign until 10 days after the birth and it must be done in front of a judge. Also, they then have until finalization to revoke consent. I don't know if that's the case everywhere, but it is here.
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Has anyone adopted a child that was part (or all) Native American? I know it has it's own complications. We were contacted about a possible cc/na situation. Just hoping for some info that could help us.

I don't yet know the tribe.

I don't expect in depth legal advice because I will contact our attorney as soon as we know more info. But any help would be appreciated. Thanks!!
-Kristin

My understanding is that a Native American child falls under ICWA (the Indian Child Welfare Act) if his/her parents are registered with a Native American tribe. If one or both parents are registered, then the tribe has the right to make decisions regarding the child's placement. A tribe can choose to allow the birthparent / social workers (depending upon whether it is a foster care or an adoptive situation) to decide where to place the child, or it can select adoptive or foster parents from within the tribe. But it's up to them.

If neither parent is registered, then ICWA does not apply and the adoption is no different from any other domestic adoption.
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There is a person on these boards named Devil Dog Wife. She adopted her Native American son Cameron through a facilitator. You should PM her and ask for more insight on this tedious process.
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Just wanted to say make sure you talk to an attorney who HAS worked with that specific tribe as they can give you the best answer. In Oklahoma, they do a search and if any of the birth-GRANDPARENTS are registered, even if they chose to not be a part of the tribe and therefore did not enroll their children, some tribes still consider the tribal link intact. For ICPC in Oklahoma they actually have a tribal liason and you provide the family names as far back as you can and they search to make sure you wont have any issues later on and that the ICWA laws have been abided by.

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If neither parent is registered, then ICWA does not apply and the adoption is no different from any other domestic adoption.

I think it goes farther back than just the parents. I think it goes back to any grandparent registered since like 1906 or something like that.
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My children are Native American

Their biomom is registered with a tribe, however the tribe is not Federally recognized so ours proceeded as a regular adoption. The caseworkers did have to verify all this with ICWA - I believe the birth fathers were not registered with their tribes.

When the tribe is Federally recognized (which apparently it's working on) then our children will qualify for benefits. We are trying to figure out how to register them. Birth Grandma is very involved in the tribe, and has given us some info on how to register, but we have to have birth certificates (which we don't have the original ones - and the new ones have Hubby's and my information on them - so they wouldn't qualify). Still don't know how to proceed.

Probably not helpful to you! Sorry!
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Thanks everyone for the input! We have a great AAAA attorney that will be walking with us on this, but it's always nice to get advice from those who are "in the trenches"!
-Kristin
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If neither parent is registered, then ICWA does not apply and the adoption is no different from any other domestic adoption.

It's my understanding the ICWA could still apply if either parent is qualified by blood percentage to register in the tribe.
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Here is a link that looks pretty helpful.

Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA) FAQ - National Indian Child Welfare Association
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